Gers Are Still Gers

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by jintulan

bro, please tread with caution. South American women are a passionate lot, and so are their men. My first taste of Brazilian dishes was in the mid/late 70s. If my memory serves me right, even in big cities like Rio de Janeiro, Rio Grande, Tubarao and Santos, condoms don't exist then. Luckily HIV wasn't so common those days yet, and thanks heavens I tested negative. I guess things are different today. But I do know that many of their men still refuse to use it, and some women as well.

sorry for steering off topic somewhat here.

No worries mate... as tempted as I may be with latinas, you may have read in my previous postings that I have given up on commercial sex.

[jintulan]

Originally Posted by surfer888

No worries mate... as tempted as I may be with latinas, you may have read in my previous postings that I have given up on commercial sex.

yay! 3 cheers to bro. surfer888!

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by jng1103

They continued with their walkings and holding hands. Kissing under the moon and eye-gazing under the stars.

Tell me, why the women couldnt answer the simple question when their men ask ,"If u r not happy, just tell me"?

Trust me, it's a never-ending cycles

jimbo

Its horrid. I witnessed it before. We all know there is something wrong.

I still remember one gal saying this, "its very basic. if don't know, then you shouldn't be dating a girl." I was like wtf. Men are not computers.

To add on, they remember that day when we asked them "whats wrong?" Worse still, bring up to quarrel, when things go wrong. Women are like walking audit trails.

When things go wrong, its amazing that they can recall things (bad ones) faster than (not a speeding bullet) a computer retrieving audit exception reports. All so that.... they can point the finger at the guy. Victimisation i say.

[jintulan]

Originally Posted by surfer888

I've actually got zapped saying this!

The person only said "Bias!!!" and did not leave down any names.

I don't mind losing the points but I would like to make it clear that the statement made was in jest. Why would anyone make decisions on women based on the colors of the state flags.

It was obvious that the person either misunderstood, has a bad sense of humor, or is just terrible at the English language. Either way, obviously something to hide as well... else why not leave your name behind?

bro, never mind la.
I've been zapped by people who disagreed with what I posted. They did not leave behind their nics, and I don't expect them to.

[Disgusted]

Originally Posted by jintulan

bro, never mind la.
I've been zapped by people who disagreed with what I posted. They did not leave behind their nics, and I don't expect them to.

Maybe it's one of those girls....

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by Disgusted

Maybe it's one of those girls....

men dont mean what we say, women dont say what they mean. so... who knows? perhaps that could be someone who's confused... as in guy trapped in a woman's body, or vice versa...?

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

men dont mean what we say, women dont say what they mean. so... who knows? perhaps that could be someone who's confused... as in guy trapped in a woman's body, or vice versa...?

Sherine???

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by surfer888

Sherine???

sherine? who's that? a he-she or a (s)he? sigh, i think better not drag on this, if not, thread name need to change to "gers are not gers, guys are not guys" liao... hahahah.

[suteerak1099]

i wonder how many among us actually experience the problem of trying to understand our woman. since my early adolescence, i've acquired the interest of browsing magazines/publications about BGR issues, and towards adulthood, followed suit with issues pertaining to relationships, mindsets, needless to say, matters pertaining to intercourse...etc.

maybe its just me, but somehow, i find that the readings have been rather useful knowledge where its applied to gals of foreign nationality, but rarely successful when it comes to our own ladies.

sometimes, on the verge of pointbreak, i'd just surrender that the reason of their irrationale behaviours r due to confusion; confused between the asian vs western culture, confused about their needs vs their wants, confused about their standards and lots more....

1 classic example:
CAT being the typical sg gal, 2 eligible candidates vying for her attention, 1st candidate ALI, 2nd candidate BABA.

ALI, suave, decent habits, decent spending power, down to earth & appreciates the little pleasures of life.

BABA, on the chubby side, tactless & insensitive at times, higher spending power, lives life like there's no tomorrow.

what's predictable? CAT is likely to be seeing both ALI & BABA. why? best of both worlds. she could enjoy the high-life while she's with BABA, while its the security & steadfastness of ALI that she longs for in a relationship.

not saying that CAT is incapable of making a choice between the 2, but, she'd rather not - she takes both. nonetheless, if a choice is made, only 1 stands to suffer.

scenario A; if she's not committed enough, ALI would have his heart chiselled away as time passes.

scenario B; if she's committed for real relationship, she'd probably have her heart smashed with BABA.

so what's the moral of the story? gals, should refrain from practicing double standards.

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

men dont mean what we say, women dont say what they mean. so... who knows? perhaps that could be someone who's confused... as in guy trapped in a woman's body, or vice versa...?

So what's next? Keep talking, keep walking....

[Derelict]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

amidst all the gripes & displeasures.... 1 thing coincidentally common... most of which happen to be locally born & raised spoilt chicks. which leaves me to ponder, whatever happened to the good ones?

They are around. Some of you dont happen to see one becuase they are of a different cut characteristically. In short they are not your type. Human nature dictates that we omit out those whom are not 'interesting'.

Let me go a lil further in explaining my thots. In Singapore if anyone feels they have something great to offer, chances are it will be sold for the highest price on the onset. These 'spoilt' girls are actually well verse in understanding prevailing market value. They are the ones that push and shove to the front to sell their wares. For those that dont bother to self package, they are very likely to be summarily dismissed. Thus the jarring noise of the misconcepted thots voiced aloud. Anyways if one care to see, usually after the wake of the 'spoilt' passes. One might just chance apon the embeded unwashed gems that was overlooked before. All one needs is a keen perception, a dedicated buff and a sense of humour to bring out the gem's lustre. With patience you can cut the gem to the design you fancy.

My 2 cents.

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by Derelict

One might just chance apon the embeded unwashed gems that was overlooked before. All one needs is a keen perception, a dedicated buff and a sense of humour to bring out the gem's lustre. With patience you can cut the gem to the design you fancy.

My 2 cents.

I prefer well-cut gems with clarity and no inclusions. Color is not an issue. However, I prefer not to cut my gems myself no matter how rewarding the results may be. Too much effort involved and one mistake could result in the gem being useless and crushed.

My 2 carats

[_AXL_]

Originally Posted by surfer888

I prefer well-cut gems with clarity and no inclusions. Color is not an issue. However, I prefer not to cut my gems myself no matter how rewarding the results may be. Too much effort involved and one mistake could result in the gem being useless and crushed.

go lee hwa, soo kee, goldheart, poh heng lor... if u really loaded, flawless diamonds at larry's lor...

but have to agree with bro surfer. most of the time, humans r notorious for not being able to change our spots. women, they r worse. they go from bad to worse after marriage.

[Derelict]

Originally Posted by Deep Blue

Influx of westernized modern thinking that promotes equality in man and woman but yet at the same time men are expected to hold the doors for ladies to be deem as a gentle…..now….tell me about it……..

Truth be told woman just wants to be supervised. Seriously. They just want their man in their live to be a man. Period. Jokes aside, I know this is kinda taboo voicing like I did herein. My finding is moot if a man is a man.

A modern man.

Steadfast and decisive. Good listening ear and clear conversationist. Pragmatic with a keen sense of decorum. Self confidance without throwing in the machismo. Heath conscious and well to do. Respected by peers. Loving with a dash of perceptiveness and you are well on the way of taking over the life of your confidant and soulmate. No matter how powerful she is socially.

One cannot change an ingrain perception of millennia based on a centuries work and findings. A woman will always be a woman. We just need to be a man about it.

No, not a chauvinist. god help me if I ever be one. Lol. Just getting a lil worked up reading all those post and still see what is somewhat obvious in the postings. My conclusion is.. if you respect yourself and those around you enough chances are people will respect you in turn.

Another 2 cents.

[Derelict]

Originally Posted by surfer888

I prefer well-cut gems with clarity and no inclusions. Color is not an issue. However, I prefer not to cut my gems myself no matter how rewarding the results may be. Too much effort involved and one mistake could result in the gem being useless and crushed.

My 2 carats

Exactly the point I was talking about.

What you're refering is a person who understand their worth. Thus the 'clarity'. "Due to the 'clarity', they know on the onset what they want. Chances are you might not be one of those wants in her crystalize list. Get snub and you most likely label her. If she dont brush you off too soon, her peers might think she is two-timing. The list goes on.

A 'spoilt' girl would be her tag to anyone who dont really know her. So, where is the middle ground for the good ones. They are seriously loosing their ground.

As for cuts in the gem. You have raised one point in a mariad. How one define a perfect partner is yours alone. No matter how good a catch it might be, if she be strong in character chances are she might not be able to meet your ideal wants. Unlike a lass who is in love without preconceived notions. In the end only you can make the choice on your ideals. Thus the so call 'spoilt' in girls are mens doing all the same.