Affairs wif MARRIED MAN

[Oralcraz]

Originally Posted by dec_gal

Dear Sis,
sad to hear that.. sigh... but that's the rule of this kind of relationship...
by the way, mind to share how long hv this relationship last?

I'm wondering when I hv to STOP, am I able to control my feelings or not? sob sob.... *keeping finger cross*

Glad u are mentally n psychologically prepared.

[usmjordan2]

this is the mind game

[dec_gal]

Originally Posted by Oralcraz

Glad u are mentally n psychologically prepared.

actually although i know there is RULE in this type of relationship.. But I think will be quite "LOST" when the relationship have to be end... which I do not hope it will come so fast....

[rav_taz]

When come to this type of relationship, I seriously dun think it will last long...
Most impt is that both parties muz know that this is purely no strings attached...
N when come to then end of the relationship, gotta let it go n dun get emotional attached.

[dec_gal]

Originally Posted by Blue_gal

well, when u played, u will have to play with the rules ...this is part of "THE GAME"..

hmm. said it lasted abt 3 months plus.....till we were "saw" by his friend holding hands on the street.[many time, i will not hold his hands but then..sometime just can't control...] after that the balloon "bursted"..he had managed to "cover Up" but then my feeling sux.....furthermore his 2nd kid is coming on the way...he had wanted to make "plan" for "us".. but then..i am not "into" IT...so i have to End It...i am a woman after all..during pregenecy a woman will need a lot of care and love....n i dun like to share my "stuff" when its "MY"...so..i am "OUT"..

Full of excitment, paitent, understanding and SEX...[not to say, guilty also...esp after the "enjoy" stealing someone hubsand's time...] i believe there isn't any thing "FREE" in this world, it always come wif "condition"...tat is LIFE

i were there ONCE before...so married guys out there dun need to "offer"...thank u very much

Guess i will "retire" for a while...going back to my "plain" life again...kekeke..well better to have "colourful life" wif "condition attached"...

dec_gal: wish u good luck! well have to be strong wif wat u have set in your MIND..n in wat u wanna...JIA U!..guess u must be still young so there are plenty of "fishes" in the sea...slowly pick the rite once...

cheer~
BitChy Blue Aunt|e

Dear sis,

think both of u had enjoyed & treasured the precious 3 mths.... When the "red light" is show .. no choice but we have to "STOP/END"...

thanks for the "gd luck" ... I also "once" b4 too...EX had affair... I din relieased I also "fall/trap" into this type of relationship .. no wish to.. but things jus happened natural.. feeling too... There will no future for this current guy.. althought he does not hv a child yet.. sooner or later there will be.. Chiam... I wondered can I able to "accept" or not....hopefully... not so soon.. but can't be there self-fish either... Jus let's nature take its course... and hope everything is in control & safe...

[Blue_gal]

Woah it had Been like almost 4yrs...I m still with Him......

In betwEEn I did Try to meet others available OnES.... but still we eNded up together again....

I Do LoVe him as a Friend who share My LiFe... n also my sometime. NeED.. so guess we really the SO called the FB? ...m LosT... why can't b another OnE like Him?..

[littlepok]

Originally Posted by Blue_gal

Woah it had Been like almost 4yrs...I m still with Him......

In betwEEn I did Try to meet others available OnES.... but still we eNded up together again....

I Do LoVe him as a Friend who share My LiFe... n also my sometime. NeED.. so guess we really the SO called the FB? ...m LosT... why can't b another OnE like Him?..

emotional and rational thinking seldom coincide. u gotten all the advice u need but nobody can sway your emotion. can only wish u good luck and play hard

[notti4u]

Originally Posted by Blue_gal

Woah it had Been like almost 4yrs...I m still with Him......

In betwEEn I did Try to meet others available OnES.... but still we eNded up together again....

I Do LoVe him as a Friend who share My LiFe... n also my sometime. NeED.. so guess we really the SO called the FB? ...m LosT... why can't b another OnE like Him?..

Sis, it is like that de. Wondering have you give others a chance to be replace him?

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by Blue_gal

Woah it had Been like almost 4yrs...I m still with Him......

In betwEEn I did Try to meet others available OnES.... but still we eNded up together again....

I Do LoVe him as a Friend who share My LiFe... n also my sometime. NeED.. so guess we really the SO called the FB? ...m LosT... why can't b another OnE like Him?..

Sis after 4 years you willing to maintain status quo? Doesn't that tell you something about him? Don't seems like he wants to make a commitment to you.

[LovePotion]

What is AFFAIRS

Affairs can be exhilarating, exciting, passionate and romantic. They can also be damaging, destructive, painful, time-wasting and demeaning.

[LadyInNeed]

TS we have a common things ...
There is no rite N wrong !!!
We only live once

[yawnzzz]

Me too had a relationship with my long distance cousin few years back.. We hit it off well and we just get into each other pants somehow.. I'm very emotionally involve but we had to end it after his family all move over which our underground affair was nearly disclose..

Come to think of it, it make me horny and sad at the same time.

[chnhubby71]

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[Gerald Tan]

Most important thing is Everyone benefits..the Male & Female beneifts from this relationship without harming his/her 'family'...

[callmebad]

if a woman wants to go into such relationship,she may be thinking that all the good guys are already been taken
or maybe she doesn't want to be committed at all
or she is conned into believing that one day the guy will really divorce his wife and marry her