Missed opportunities

[XuanXu]

Originally Posted by Vinson

At my age now, with more experience in hindsight, I would have just tried my luck and asked if she would like to come up for some coffee.
But if I was younger, would probably have been stone as well and honestly believed just a gesture to send me home.

Morale of story, no harm asking, whats the worst can happen ?
YOLO.

Agree with you.

[bigmannow]

Few years ago I was at a local attraction in VN. Met this girl who was asking for directions. I showed her a map which I have at that time and she was looking at it standing beside me but her boobs was pressing on my elbow.. I was thinking is it accidental ? But it seemed to be quite long there. After a while of explaining about where she is on the map, I chatted her and realised she is from Philippines. After some chatting, we went our separate ways. Back in town, I bought a bus ticket to go to another city. The next day when I boarded the bus , I spotted her in the bus as well. It was a "sleeping bus" meaning there are only beds in the bus. When we arrived at the next city in the morning, I called her over and she has not booked any accommodation. I have already booked a hotel so I invited her to my hotel to rest first while she find her own accommodation. When we reached my hotel room, I invited her to take a shower first but instead she told me I could shower first. So I went to shower first and I locked the door. After shower, I came out and saw she looked a bit unhappy. Then, she went to shower. After she finished showering, she laid on the bed. I went to lie beside her and stroked her hair. I commented they looked smooth. Can't remember what she said... then I went to touch her shoulders and she asked me "what are you doing?" I stopped everything. Later on, she found her accommodation and left.

On hindsight, I think she wanted me to shower first then she might join me inside? cos she looked unhappy after I came out of shower.

[Lumix]

Originally Posted by bigmannow

Few years ago I was at a local attraction in VN. Met this girl who was asking for directions. I showed her a map which I have at that time and she was looking at it standing beside me but her boobs was pressing on my elbow.. I was thinking is it accidental ? But it seemed to be quite long there. After a while of explaining about where she is on the map, I chatted her and realised she is from Philippines. After some chatting, we went our separate ways. Back in town, I bought a bus ticket to go to another city. The next day when I boarded the bus , I spotted her in the bus as well. It was a "sleeping bus" meaning there are only beds in the bus. When we arrived at the next city in the morning, I called her over and she has not booked any accommodation. I have already booked a hotel so I invited her to my hotel to rest first while she find her own accommodation. When we reached my hotel room, I invited her to take a shower first but instead she told me I could shower first. So I went to shower first and I locked the door. After shower, I came out and saw she looked a bit unhappy. Then, she went to shower. After she finished showering, she laid on the bed. I went to lie beside her and stroked her hair. I commented they looked smooth. Can't remember what she said... then I went to touch her shoulders and she asked me "what are you doing?" I stopped everything. Later on, she found her accommodation and left.

On hindsight, I think she wanted me to shower first then she might join me inside? cos she looked unhappy after I came out of shower.

No she prob got nothing to steal from you. Thats why unhappy

[fuckjedi]

Missed opportunities? Many many times bro.

There were a few times I had the girl in front of me, all naked and ready to be taken but I walked away because of certain reasons which I shall not share here.

But yes I have had many missed opportunities. Some I regretted on following up on and some I was glad I didn't commit.

[asianguy27]

Originally Posted by Lolitta

Thanks for sharing.

just pull out bro

[bigmannow]

Some years ago I used WeChat nearby and hooked up a girl from KL and holidaying in JB alone. She looked like mid 20s .. face look average and plain.. we met up in JB for lunch and she signalled for me to pay for the food, then we went to watch movie and also I paid, I felt a bit ripped off already … then after movie we walked around and I commented there are many hotels around .. she sort of thought I was talking about some action from her body language and while crossing one road she said she was scared and I think she wants me to hold her arm to cross but I didn’t .. then we took taxi back to her hotel …she didn’t invite me to her room so we just walked around to explore the hotel and I left after that . maybe if I hold her arm might have some action but I was a bit pissed she expect me to pay so much lol

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by bigmannow

She signalled for me to pay for the food, then we went to watch movie and also I paid, I felt a bit ripped off already … then after movie we walked around and I commented there are many hotels around ..

Next time just go watch ghost/horror movies. Scare her first. Can hug hug in the cinema if she is scared. Then tell her many Chinese people die in JB during world war 2 because of Japanese massacre. Then when Malaysia became an independent country, they have to dig up the Chinese mass grave and cemeteries to build hotels. So if the aircon suddenly very cold or noisy at night, don't open your eyes

Message me once thing in the morning so that I know you are safe in your room. Then you wait for open invitation lah

[bigmannow]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Next time just go watch ghost/horror movies. Scare her first. Can hug hug in the cinema if she is scared. Then tell her many Chinese people die in JB during world war 2 because of Japanese massacre. Then when Malaysia became an independent country, they have to dig up the Chinese mass grave and cemeteries to build hotels. So if the aircon suddenly very cold or noisy at night, don't open your eyes

Message me once thing in the morning so that I know you are safe in your room. Then you wait for open invitation lah

Sounds like a good idea lol

[bigmannow]

About 8 years ago I met an Indonesian lady online .. she then came over here for holiday .. she is apparently quite rich and has a business in Indonesia. I suggested to meet at her hotel. When I arrived at her hotel lobby .. she came down to meet me and then she wanted to go back her room to change her clothes and asked me to go up her room instead of waiting at lobby. It was quite sudden and so I declined. She asked again and I declined again. Then she went up and changed and came down and I took her around sightseeing and exchanged contact up til now we sometimes keep in contact.

[TangBoHu]

Used to know a Muslim girl during my NS days. So after NDP rehearsal, brought her to my home and after my shower, we sleep on the bed.
Started to touch her and she also touched my bro which was really hard. She was wearing jeans which is so hard to take off. Then last min, she backed out and i leave her alone until morning then send her off after breakfast.