why am i feeling like that

ryaw · #1 17-04-2008, 03:46 PM

To all SBF bros,

I just broke off with my GF of 2 years about 4 mths back.And all my guys frens was ready to get me back into action,but i noticed that i seem to have lost all my confidence in getting laid and maybe lost interest in woman also.i am very worried as i am alreadi 29yrs old this year.I used to have alot of confidence in myself and i got my ex-gf in a matter of 5 days,recently my fren was able to intro a 19yr old pub waitress to me and she was like ready to go and screw with me on that very same nite,but somehow i just realise that i dun have the mood for it.(i mean WTF man,here was a average looking 19yr old chick waiting to be screwed for free and i just rejected the golden opportunity like tat) i seriously think there is something wrong with me.Has anyone been thru this feeling before.Pls advise and help me.Thanks alot.And FYI,i am over my ex-gf lah.so..............

unsung80 · #2 17-04-2008, 07:14 PM

so......

Get alive and start doing what a man suppose to do. 19yr old chick is waiting.

longwinter · #3 17-04-2008, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by unsung80

so......

Get alive and start doing what a man suppose to do. 19yr old chick is waiting.

if u dun do it, alot of guys are queuing up to be in ur position to screw the 19 yr old chick.

poorman4sex · #4 17-04-2008, 07:22 PM

get screwing while you can, have the chance to.......

dun be regret when time flies and you start to think back.... why I did not do this... why I did not do it.... why I no try~~~

speaking from experience... trust me...

Mac_Chicken · #5 17-04-2008, 07:45 PM

What is past is gone... Look forward...

hotsoup16 · #6 17-04-2008, 08:15 PM

Bro,
Dun brood over it and live on with yr life. i can only conclude: it's yr mind over yr body

哀兵必胜 · #7 17-04-2008, 08:27 PM

You just answered yourself, there is somethings seriously wrong with you, so how do you propose people here help, tell you go screw the 19yo .... your own friends already did it liao ... it is up to yoruself, nobody can help you, unless you want us to help you screw somebody

Quote:

Originally Posted by ryaw

i just rejected the golden opportunity like tat) i seriously think there is something wrong with me.Has anyone been thru this feeling before.Pls advise and help me.Thanks alot.And FYI,i am over my ex-gf lah.so..............

soccergod · #8 17-04-2008, 08:58 PM

Look for other gf lor...

Steadyman1 · #9 17-04-2008, 08:59 PM

Indeed "Mind over body". You will get it over and time is the best medicine.

xiaoqiang · #10 17-04-2008, 09:01 PM

well, we kinda in de same boat as de almost 4 yrsrelatonship with my former ger left me as soon as she found a job after she graduated from local poly.

But as time goes by, i became to do some sweet talking ard online and manage to hook up a 19yr old ite ger. Yes i did up de ite ger but the feeling of poking isn't isn't there. And therefore my brotherhood become soft and from that day onward, she found a new love and left me. I don't have any feeling for de ite ger afterall. Got ger for u juz up =) Her de lai jiu be Qing Ren else have a FB also not bad ma.

Lesson learn in life

Cherish the moment ( Bu Zai Hu Tian Chang Di Jiu, Zi Zai Hu Cheng Jing Yong You)

I quitted this forum for almost 3yr =) juz for her but I'm back now for more fun

avarice · #11 17-04-2008, 09:09 PM

Can this be true or it is a typo by threadstarter ...

unsung80 · #12 17-04-2008, 09:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Norikasan55

If you don't feel like screwing her........ why not let her mount you!!!

LOL, that's a good one. HeeHaaa!!!! *Gallop Gallop*

colins · #13 17-04-2008, 09:32 PM

Its a matter of lifestyle and habits la. Not every guy, especially if you have a stable relationship before, is able to get right into the mood of being single and carefree again as after a long stop.

Be with your friends more and you'll be just like them. But do take it as a good opportunity and time to plan for your future and set good habits rather than some not so healthy ones. Its always good to return to a clean sheet.

So, nothing wrong with you.

goodyoldshoes · #14 17-04-2008, 09:35 PM

Think u still somehow miss your ex-gf loh. Try to ask her out and see how u feels abt her.

But in the meanwhile, do give urself chances with other gals before u turn gay ...

kenneth21 · #15 17-04-2008, 09:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ryaw

To all SBF bros,

I just broke off with my GF of 2 years about 4 mths back.And all my guys frens was ready to get me back into action,but i noticed that i seem to have lost all my confidence in getting laid and maybe lost interest in woman also.i am very worried as i am alreadi 29yrs old this year.I used to have alot of confidence in myself and i got my ex-gf in a matter of 5 days,recently my fren was able to intro a 19yr old pub waitress to me and she was like ready to go and screw with me on that very same nite,but somehow i just realise that i dun have the mood for it.(i mean WTF man,here was a average looking 19yr old chick waiting to be screwed for free and i just rejected the golden opportunity like tat) i seriously think there is something wrong with me.Has anyone been thru this feeling before.Pls advise and help me.Thanks alot.And FYI,i am over my ex-gf lah.so..............

bro, grab the chance when its there. If not, next time you'll be posting in the thread "Miss chance or Regrets from past relationship experience"
You might not have the mood could be because you are having sex and not making love, but rest assure that when you are in the act, your small head will overcome your big head.
So what i think is that, when chance comes, take it!