Those with Fuck Buddies, Little 3s 小三, Friends with benefits fall in....

[tofuman1977]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

situation with my fb

now complains I always want sex

we barely do it at all. Last time was 2 months ago

after 6 years, I think she cant be called a FB, because last few years, especially these 3 years, can count on 2 hands how many times we had sex

in fact his year maybe even on one hand.

started with wife being this way, was so frustrated so I looked for outsource.

Got a FB and now like GF instead and sex situation is same as wife

WTF.

Hahaha! I feel you bro.....

[Shadow_warrior]

finally like all things

women need love to want sex, men need sex to feel loved

so brought her to Sentosa Water Cove, spend a day there, lots of eye candy man, hugging her kissing her in her sexy bikini, pushing her around in the water on a float lots of opportunities to bond and just get away from it all

so later on....

all things need effort and if you can create the environment again, then you can at least relive the magic but if you think its too much work, then the boredom kicks in and it can be a really LONG dry season.

[mushimushimo]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

finally like all things

women need love to want sex, men need sex to feel loved

so brought her to Sentosa Water Cove, spend a day there, lots of eye candy man, hugging her kissing her in her sexy bikini, pushing her around in the water on a float lots of opportunities to bond and just get away from it all

so later on....

all things need effort and if you can create the environment again, then you can at least relive the magic but if you think its too much work, then the boredom kicks in and it can be a really LONG dry season.

That's actually a great idea. Any suggestions of places on Sg island instead of sentosa? Think the average public swimming pool not suitable haha.

[mushimushimo]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

finally like all things

women need love to want sex, men need sex to feel loved

so brought her to Sentosa Water Cove, spend a day there, lots of eye candy man, hugging her kissing her in her sexy bikini, pushing her around in the water on a float lots of opportunities to bond and just get away from it all

so later on....

all things need effort and if you can create the environment again, then you can at least relive the magic but if you think its too much work, then the boredom kicks in and it can be a really LONG dry season.

That's actually a pretty good idea. Any suggestions of places on SG mainland instead of sentosa? Don't think public swimming pools will cut the deal.

[korean]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

finally like all things

women need love to want sex, men need sex to feel loved

so brought her to Sentosa Water Cove, spend a day there, lots of eye candy man, hugging her kissing her in her sexy bikini, pushing her around in the water on a float lots of opportunities to bond and just get away from it all

so later on....

all things need effort and if you can create the environment again, then you can at least relive the magic but if you think its too much work, then the boredom kicks in and it can be a really LONG dry season.

Haha, good one

It should not be called too much work if u enjoy the process I quite enjoyed the fun time at water cove

[thomas]

Women r nothing but trouble. Commercial sex is the best. U pay them to give u peace after that.lol

[korean]

Originally Posted by thomas

Women r nothing but trouble. Commercial sex is the best. U pay them to give u peace after that.lol

As ancient saying, 红颜祸水

[elitez]

I have a fuck buddy, she is a girl i meet at ntu freshmen orientation...

[Shadow_warrior]

wondering if tomorrow I should go and watch siew lup or bring my FB to do my own movie Lup Cheong.

[NoNameMe]

Ok, my take away from this thread seems to be it's almost unanimous with most men that:

1) Paid sex is somewhat the best coz it's strictly business, no frills.
2) FBs are based on your own luck of meeting an awesome one, hard to find. Otherwise, majority of FB candidates are girls who end up requiring alot of attention, time and romance
3) Mistresses are like extended versions / extended breeds from what stemmed from FB (if you mis-managed at FB level). It can get expensive and draining in energy and time.

But I guess some guys unconsciously want an emotional affair too (along with the crazy sex you've been having), otherwise you won't end up with a lover/mistress.... Or is it simply dominance? Some men enjoy having the ability to own a 'biatch', they feel wanted and desired. I'm thinking why some guys are so willing to give money to their mistress despite having a family and not earning sky high salaries. Yet there are men whom, even can afford to do so, they don't. Must be the different feeling you get out of keeping a 小三.

[middleday]

some short input about my women situation

1. wife - penis can get hard, can wear condom well, fuck till cum
2. Fuck Buddy (or mistress) - penis can get hard, can wear condom well, fuck till cum
3. go WL - penis can hard with BJ, but wear condom become soft, fuck time cannot cum also

i want to fuck WL more than FB coz no emotional investment, just fuck, pay and go. also WL more sexy.

with wife i love her too but i also want to fuck around coz she so many complains and shouting, not like before married. so its my little "escape" la...

[xxxaddict]

very interesting thread... so i guess can sum up as follows:

WLs - get paid. Transactional commercial sex
FBs - don't get paid. Just sex, no lovey-dovey emotional commitment
XiaoSan - get paid? Total GFE. Have some emotional commitment.

[Timetogo]

Friends with benefits is still the best.

[Shadow_warrior]

agreed.

just had a session with my fb.

had to plan to bring her back to the spot it all started, relived those memories

started with a nice dinner, then go to the romantic spot

by the time I was ready to go back she wanted more, taking off her bra to push my head to suck her breasts, pulling down her panties for me to finger her, then taking it off asking me to climb over to her seat to give her some passion

has been a while but it shows you can still plan for passion and romance, provide the lady is still open to it.

[middleday]

i want to share my story, actually just an update from my previous post.

i just ended an adultery relationship. both of us married with kids.. she in unhappy marriage with the husband, i am a horny guy want to 'tao jiak' outsid.

i met this lady online, we hit it off, was having sex about every 2 weeks, for about 10 months. we always go hourly hotels.

i had to end it coz she was getting serious, and planning stuff like overseas trips etc..

so i just ended it, not so amicably too... coz only i ended it...

now its been few weeks, itching to find another again...