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Re: Affairs wif MARRIED MAN

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hi, btw... how to u cover ur "meetup" ? i mean what excuse u will tell ur OC ?
ohh... maybe you can refer here: Wat kinds of Excuses...
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Re: Affairs wif MARRIED MAN

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"he" is jus the next guy that i knew after i left my ex ... sigh... that's y feeling is stronger? i also dun know...
Just like I highlighted earlier ... any such relationships will not be far away from vulnerability, based on loneliness, including feeling worthless and/or unappreciated.

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jus keep the finger cross that his OC will not find out lo
"what to do?"
IMHO, if you are not demanding ... & continue to remain so, the chances of his OC not finding out will become that much more favourable.

However, instead of crying yourself to sleep ... or waking up in cold sweat, just concentrate on enjoying the moment.
"It's meant to be good while it last" ... remember?


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hi, btw... how to u cover ur "meetup"? i mean what excuse u will tell ur OC?
You should not be bothered with the excuses we use ... what I mean is there is no point in saying he is working OT when it can be easily verified that his company dun function after 6pm, right?

Instead, you (together with your married BF) should be focusing on the little things in his "lifestyle". Reservist training is always a good excuse for a short escapade together ... if he's into fishing, MJ or any group activities, then he can always get his kakis to help cover his tracks while spending time with you.


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and how often do u meetup with ur fling....
However, do note that I mentioned "together with your married BF" ... by which, I am of the opinion that he will always be able to come up with excuses to spend time with you IF he really wants to.

On the other hand, if he's always coming up with excuses to spend time with you, you should also be sober enough to know where to draw the line ... so as to ensure your overly frequent meet-ups end up arousing unnecessary suspicions. It's like you actually cheating in a casino ... you cannot be so aggressive as to win every hand. Know what I mean?
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Just like I highlighted earlier ... any such relationships will not be far away from vulnerability, based on loneliness, including feeling worthless and/or unappreciated.


IMHO, if you are not demanding ... & continue to remain so, the chances of his OC not finding out will become that much more favourable.

However, instead of crying yourself to sleep ... or waking up in cold sweat, just concentrate on enjoying the moment.
"It's meant to be good while it last" ... remember?



You should not be bothered with the excuses we use ... what I mean is there is no point in saying he is working OT when it can be easily verified that his company dun function after 6pm, right?

Instead, you (together with your married BF) should be focusing on the little things in his "lifestyle". Reservist training is always a good excuse for a short escapade together ... if he's into fishing, MJ or any group activities, then he can always get his kakis to help cover his tracks while spending time with you.



However, do note that I mentioned "together with your married BF" ... by which, I am of the opinion that he will always be able to come up with excuses to spend time with you IF he really wants to.

On the other hand, if he's always coming up with excuses to spend time with you, you should also be sober enough to know where to draw the line ... so as to ensure your overly frequent meet-ups end up arousing unnecessary suspicions. It's like you actually cheating in a casino ... you cannot be so aggressive as to win every hand. Know what I mean?
Sounds like the master hasn't lost midas touch.
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These 2 are not the 2 you've previously posted (as linked in your signature block), right?
Cannot bring yourself to rite about it without bringing more than a few tears to your eyes?
No bro, I didn't pen down my 3rd & 4th cos the memories are too valuable to
be shared. And I do not wish to remind myself and shed some tears and add
stress to my weak heart.

They are wonderful ladies...
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hi, btw... how to u cover ur "meetup" ? i mean what excuse u will tell ur OC ? and how often do u meetup with ur fling....
As quote by our senior here, no point of knowing wat excuses we uses.
As long as we want, we can come out with thousands of funny excuses.

Just to share. I'm quite fortunate that 3rd fling work same area as me. So,
we meet EVERYDAY morning to work. Yes, U read correctly, EVERYDAY.

We would be so happy together and make love in a MSCP before we goes to
work. But not all the time... We wanted each other so badly but we know its
impossible for long run, she dun wish to hurt herself more so decided to ends
it. Til now, she still give hints that she loves me and dun wish to lose me, but
I am distancing myself from her as I felt taxing on my own emotions while
making her happy.

For the 4th fling, she works town area and I will sent her to work in morning
too. We would have breakfast together happily, more of emotional support.
But she too ended it. She needs a man who can truly give her more than me
in terms of commitment... When we just started, we often took leaves and
spent half a day or a day in budget hotel or sentosa. Short lived romance.

Til today, all the happy memories does flows back to me and I really misses
them. Valentines Day will be a sad day for me cos none of them are with me.

Both happens not at same time, 4th came into my live after the 3rd left me
broken hearted for 4 months. Its now 2 months after the 4th left me, and I'm
still managing my emotion to concentrate on my work and my child who is
the motivation of why I hold on to my marriage and still alive.
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Til today, all the happy memories does flows back to me and I really misses
them. Valentines Day will be a sad day for me cos none of them are with me..
bro gecko that the beauty of FBs...thou i prefer to call them Lovers..they are just like a old album lock away in a chest and to be brought out once in a while to be reminisce over...bitter yet sweet...
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Sounds like the master hasn't lost midas touch.
Case of leopards dun change their spots, I suppose ... but this leopard really slowing down becoz of age liao.

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No bro, I didn't pen down my 3rd & 4th cos the memories are too valuable to be shared. And I do not wish to remind myself and shed some tears and add stress to my weak heart.
No worries ... all in good time, just heal that heart first.

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... I'm still managing my emotion to concentrate on my work and my child who is the motivation of why I hold on to my marriage and still alive.
Specially for the ladies who have problems staying clear of married men, I wanna take this opportunity to stress that even if/when you have succeeded in replacing his wife for a spot in his heart, there will always be others like his child(ren) you will need to continue competing against for his time & attention.
However, should you still insist on your acquired taste for the married men ... then you must learn to protect your own interests by remembering this maxim: 不期待天长地久,只响往曾经拥有
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Bro Frankiestine, I dun treat them as FB, they were lovers.

Bro KingEros, the kids will need the attention, that's the weekend
commitment we have with our family. Weekdays will be for lovers.
Each weekend, while you spent time with your family, you know
both your hearts will be calling out to each other and wish to meet
soon. Mondays will be a day to look forward to for both.

I guess those ladies & bros who have been in a memorable flings will
know what I mean.

Its not truth that only women gets hurt in an emo fling, guys too.
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..weekend commitment we have with our family. Weekdays will be for lovers. Each weekend, while you spent time with your family, you know both your hearts will be calling out to each other and wish to meet soon. Mondays will be a day to look forward to for both.

Its not truth that only women gets hurt in an emo fling, guys too.
Nicely put. Best of both worlds, and yet.. so torn between the 2 loyalities.

Making out with some1 you have feelings for, is worlds apart from commercial sex. As for the emotions bit, male gender is not immune to hurt (only ego gets in the way)
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it had been 3 months liao...

Why get involve in married man:
1. lonelyness..
2. no time to find "those available" ones..due to work and age.. so just hit, got chemistry then go...
3. love the feeling of "LONG LOST LOVER"..each time meet up...
4. look forward to each and every chance of meeting up......

Must get used to it...
1. No fix dates/times to meet up....cos he need to find excuses...
2. Most of the time ...is at nites...
3. Most of the place...is at HOTELsss....
4. Sometime didn't keep to the promises to meet...so must learn to accept the fact..tat sometime...he will not b available...due to his family....

After meet up....
1. gulity ....will ask abt the family....trying to sense does the family know abt the affair already...
2. worry oneday will tio slap by woman on the street..
3. feeling that he might not be able to "keep up" and balance with the family and me...understand tat it will be very tiring...
4. Sad..dun know when will meet up again...and will compare why each time meet up must be at nites....can't intimiate openly...

..guess my life is boring and need to spice up a bit.. wif such relationship....but then its really hard to meet someone tat u feeling comfortable with..being on bed or spending time together.. well, tat is FATE...so just enjoy the moment till "THE END" comes...

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[QUOTE=KingEros;3452471]Case of leopards dun change their spots, I suppose ... but this leopard really slowing down becoz of age liao.

at least you still getting hits. 2008, was like 3 hits. One done in my current office on my boss' couch. The 2nd one was at home while OC not around, third one in a budget hotel.

Me been told by my fortune teller that I can't touch ECAs as it bring me back luck. Also have been bogged down and affected by this crisis too. Thats why hope to move on to the next current boss of mine.
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but then its really hard to meet someone tat u feeling comfortable with..being on bed or spending time together.. well, tat is FATE...so just enjoy the moment till "THE END" comes...
I fully agree with you, its hard to meet someone u are comfy with
being together or in the bed. Its really enjoy the moment until the
"END of ROMANCE" comes...
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I fully agree with you, its hard to meet someone u are comfy with
being together or in the bed. Its really enjoy the moment until the
"END of ROMANCE" comes...

ya.. agree with Blue_gal words too....
its hard to meet someone who we are REALLY FEELING COMFY being 2gather or in the bed .... that's y is also fated .. just treasure and always remembered each meetup & moments .... *always keeping my fingers cross one meetup after another meetup*
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Sorry to probe but why u fall for a married man? There are many bachelors out there. Dear dec gal, what do u expect out of this relationship? He divorce wife and marry u? Or u just carry on and let fate decide? Many years ago, I sort of having a relationship with a beautiful sexy colleague who is 12 yrs younger then me (no sex, just intimate bcos havin problem with my wife) . After six months, cannot tahan, gave up. Very tiring and taxing. Realise no positive ending. Anyway, feelings difficult to control but just wish you all the best.
LOVE IS BLIND... i also dun know how come i jus fall into this"complicated" relationship.. it just started with sms, msn....and jus find that both of us can click...relationship jus happen naturally....sigh...BUT I'm know that he is married in the 1st place... so I also have to be prepared that he will stop this relationship once "red alert" ...
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LOVE IS BLIND... i also dun know how come i jus fall into this"complicated" relationship.. it just started with sms, msn....and jus find that both of us can click...relationship jus happen naturally....sigh...BUT I'm know that he is married in the 1st place... so I also have to be prepared that he will stop this relationship once "red alert" ...
Yes, ..... I can understand. As long as u are happy.....I wish u all the best. Take care.
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