4 yrs relationship... NO SEX

tweakmax2 · #1 05-10-2002, 09:48 AM

been together wif my gf for 4 yrs... initially she allow petting and fingering..but now she doesnt.
i feel very sad....i can still feel she love me... but how come she dun allow sex?

#2 05-10-2002, 10:24 AM

sad to say, love u dun means must engaged in petting or sex activities..
maybe she's just want to consume that after marriage....

if u really love and respect her, dun rush her..

#3 05-10-2002, 11:35 AM

as 4 the mean time,chances r u r on the way to GL/DESKER to unload right bro?????????hahaaaaaaa

tweakmax2 · #4 05-10-2002, 11:43 AM

thinking of any pills to make my gf horny

Riquelme · #5 05-10-2002, 01:23 PM

got such pills that works meh? during army days we used to buy a few bottles of spanish flies and drop them into the long island tea and give them to some gers at zouk....but no effect leh...the gers still went supper with us and go home after that....NO EFFECT!!

#6 06-10-2002, 01:40 PM

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Originally posted by tweakmax2
thinking of any pills to make my gf horny

What for by giving her pills? If later she found out what you do, you might lose her. Think thrice, just wanna to jerk your sperm out of your head, is it worht it? Give your gf some respect lah.

For goodness sake, if u cannot tahan, go and use sotong and jerk yourself!

#7 06-10-2002, 06:06 PM

4 yrs no sex and now don't allow petting??

most prob i think she's finding the relationship dull and boring...

try to do some intimate things and then slowly lor..

if not, maybe she like anal?

justl00king · #8 07-10-2002, 01:41 AM

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Originally posted by etegration

if not, maybe she like anal?

you everyday think of anal only

#9 07-10-2002, 11:19 AM

ya lor..some of my female frd... they realli low sex drive..... wat to do???

#10 07-10-2002, 12:37 PM

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Originally posted by justl00king
you everyday think of anal only

cannot meh? :P

hotterdog · #11 07-10-2002, 01:37 PM

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Originally posted by tweakmax2
been together wif my gf for 4 yrs... initially she allow petting and fingering..but now she doesnt.
i feel very sad....i can still feel she love me... but how come she dun allow sex?

If I were u, I would have a heart to heart talk with her. If tat dun work, dump her. NO offence, but I think u'll suffer in the long run. Love without sex simply cannot make it, while sex without love is still possible.

cheechee · #12 08-10-2002, 12:50 PM

Wow... 4 years? Damn long ler....

Maybe u wanna try to work it out with her? just maybe arrange for some "romantic" session that she will like and do something that make her feel touched. Then straight after the moves slow slow kiss her, pretend to promise her this time will be the same as the usual petting.
Then try all kinds of ways to make her feel aroused->well, i went thru a lot of experiment to find out my gf weakness spot - nipples. Just pretend tht u r not going into intercourse, kiss and lick her and pray hard that you get her weakness spot, then when she breathing hard and fast, continue, dun stop.

Then when u feel that she really cannot tahan liao, asked her softly in her ears if she wants to or not...

Then bingo!!!!!!

Juz my 2 cents tots....

cheechee · #13 08-10-2002, 12:54 PM

something to add-> do it slowly and smoothly.

If u straight straight ask her "can we have sex", most probably answer is "no". Try to create the environment, do something "romantic"(we guys might not able to understand and agree to this term, but one of my normal girl fren once told me that this means sky and heaven for gals).

All the best...

P.S Btw, she aint a devoted catholic rite? If it is religious matter, then think not much u can do. unless u get married soon..

PrinceD@rkness · #14 08-10-2002, 02:06 PM

knn, so laychea. juz make her drunk

Cuntalk · #15 08-10-2002, 09:28 PM

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Originally posted by ice_girl82
ya lor..some of my female frd... they realli low sex drive..... wat to do???

jus do it!