Affairs wif MARRIED MAN

[dec_gal]

Originally Posted by Oralcraz

Yes, ..... I can understand. As long as u are happy.....I wish u all the best. Take care.

Happy but of course there are always mood swing in between ...hahaha

[geckoSG]

Originally Posted by dec_gal

*always keeping my fingers cross one meetup after another meetup*

Same, for me, I keep my fingers crossed that each love affairs does not
end so soon. Its emotion put in and really SEX doesn't mean anything more
to me, I rather have someone whom I can confide in, hugz, kiss and hold
hands like teenage love affair (which I didn't experience any in my teens).

Someone I can say "I love you" each time we meet, someone I can tell her
that I will for as long as I can give you "happiness" through concern, small
sweet gestures, etc.

But, true love comes in letting your lover/fling go when they asked for
withdrawal. Its when you noticed that they loved you too much that they
will feel hurt if they persist. That is when you show true love for them by
hurting yourself and giving in to their request.

[BigGuy]

Originally Posted by geckoSG

Bro Frankiestine, I dun treat them as FB, they were lovers.

Bro KingEros, the kids will need the attention, that's the weekend
commitment we have with our family. Weekdays will be for lovers.
Each weekend, while you spent time with your family, you know
both your hearts will be calling out to each other and wish to meet
soon. Mondays will be a day to look forward to for both.

I guess those ladies & bros who have been in a memorable flings will
know what I mean.

Its not truth that only women gets hurt in an emo fling, guys too.

paid sex n FB can find n get easily...........when feelings are involve it's tough to let go..........u yearn for it more than anything............

you don't get that at home somehow. It's diff feel.

[Blue_gal]

When the sun goes to "sleep" and there is time to "spare" ..then it will be the time for us to meet....

to be able to hold hands and walked on the street..watching all the shops off its light and shut doors....holding his hands feel really nice...when there is crowd..i will let go....the feeling is still there...do not know how long we can LAST....just enjoy the moment...

at time i really feel SAD abt myself...but then its him that i hv picked...maybe i am still NOT ready for a real r/s after blue uncle...this is just my Part time...so this r/s is the best.....perhap...

i hate lies.. but then i am living in "ONE"....irony rite? .....each time when we both naked on bed... his phone rang....on the other end a voice asked "where are u"....one hand on the phone, the other hand touching the naked body...he will reply with LIES.......

if he is not married..he will not be in sg...and then i will not be knowing him...so i should thanks to the "marriage"? ...LIFE.....

[bubbletea]

Reading this thread, reminded me of an incident when I almost got into one with my colleague.

Not bad-looking, sporty but married. Heng, I stopped him before we went on further. Looking back, I still want that self-respect from myself.

[dec_gal]

Originally Posted by Blue_gal

When the sun goes to "sleep" and there is time to "spare" ..then it will be the time for us to meet....

to be able to hold hands and walked on the street..watching all the shops off its light and shut doors....holding his hands feel really nice...when there is crowd..i will let go....the feeling is still there...do not know how long we can LAST....just enjoy the moment...

at time i really feel SAD abt myself...but then its him that i hv picked...maybe i am still NOT ready for a real r/s after blue uncle...this is just my Part time...so this r/s is the best.....perhap...

i hate lies.. but then i am living in "ONE"....irony rite? .....each time when we both naked on bed... his phone rang....on the other end a voice asked "where are u"....one hand on the phone, the other hand touching the naked body...he will reply with LIES.......

if he is not married..he will not be in sg...and then i will not be knowing him...so i should thanks to the "marriage"? ...LIFE.....

sigh... Marriage ... I dun really trust "FOREVER AFTER"....

[Gerald Tan]

To Blue Gal & Dec Gal
I guess, all sbf guys here appreciate you two openess sharing infor of intimate sexperience life with married guys...
I believe, because of such wonderful gals like you, the sillypore life
is much better, though there is slight hiccup in family.
Anyway, life is unpredictable, whether it's in love or others...so, the
moral of the story is ENJOY while we CAN ...
P/S- follow the heart

[angelous]

u mite tik i'm a loser...bt hv all single man got kill??? i'm single...mayb i'm nt handsome...bt i'm single...look around...some1 tat cares for u may nt be for the sex... thy mite nt b there on the rite time oni...pls take care...

sorry to sound like a loser...

[dec_gal]

Originally Posted by Gerald Tan

To Blue Gal & Dec Gal
I guess, all sbf guys here appreciate you two openess sharing infor of intimate sexperience life with married guys...
I believe, because of such wonderful gals like you, the sillypore life
is much better, though there is slight hiccup in family.
Anyway, life is unpredictable, whether it's in love or others...so, the
moral of the story is ENJOY while we CAN ...
P/S- follow the heart

soorie.. dun think i'm "open" to share the intimate experience.. but jus wanted to share how's my feeling....

[Blue_gal]

<<<Game Over>>>

Ending is always not so fun at all..but yet...WE had just let it started so "FAST".n "EnD FAst" .. also...which i can't stop it...well...need to move on....

cheer UP~

[dec_gal]

Originally Posted by Blue_gal

<<<Game Over>>>

Ending is always not so fun at all..but yet...WE had just let it started so "FAST".n "EnD FAst" .. also...which i can't stop it...well...need to move on....

cheer UP~

Dear Sis,
sad to hear that.. sigh... but that's the rule of this kind of relationship...
by the way, mind to share how long hv this relationship last?

I'm wondering when I hv to STOP, am I able to control my feelings or not? sob sob.... *keeping finger cross*

[geckoSG]

Sis...

Good memories are nice to keep... As long as you enjoyed the moments,
that's important! Dun care if short or long...

Would loved to know u more... keke..

[Blue_gal]

Originally Posted by dec_gal

Dear Sis,
sad to hear that.. sigh... but that's the rule of this kind of relationship...
by the way, mind to share how long hv this relationship last?

I'm wondering when I hv to STOP, am I able to control my feelings or not? sob sob.... *keeping finger cross*

well, when u played, u will have to play with the rules ...this is part of "THE GAME"..

hmm. said it lasted abt 3 months plus.....till we were "saw" by his friend holding hands on the street.[many time, i will not hold his hands but then..sometime just can't control...] after that the balloon "bursted"..he had managed to "cover Up" but then my feeling sux.....furthermore his 2nd kid is coming on the way...he had wanted to make "plan" for "us".. but then..i am not "into" IT...so i have to End It...i am a woman after all..during pregenecy a woman will need a lot of care and love....n i dun like to share my "stuff" when its "MY"...so..i am "OUT"..

Full of excitment, paitent, understanding and SEX...[not to say, guilty also...esp after the "enjoy" stealing someone hubsand's time...] i believe there isn't any thing "FREE" in this world, it always come wif "condition"...tat is LIFE

i were there ONCE before...so married guys out there dun need to "offer"...thank u very much

Guess i will "retire" for a while...going back to my "plain" life again...kekeke..well better to have "colourful life" wif "condition attached"...

dec_gal: wish u good luck! well have to be strong wif wat u have set in your MIND..n in wat u wanna...JIA U!..guess u must be still young so there are plenty of "fishes" in the sea...slowly pick the rite once...

cheer~
BitChy Blue Aunt|e

[HeadOn]

well i guess if u r involved w someone legally taken, u r always a spare tyre...u can ask for anything..

[Oralcraz]

To : blueblue,
Sorry about yr bursted balloon. No doubt there are emotional discomfort and attachment in the relationship you were in but, I respect u for being able to "can bring up...can put down". Not many wonderful ladies out there can so easily put down u know!