To stay in or out of a relationship with a KTV gal

[colins]

Originally Posted by kiko

Bro Fatjumbo:

If u really love your gal , and yr gal also love u , ask your gal not to work Ktv anymore, i got lobang can work proper work, as work permit 2 years, u can pm me. Just to let you know, i got news that Thai express food chain is hiring , ask your gal go and interview, I wish u and your gal all the best!

My friend, hope you can keep the lobang about that particular food chain in your PM. You might just get into trouble putting both 'lobang for 2yr work permit' & 'Thai food chain' into a post with the objective of helping a ktv girl get work in singapore.

[Fatjumbo]

Originally Posted by besafe

I think different person. She dun have a kid yet... they are hoping to have 1.
I nearly fainted.. die of heart attack...

Hello Bro besafe,

ok noted, it's another successful story of WL marrying a singaporean man.

don't faint bro...haha. enjoy it while it last !! Cheers

Jumbo

[Fatjumbo]

Dear Bro Kiko,

Great to see u on this thread bro.

>>If u really love your gal , and yr gal also love u , ask your gal not to work Ktv anymore, i got lobang can work proper work, as work permit 2 years, u can pm me. Just to let you know, i got news that Thai express food chain is hiring , ask your gal go and interview, I wish u and your gal all the best!

It will be hard lah bro, In their line of work...money comes in so easily. It will be hard for her to give up such good income for a normal low salary work despite of love love talk here.

[DT23]

dear bros,
me oso encounter same sort of situation now....
after reading all posts, i guess i know what to decide for me!
1st this is not a game for me... i cant affort to lose my family
2nd i dont belived 2 23yo sty will fall for a 40yo uncle lor
3rd i guess is all abt $$$

pay & forget.......
still got my love one wating for me at home

thks

[Fatjumbo]

Originally Posted by DT23

dear bros,
me oso encounter same sort of situation now....
after reading all posts, i guess i know what to decide for me!
1st this is not a game for me... i cant affort to lose my family
2nd i dont belived 2 23yo sty will fall for a 40yo uncle lor
3rd i guess is all abt $$$

pay & forget.......
still got my love one wating for me at home

thks

Dear Bro DT23 and all bros who is tune in to this thread,

Me too, after a whole sunday loboing, pondering over all that has happened over the past mth or so with this gal.

My final conclusion,

1) It would be more appropriate for me to move on back to the client/ktv gal formula instead of GF/BF relationship despite KTVing together and bonking FOC. Like u mentioned bro, better to pay and bonk, companionship and then forget move on.

2) It's becoming uneasy for her to vomit out all the details of her day's work( old man touch her here and there etc etc ) and for me to listen to all the bo liao stuff including nag nag nag remembrance of old customers how nice they were to her etc etc.

3) Why picked me instead of the banker guy who could afford to buy her time without blinking an eyelid and booked a Swissotel room on one of the highest floor for a night. Isn't he the better guy to date than me..... FCUK !!!

4) Why last night comment during the meet up, compared me to her previous long time customers or potential BFs that even though I am financially and income level more solid than the rest but I am not as generous as the rest earning much lesser than me !!!! I am bloody angry at this comment !!! Felt like asking her to get out of my CAR and look for that pampering gentleman BF. Another FCUK feeling !!!

5) I feel I don't want to waste anymore of her precious time....Kiam her too long liao....guilt hurts for her not working and wasting time bonking me or accompanying me whenever I am free.

Wish me luck in the final finale to break the news to her bros. I don't know what sort of curse or swearing I might have to go through eventually. Time to be a real bastard !!!

jumbo

[kiko]

Bro Fatjumbo:

You can try asking yr gal , whether she willing to give up her ktv job, and look for proper 2 year work permit job. I know an china agent in spore who help china gals got job here as an waitress and factory operator here. bro , u can pm for for more details !

[cablesnwires]

Originally Posted by Fatjumbo

Wish me luck in the final finale to break the news to her bros. I don't know what sort of curse or swearing I might have to go through eventually. Time to be a real bastard !!!

jumbo

Dear bro Fatjumbo, don't be angry. If you want to end it, why not give her a sum of money? Something which you feel can compensate her back the lost time? This would serve a few purposes:

[1] It is another way of telling her that this is the final meet. No more.
[2] You won't feel like a bastard since this becomes like a transaction.
[3] You don't owe her anything, and she does not owe you anything.

If you really wants to end it, but she refuses the money, you could tell her that if she don't keep it, you will likely be spending that amount on other girls.

Stay cool bro Fatjumbo

[Fatjumbo]

Dear Bro cablesnwires

>> If you want to end it, why not give her a sum of money? Something which you feel can compensate her back the lost time? This would serve a few purposes:

I think I will do tat....give a lump sum to make up for her total lost income...so tat I don feel I own her anymore after tat. Up to her to accept it or not.

>>If you really wants to end it, but she refuses the money, you could tell her that if she don't keep it, you will likely be spending that amount on other girls.

haha...I say this...she sure to take... cos she already said...why I can pay others more when I bonk them.... while treat her so bad when I bonk her before going steady.

Anyway, it's her constant comparison here and there tat made me boiling hot inside and wanted to split up.

Nevetheless during our meet up last night, she mentioned tat despite comparing my stingyness towards her ( other gals would have left me long time ago ) with her other potential BFs. She still loves me alot alot and no way she can forget me ?? I one ear in one ear out liao...cos no mood... sian half liao.

[Fishcer]

Originally Posted by kiko

Bro Fatjumbo:

If u really love your gal , and yr gal also love u , ask your gal not to work Ktv anymore, i got lobang can work proper work, as work permit 2 years, u can pm me. Just to let you know, i got news that Thai express food chain is hiring , ask your gal go and interview, I wish u and your gal all the best!

What Bro Jumbo said is true...do u actually think the gals will b willing to let go of the gd money they earn in ktvs, and go slog it out in restaurants, or other low paying manual jobs? If they are willing, do u even think they will b in this line in the 1st place? U have a long way to go to understand their mentality, Kiko...

[Fishcer]

Dear Bro DT23 and all bros who is tune in to this thread,

Me too, after a whole sunday loboing, pondering over all that has happened over the past mth or so with this gal.

My final conclusion,

1) It would be more appropriate for me to move on back to the client/ktv gal formula instead of GF/BF relationship despite KTVing together and bonking FOC. Like u mentioned bro, better to pay and bonk, companionship and then forget move on.

That has always been the case, and the more appropriate thing to do when cheonging...just that sometimes pple enjoy the KC part and get sucked in.

2) It's becoming uneasy for her to vomit out all the details of her day's work( old man touch her here and there etc etc ) and for me to listen to all the bo liao stuff including nag nag nag remembrance of old customers how nice they were to her etc etc.

Hahaha...another standard SOP of the gals in their line of work, and i think if u really KC-ed, it shld b more uneasy for u to listen to her say all these...

3) Why picked me instead of the banker guy who could afford to buy her time without blinking an eyelid and booked a Swissotel room on one of the highest floor for a night. Isn't he the better guy to date than me..... FCUK !!!

Like what has been mentioned b4, he n u are probably just 1 of the many "lao gongs" that she has...so its never a case of who is better...only MORE is better.

4) Why last night comment during the meet up, compared me to her previous long time customers or potential BFs that even though I am financially and income level more solid than the rest but I am not as generous as the rest earning much lesser than me !!!! I am bloody angry at this comment !!! Felt like asking her to get out of my CAR and look for that pampering gentleman BF. Another FCUK feeling !!!

Hint hint from her le...钱不够用。。。

5) I feel I don't want to waste anymore of her precious time....Kiam her too long liao....guilt hurts for her not working and wasting time bonking me or accompanying me whenever I am free.

Their time is always enough for the men in their life...rather it is more of men not enough for them...kekeke...n there is no need for u to feel guilty...你情我愿...u never point gun at her force her to accompany u mah...

Wish me luck in the final finale to break the news to her bros. I don't know what sort of curse or swearing I might have to go through eventually. Time to be a real bastard !!!

Aiyah...no need to curse n swear 1, n no need luck...if u r really determined to end this, it is simple enough to do, unless ur will is weak n u still dun really know whether to end or not, then u will b in danger if she starts KC-ing u again, pleading with u not to end, saying all sorts of sad n emotional stuff to u...then c whether u can tahan or not...

jumbo

[cablesnwires]

Originally Posted by Fatjumbo

haha...I say this...she sure to take... cos she already said...why I can pay others more when I bonk them.... while treat her so bad when I bonk her before going steady.

That should better, no guilt on your part anymore.

Originally Posted by Fatjumbo

Anyway, it's her constant comparison here and there tat made me boiling hot inside and wanted to split up.

Just before you go separate ways, just let her know that the constant comparison is driving you away and that you have decided to move on.

[Fishcer]

Originally Posted by Fatjumbo

Dear Bro cablesnwires

>> If you want to end it, why not give her a sum of money? Something which you feel can compensate her back the lost time? This would serve a few purposes:

I think I will do tat....give a lump sum to make up for her total lost income...so tat I don feel I own her anymore after tat. Up to her to accept it or not.

I think i really bastard...if its me, i wouldn't give her any $$...

[Fatjumbo]

Originally Posted by Fishcer

I think i really bastard...if its me, i wouldn't give her any $$...

POWER !!! True Guru has spoken.... Point taken note. Ke Ke Ke....

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Fishcer

I think i really bastard...if its me, i wouldn't give her any $$...

KC trap:

Female to male...con the fukas $$$$ and let him fuck
Male to female...con her fuck and dun pay a cent and maybe even con her money

That's KC folks......either u bastard or she bastard.....fair world....survival of the fittest and in this case, craftiest.

[EtherC]

Bro FJ, do you know why there's no intervention post from me on your thread? Its because I recognise a bastard when I see one. You have the capability to be a bastard as such its not likely that you'll be at the losing end in such a situation. From your posts I see you as a clear minded & pragmatic person not ashamed to admit to your philandering ways and also the importance of close ties to you. You're honest to yourself and that's a good trait to have. What humble opinion I wish to offer is that in relationships such as these no one owes each other a living. There is no need for you to give her a lump sum for compensation. Get her a nice gift which is reasonably priced as what you would give a close friend for housewarming or events of similar proportions. Something for her to remember you by. A nice parting will do you and this WL much good. Cheers!