Dating a Vietnamese ktv girl

[Offline]

Not skill, experience and knowledge.

KTV girls are highly independent girls.
Consider this, they left their home country to go to another country to engage in illicit work. Some, if not most, already engaged in some type of similar work in home country.

If they appear vulnerable or helpless, you would be very mistaken.
For underneath that veneer are wills of steel.
Your financial well being has no bearing on their concerns for them to achieve their goals on earning money.

Who would if your job entails you accompany people that paw you, gets you drunk and more.
And they do it day after day, away from family with no support.

Just thread lightly around them and don't fall head in.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Offline

Not skill, experience and knowledge.

KTV girls are highly independent girls.
Consider this, they left their home country to go to another country to engage in illicit work. Some, if not most, already engaged in some type of similar work in home country.

If they appear vulnerable or helpless, you would be very mistaken.
For underneath that veneer are wills of steel.
Your financial well being has no bearing on their concerns for them to achieve their goals on earning money.

Who would if your job entails you accompany people that paw you, gets you drunk and more.
And they do it day after day, away from family with no support.

Just thread lightly around them and don't fall head in.

This comment is half correct...

Gals in Vietnam are tough species even though they are small built...Viet gals are no push overs and can easily stand their ground in any fights and/or quarrels...

[mrgaleeo]

Heard inside the KTV can do anything you want if you're skilled enough is that true never been to one

[Northern]

Once upon a time, the infamous MG.
And then there was other one in JC, viet gals with Mummy.

But that was a long time ago, at least 10 years.
I know MG is long long gone, the JC joint I only went once and got bj in room.
But because not into viets, never did go again.
I guess that place also no longer around.

[Plusvisilk]

Originally Posted by Offline

Not skill, experience and knowledge.

KTV girls are highly independent girls.
Consider this, they left their home country to go to another country to engage in illicit work. Some, if not most, already engaged in some type of similar work in home country.

If they appear vulnerable or helpless, you would be very mistaken.
For underneath that veneer are wills of steel.
Your financial well being has no bearing on their concerns for them to achieve their goals on earning money.

Who would if your job entails you accompany people that paw you, gets you drunk and more.
And they do it day after day, away from family with no support.

Just thread lightly around them and don't fall head in.

Strongly agree with bro posted here. Money makes the call.

[Tai_zi21]

Originally Posted by ILoveV

the feeling totally different

WL/escort just choose, pay and fuck. No fuss, no frills

once you play the field too long, such pay and fuck sometimes no kick. Men want feeling of hunting and chemistry.

That's why men go to massage trying to unlock different levels

go to ktv to bed the most chio ang pai. best is those that dont want go out hotel type

go to hfj hoping to move the girls enough to go hotel

go to live streaming to give presents to ask the streamer out

it's the hunt before the deed that made the fuck sweeter

Agreed with this totally… as I grow older just finding a FL doesn’t give me the thrill anymore…

It the hunt that make the game interesting 😊

[YoungForever]

Originally Posted by ILoveV

TS Bro,

you are old enough la to think what you want. $2K is not a fucking big sum of money. Want to give, give. Cannot afford to give, dont give.

This kind of thing, you ask for advice. confirmed all say no. Because that's logic. But only you know how much you want to continue fucking her. Or is there true love. Who else would know.

Ask for advice then continue do what you think is wrong, of course kena gan here. Like a kid purposely do wrong things to attract attention knn

Not all ktv girls are bad. I used to think so. Got money can open their legs. But I was prove wrong. I see some brothers found good viet girls. My gf now is also viet girl who work in ktv for short while. Then I help her and she leave ktv. But it's all individual. I can say 99% only see money. That 1% is rare but is there.

Agree with you bro

[pseudonym]

much wisdom shared by senior bros. newbies should read and learn from here even before attempting ktv dating

[WOOHOO]

Originally Posted by pseudonym

much wisdom shared by senior bros. newbies should read and learn from here even before attempting ktv dating

WOO UPZ 👍 👍 👍

[Chua Soi Lek]

Originally Posted by mrgaleeo

Just curious whats the diff between going for ktv/hostess and just engaging a WL/Escort when all we want is FJ

Basically, in a nut shell, they are all prostitutes if you don’t split hair into whether they can choose they wanna bonk … ktv can have rights not to accept a bonk offer although they still use their body to earn money, let you rub their thigh, hands some let you knead their breast …

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Tai_zi21

Agreed with this totally… as I grow older just finding a FL doesn’t give me the thrill anymore…

It the hunt that make the game interesting 😊

when young, being a smooth talker, not bad looking and know Viet language, i like to go JC/GL pub/KTV hunt and play KC games with the Viet FL.

As I grow older now, I have no time for such thrill. Only go look for ML in Cat1 or Cat3 shops for release. Some time due to bad habit of KC game, I try play KC game with ML to get higher tier service but also end up no time for the ECA even when they agree. Basically no night life for me as I have small kids to take care at night. By the time my kids become more independent, I will be much much older Lao kok kok. Bet will not be hunting and play KC game by then.

So to the TS, play the game while you are young and got the time to date many girls

[SirLance]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

when young, being a smooth talker, not bad looking and know Viet language, i like to go JC/GL pub/KTV hunt and play KC games with the Viet FL.

As I grow older now, I have no time for such thrill. Only go look for ML in Cat1 or Cat3 shops for release. Some time due to bad habit of KC game, I try play KC game with ML to get higher tier service but also end up no time for the ECA even when they agree. Basically no night life for me as I have small kids to take care at night. By the time my kids become more independent, I will be much much older Lao kok kok. Bet will not be hunting and play KC game by then.

So to the TS, play the game while you are young and got the time to date many girls

This comments made plenty of sense and I agreed.

[Northern]

Talking about KC, I will share my very corny KC lines.
Its all in chinese but I will translate it to English.

Where are you from ? (Asking the girl)
Ahhs, are there any historical sites, ancient monuments ?
(chat chat chat)
One day I want to go there and look at those places.
(Maybe 1 in 2, or 1 in 3 will say, when you go, contact me and I will bring you around.)
I will then ask, Will you then hold me hostage, tie me up, ravage my body mercilessly till your heart's content ?
(Girl laughs and say of course no)

I will look at the girl with a sad and serious face.
那我去了还有什么意思 ?

90% success rate of initial KC.(10% of the time)

I do use those lines, it establishes your interest in where she is from, as well as that you are a humorous person.

[chaoslord]

It is important to separate emotions when it comes to KTV girls. The thread title has the word "dating" which is the wrong approach in my view. What you have is a physical transaction mixed in with GFE. Seldom is this long term as the realities of life sets in. Enjoy the company for what it is worth - you are young and having such experiences is worth it. The amount of $$$ is subjective as each bro has a different level of spending power. My advice

- Keep things transactional. Always a monetary transaction where you have a willing buyer and seller. I go by the saying "Free things I cannot afford". To those that say they get free fucks and all that, all I can say is that eventually the debt needs to be repaid and you might not be able to afford it when it comes calling

- Enjoy the company and the experiences that comes with it. But do not imagine there is a happily ever after to things. Remember that these girls come here for money. They are human too and can fall in love but that is going down a rabbit hole that few of us here have the emotional strength and maturity to overcome. Remember that they see over 100 men in a month which equates to 1,000 men in a year. What makes you so special? And even if you are, are you accepting of multiple men banging the brains out of your girl EVEN if it is in the past. A leering stare from a stranger would make you think that the john has banged your girl and before you know it jealousy rears its ugly head. We mind fuck ourself to a state of paranoia.

- I have had my fair share of KTV girls that are in committed relationships (real marriage not fake) with SG guys and I still get to bang them. I am sure they love their husbands and all but it's monetary at the end of the day.

Don't get entangled up in the emotional cobweb of girls in nightlife. Enjoy the ride but remember that they are called ladies of the night for a reason. Always, always put yourself and your needs first.

[junior_cannibal]

Very wise and good advice.
However, even the so called veteran cheongsters might one day meet their match that could get them deep in the rabbit hole you mentioned, or the gongtao thingy one might not believe exists.
When young, have some money, not too bad looking and speak well, might get more GFE from the hostesses or GL, but once go overboard, the consequence can be detrimental and damaging, especially if attached or married, with or without kids.
These foreigners that come to Singapore are here to make money. It's bad karma even if we try to kc them to let them think we can marry them or give them and their families back home a good life.
What goes around comes around, it's only a matter of when and how.