Second to this bro. Bro @ssd3469 may broaden your social circles, joining some interest group or hobby group or outing may increase the chance of meeting a like-minded partners.
Don’t forget that you are not the only one looking for gf. There are many girls looks for bf too. Cheer up bro!
I am seeing a counsellor now, he tells me that it is possible to find a wife and buy a 4 room flat despite my circumstances. Do you agree?
I know that it is not just us wanting to find a gf, women want to find a bf too, but the difference or problem is they don't want me.
I am also very sick of hearing phrases like it is just not your time yet, you will find one eventually, along with the phrase above.
Secondly,I know that prostitute is not a substitute for gf but because I am 34 with little savings(due largely to secondary four and NS bullying) that's why I say I am forced to. If I had a choice or was able to find a gf do you think I would want to go? I know you had my good intentions at heart and I am not angry. I just hope that you are able to see the situation by clarifying.
As for reasons I am not able to, do you all think that increasing Instagram followers would help? Because I only have 25 followers. But I don't know how to increase followers. I think there was a time when Instagram was first invented we had the option to port over or invite our Facebook friends over but I missed that opportunity.
Hope to hear your response or further advice to this. Thank you.
bro. we are similar age so just sharing a bit of my thoughts
firstly, no need talk about being forced to visit ML - we are all on the same forum to discuss our visits so there is nothing to be embarrassed about if that is what u are implying
u mentioned about instagram followers, but maybe this is the problem. bro no offense, but caring about ig follower count is dumb af unless u are an influencer or sth. i have 20x your follower count but it has made 0 impact in my life. this is not haolian but a clue/hint of the wrong stuff u might be focusing on
good that u are seeing a counsellor, but maybe u should focus less on this kind of milestone kind of goal, like get gf by xx age/bto whatever room(what else is the counsellor supposed to say if u asking a question like that anyway lol)
like pii bro said, should work more on yourself and observe why u have been unsuccessful with girls
coming from someone that had similar views as you some time ago
bro. we are similar age so just sharing a bit of my thoughts
firstly, no need talk about being forced to visit ML - we are all on the same forum to discuss our visits so there is nothing to be embarrassed about if that is what u are implying
u mentioned about instagram followers, but maybe this is the problem. bro no offense, but caring about ig follower count is dumb af unless u are an influencer or sth. i have 20x your follower count but it has made 0 impact in my life. this is not haolian but a clue/hint of the wrong stuff u might be focusing on
good that u are seeing a counsellor, but maybe u should focus less on this kind of milestone kind of goal, like get gf by xx age/bto whatever room(what else is the counsellor supposed to say if u asking a question like that anyway lol)
like pii bro said, should work more on yourself and observe why u have been unsuccessful with girls
coming from someone that had similar views as you some time ago
No, there is a difference. For other people they are not forced because they are able to find a gf or wife. For me I am unable to find one, plus I am 34 years old with little savings and bad or no career largely due to past bullying traumas.
bro. we are similar age so just sharing a bit of my thoughts
firstly, no need talk about being forced to visit ML - we are all on the same forum to discuss our visits so there is nothing to be embarrassed about if that is what u are implying
u mentioned about instagram followers, but maybe this is the problem. bro no offense, but caring about ig follower count is dumb af unless u are an influencer or sth. i have 20x your follower count but it has made 0 impact in my life. this is not haolian but a clue/hint of the wrong stuff u might be focusing on
good that u are seeing a counsellor, but maybe u should focus less on this kind of milestone kind of goal, like get gf by xx age/bto whatever room(what else is the counsellor supposed to say if u asking a question like that anyway lol)
like pii bro said, should work more on yourself and observe why u have been unsuccessful with girls
coming from someone that had similar views as you some time ago
For the counsellor part it is not accurate also, because I need to be able to see the possibility of it happening to have hope and something to work for. Plus all along that had been my life goal, to find a gf and set up a family, instead of visiting prostitutes, which is also why I say I was forced, I already told you this in my first reply.
When I say forced I mean forced by life circumstances, forced to an edge. Just like how Christopher reeves considered suicide after his injury. Just like how Desmond Tan drowned himself because he couldn't see a way out anymore in last year channel 8 drama all that glitters.
No, there is a difference. For other people they are not forced because they are able to find a gf or wife. For me I am unable to find one, plus I am 34 years old with little savings and bad or no career largely due to past bullying traumas.
Btw is Locanto a good or bad website?
You should work on your traumas and upskill yourself.
I don't know your circumstance too well but I have been in bullying situations too since young. Be more resilient and make it your goal to show those that bullied you back then that you are better than them. At least that's what I told myself and serves as a form of comfort.
I'm not proud of myself visiting ML/Escorts either and I'm trying to curb myself from doing so. Set a goal, like for my case I am aiming to buy my own condo if I can't find any suitable partner within the next 2-3 years. Want to buy condo equates to needing money, so I would need to chiong less.
On a side note, locanto is a bad site full of scams, thread with caution.
bro. we are similar age so just sharing a bit of my thoughts
firstly, no need talk about being forced to visit ML - we are all on the same forum to discuss our visits so there is nothing to be embarrassed about if that is what u are implying
u mentioned about instagram followers, but maybe this is the problem. bro no offense, but caring about ig follower count is dumb af unless u are an influencer or sth. i have 20x your follower count but it has made 0 impact in my life. this is not haolian but a clue/hint of the wrong stuff u might be focusing on
good that u are seeing a counsellor, but maybe u should focus less on this kind of milestone kind of goal, like get gf by xx age/bto whatever room(what else is the counsellor supposed to say if u asking a question like that anyway lol)
like pii bro said, should work more on yourself and observe why u have been unsuccessful with girls
coming from someone that had similar views as you some time ago
When I say caring about ig followers it is because number of IG followers shows that you are high value and leading a cool life, so women might want to be a part of your life ie. Be your gf.
You should work on your traumas and upskill yourself.
I don't know your circumstance too well but I have been in bullying situations too since young. Be more resilient and make it your goal to show those that bullied you back then that you are better than them. At least that's what I told myself and serves as a form of comfort.
I'm not proud of myself visiting ML/Escorts either and I'm trying to curb myself from doing so. Set a goal, like for my case I am aiming to buy my own condo if I can't find any suitable partner within the next 2-3 years. Want to buy condo equates to needing money, so I would need to chiong less.
On a side note, locanto is a bad site full of scams, thread with caution.
Actually prostitution is an exploitation of women, so if you think that way it will make you want to stop going.
You should work on your traumas and upskill yourself.
I don't know your circumstance too well but I have been in bullying situations too since young. Be more resilient and make it your goal to show those that bullied you back then that you are better than them. At least that's what I told myself and serves as a form of comfort.
I'm not proud of myself visiting ML/Escorts either and I'm trying to curb myself from doing so. Set a goal, like for my case I am aiming to buy my own condo if I can't find any suitable partner within the next 2-3 years. Want to buy condo equates to needing money, so I would need to chiong less.
On a side note, locanto is a bad site full of scams, thread with caution.
Or if you think would you want your own sisters or mother or daughter to work as a prostitute it should help in helping you stop chionging.
You should work on your traumas and upskill yourself.
I don't know your circumstance too well but I have been in bullying situations too since young. Be more resilient and make it your goal to show those that bullied you back then that you are better than them. At least that's what I told myself and serves as a form of comfort.
I'm not proud of myself visiting ML/Escorts either and I'm trying to curb myself from doing so. Set a goal, like for my case I am aiming to buy my own condo if I can't find any suitable partner within the next 2-3 years. Want to buy condo equates to needing money, so I would need to chiong less.
On a side note, locanto is a bad site full of scams, thread with caution.
You should work on your traumas and upskill yourself.
I don't know your circumstance too well but I have been in bullying situations too since young. Be more resilient and make it your goal to show those that bullied you back then that you are better than them. At least that's what I told myself and serves as a form of comfort.
I'm not proud of myself visiting ML/Escorts either and I'm trying to curb myself from doing so. Set a goal, like for my case I am aiming to buy my own condo if I can't find any suitable partner within the next 2-3 years. Want to buy condo equates to needing money, so I would need to chiong less.
On a side note, locanto is a bad site full of scams, thread with caution.
I think quitting masturbation will help us in getting a gf also
Sharing 2 of my experiences of fj in curtain joint..one RTC and the other MIA now..
1- initially she Gq was HJ.. but ended up doing fj after successfully psychoing the ML.. its more than a year ago and the ML has RTC. She was in her late 20s, and a little chubby. The excitement is definitely there and both of us had to keep our moan/noise to a minimum.. did 3 positions, cowgirl, missionary and ended with doggy. I could tell that FJ wasnt allowed in the place as they didnt even have condom.. instead she used some thin sheet of plastic and it broke halfway and I only realized when I was doggy-ing her. Just continued anyways since whats done is done.. then shoot at her butt. Rtf one more time and she RTC. 2nd time also same thing, plastic broke and ended up doing raw. It was a little pricy as I tipped her 200 + 50 massage as I felt to give her more as it ended up raw.
2-added her on wechat.. asked her if got fj and she said no.. then told her I only looking for FJ. I think coz she got no business, then she said give me exception. I went down, realized its curtain joint. ML was quite pretty, close to pics in wechat. Massage was quite decent and i liked it when she rubbed her boobs on my back with her clothes on during teasing. When its time for action, interestingly she played loud music in the background, her colleagues left the place and she locked the place. Once deed done she unlocked the door and lowered the music and her colleagues came back in.
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Special thanks to bro scooby1 and bro Giansex for upping me and helping me get my 1st power.
pending to return scooby1 10 more points and Giansex 4 more points!
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