Advice regarding referral letter mishap

[Ivann]

Originally Posted by rahul123

Comprehensive tests done at Dr Tan and DSC last year. This year no exposure.

So the paid was last year which you followed up with tests at DSC ?
When you say no exposure, you meant total celibacy except with the wife ?
Have there been any forms of hanky panky outside at all ?

[rahul123]

Will do thanks 🙏🏻

Originally Posted by Xgenre

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[rahul123]

Indeed, All’s well that ends well

Originally Posted by guyorgirl

No worries bro, not hoping you get into trouble or what. But generally saying sometimes getting a bullet is better than avoiding it and end up with a motar round.

I believe she understands and is trying hard to accept it that’s why she rather takes your explanation and let things be, which is a good thing!!! I’m not saying it’s bad.

A good ending is always best!

[rahul123]

Yes.. visited massage parlour but only a plain vanilla HJ involved with no BJ, kissing etc so i assume very low risk..

Originally Posted by Ivann

So the paid was last year which you followed up with tests at DSC ?
When you say no exposure, you meant total celibacy except with the wife ?
Have there been any forms of hanky panky outside at all ?

[Protozoalgae]

Originally Posted by rahul123

Yes.. visited massage parlour but only a plain vanilla HJ involved with no BJ, kissing etc so i assume very low risk..

Huh? U got UTI from hj? Anyway congrats. But before married she already big fat no to bj already? Anyway u go steal eat only hj also kena issue?

[Ivann]

Originally Posted by rahul123

Yes.. visited massage parlour but only a plain vanilla HJ involved with no BJ, kissing etc so i assume very low risk..

In that case, if I were you, I wouldn't take anymore precautions.
But I would preface it as, like you said, the risk is very low, but more ridiculously odds has happened.
And you are not me.

Do you want to risk it ?

[cavemao]

bro i can't really advise, but my own issue with wife when i got caught is to kneel on durian shell and beg for forgiveness, that is the only way and fastest way for her to move past this

i would love to find out what you did in the end and how did your wife react.

[ctan100]

bro i dont have the same experience but at least my current wife knows about my past. my 2cents is that just be honest about it. no point finding more reason to lie.

u should know their 6th sense.. is either they start digging and your lies dont match up, or because of family they choose to close 1 eye and things move on.

Either way i think its best to be honest about it and of course things wont be the same.