Hmm... Once bitten, twice shy. Got lucky lately but always prepared for the worst. As a matter of fact, I'm trying to implement "men charter" in our r/s and yes, walking down the aisle very soon. Why is that so? Simple yet logic (just like why Sillypore govt gave green light for the IR, and 20yrs ago, "someone" told Stanley that NO IR in Sillypore, NOT over my dead body), it's monetary "carrots". Anyway, that's not important here...
Yes, I'm being very pessimistic over locals and already consulted my fren (who works in a law firm) if shits ever happen. No property (except HDB) investment in Sillypore but other countries. If I ever spend $$$ on her, I'll make sure the ROI is good... *LOL* (I expect ppl will start zapping or cursing on me liao...)
jimbo
aah... men's charter, guess i wont see it in my lifetime... IR? can! just no stanley ho. predicted that our govt would step in to screw genting up when stanley ho did a sneaky 6.9% purchase. ho's background is too colourful and the police as it is, would not be able to handle the professional gangsters if stanley were to be involved. the govt will try everything to keep him out. yes, can have IR but no stanley...
well, i can comment that u r very pessimistic but let me tell u, all my assets, timed deposits, my stocks and even my car are under my parents' name. if i ever end up in a divorce, my ex-wife will get zip... so i m guilty of pre-empting too better safe than sorry, eh???
Why not the restaurant question... much simpler to answer.
bcos (u r such a dick to make me think of a stupid answer to reply u!!!) bcos, bcos u only frequent coffeeshops, u bloody cheapo!!! aha, i remembered that!!!
bcos (u r such a dick to make me think of a stupid answer to reply u!!!) bcos, bcos u only frequent coffeeshops, u bloody cheapo! aha, i remembered that!
At least I went to Paulaner last week... not that cheapo mah! Although only spent $20 there.
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okay... now the thread is about coffee. I guess gers are like coffee. we take it in moderation. too many cups and you either hit the highs or u end up being sick and vomit.
okay... now the thread is about coffee. I guess gers are like coffee. we take it in moderation. too many cups and you either hit the highs or u end up being sick and vomit.
Did u just say "cups"? Oh no... what cup? A? B+? C? oh gosh, i just love C cup tities (joking nia)
Ok, back to topic "Gers are still Gers". Do u think they compare "cups" among themselves? I'd love to hear them debate in our "parliment" *LOL*
hello bro, r u the girl or really yr lady friend from msn??? yr friend asked u to use dark orchid colour ah??? very difficult to read leh...
No lar bro, use differing colours mah. Use dark orchid cos is ger, wanted to use pink but the pink lagi lighter.
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agreed, if the guy cannot go down on his own girl, he dont deserve a bj. in fact, i would feel that he is selfish, taboo or not. i know of friends who dont go down on their partners during weekends starting from friday nite cos they will be gambling all weekend. sometimes midweek too!!! but do u want me to introduce u to women who liked me to go down on them and tell me that they dont do bjs??? i might very possibly give u a list, starting from my ex-gf...
If like that you could either request from or train them. If they still refuse then you 'gehsiao' ask for permission to go for 'professional help' cos you really miss the feeling very much. You see whether they will still refuse bo. If they still refuse then you have a legitimate excuse for cheonging liao lor.
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yup, let's talk abuot what to eat if u want me to have a stroke and claim my insurance. tell me bros out here, m i facing this alone or r u having this problem as well??? ask the girl what she wants to eat, answer:- anything. ok, let's have jap food. ooh, i just had that yesterday for lunch. ok, what about thai? cannot, think i m coming up with an ulcer... ok, how about going for steaks? no lah! so fattening!!! u want me to get fat isit? ok, we go eat dim sum... okie!!! go restaurant see long queue, then turn to me:- see lah, all yr fault, make me feel like eating dim sum, now queue so long!!!
I think for this generally got to find out what are her preferences like first.
As for the fattening part, you could soften it by saying ' Aiyah, dont you know that I love women who have abit of bak' or something like 'I want to fatten you up so that you won't ganna snatched away' or something along the lines lor. Like what Bro Derelict pointed out, say something they like to hear. Isn't it true for men too? I guess everybody likes to have their egos stroked right?
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Haha. True true...
my questions r:
1) if she wanted to eat dim sum, why didnt she tell me earlier that she wanted to eat dim sum? (fyi, i m a rubbish bin... so long i m full, i m quite fine, but i do go out of my way to get good food with appreciative company)
Bro, you're either kind of contradicting yourself 'yup, let's talk abuot what to eat if u want me to have a stroke and claim my insurance', or I have missed the point completely. I do know of lots of gers who appreciate good food/ won't mind going out of the way/ dun mind poor hygiene/ etc. As long as the food and the company is pleasant.
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2) do i look like i know that the chinese restaurant was going to be crowded???
Ah... That cannot be blamed but it certainly could have been pre-empted. Common sense to know that anywhere in town or even those neighbourhood shopping malls would be packed during lunch and dinner time mah. It's only a matter of common sense right? Simply point out the possibility and maybe let her come up with a contingency plan,' What if the place too crowded? Would you like to have something else?'
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how i felt, damn stupid!!! to have rushed with my work, drove through peak hour traffic to pick her up at home, drove back to town (still peak hour traffic), get berated for taking the congested way and making her grumpy, reached town, let her off first to go shopping while i struggled feebly to rob a parking lot, racked my brains out to think of what to eat and finally get blamed for the chinese restaurant's good business. my friend, u think i still have an appetite???
If she's really into you, she'd probably want to wait with you for the parking lot and go to the diner's with you, instead of going shopping by herself 1st.
If not, well, maybe she's just not good enough. And for the picking up part, if she's really into you, she'll be considerate and offer to meet you at the makan place instead of demanding that you go and pick her up. Worst come to worst can meet somewhere in the middle, compromise abit.
If cannot even compromise during courtship/ dating period, then no need to look forward to a 'future' liao lor.
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but on a more serious note, where is temperance's msn friend ah? he posted for her only, we straightaway hiong hiong bombed him back jialat jialat!!!
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No lar bro, use differing colours mah. Use dark orchid cos is ger, wanted to use pink but the pink lagi lighter.
一说曹操，曹操就马上来报到!!! u sibeh scary leh, say only then u appear liao!!! uncle got heart problem, dont scare me so much. my insurance policies dont have yr name as beneficiary hor!!!
一说曹操，曹操就马上来报到!!! u sibeh scary leh, say only then u appear liao!!! uncle got heart problem, dont scare me so much. my insurance policies dont have yr name as beneficiary hor!!!
平时不做亏心事，半夜敲门也不惊。
What have you been doing huh????
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my job, no guilt, no conscience one!!! make the rich richer by making the poor poorer... u say leh??? go answer the replies by other bros to your posts lah!!!
A thief will NEVER confess of stealing. Generally, I find the argument is simply absurd. These sillypore women talk about status and hawker foods are only meant for their rushing hours lunch. A date at hawker centre? ya, that beats me... As a matter of fact, we dont need to ask them, just see with ur naked eyes. If u've been with locals for a long time, u wont hesitate to reject ur lady fren's statement. Oh by the way, the new restaurants at city area open like mushrooms after the rain. Do I need to say more...???
Don't you think that their expectations have somehow been raised/ influenced because of how males have been treating them/ their ger-friends?
Why do they have these kind of expectations? Simply because somebody eager to impress have been doing that before, thereby many ppl now think that it is a norm. So where does the bottle point to now? Tell me that you didn't try to bring gers out to somewhere more presentable on first dates WITHOUT their asking.
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Human beings are the top of animal chain because we can use our brain to think or analyse. If she cant decide what to eat in a foodcourt, or worse, take no effort to "think", she is nothing but a pet. Nope, they can think but they simply dont bother to think... yes, the words 'dont bother' are crucial and that simplify their stucking attitude.
Have you ever been met with the dilemma of 'don't know what to eat?'. Or how about the reverse when you are so full after lunch that you can't think of what else to eat for dinner? Have you ever been anywhere deciding on what to have on a single menu?
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Sometimes I wonder, if those locals take no effort to decide the food to order, they are very likely end up at the bottom of our society. But hey, they still got our govt to feed them during sunset days or marry a "Robert"
jimbo
Bro, Don't mind me but you sound almost like you hate women.
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03-04-2007, 04:26 PM
better safe than sorry, eh???
(joking nia)
go answer the replies by other bros to your posts lah!!!
