Any bros here good at sweet-talking girls? Need advice.

[Rodontan]

Usually when talking to a girl about mundane things such as travel or daily happenings etc....how do you guys slowly change the topic into more flirty / sexual stuff and escalate things?

One problem I've is that when talking to girls, I tend to focus too much on the topic itself (e.g: talk about dogs, end up whole conversation about dogs life, dog maintenance, dog food, dog breeds....).

I tried to force the topic to become more sexual but it always creeps them out cos' it's too sudden and random.

I need to learn how to "transit" the topic into more personal flirty stuff. How bros? Any advice or pointers?

[w00f]

You may pm dreamzknight ! He is good!

[oxeso]

Originally Posted by Rodontan

how do you guys slowly change the topic into more flirty / sexual stuff and escalate things?
(e.g: talk about dogs, dog breeds.....

Right after dog breeds. Happy 2018.

[ddog]

Talking doggy, joke about doggystyle or nonchalantly about mating or dog humping incident that happened to you

[I Love Boobs]

It's a factor of how intelligent you are.
Most locals and Malaysians are not fast enough to even follow intellectual conversation.
In hokkien, catch no balls.
If cannot even follow, don't expect to be able to manipulate conversation.

[Rodontan]

Originally Posted by I Love Boobs

It's a factor of how intelligent you are.
Most locals and Malaysians are not fast enough to even follow intellectual conversation.
In hokkien, catch no balls.
If cannot even follow, don't expect to be able to manipulate conversation.

so how? gone case for people who are not naturally sweet-talkers? Can this be learnt somehow to a certain extent?

[MoeLanYong]

Nothing to do with the transition. Everything to do with the topic. If I were a girl that does not fancy you and you change the topic to flirty/sexual stuff, you will freak me out too.

If you can't see it, try imagining you are late on your way to work and a 90 y.o. gandma with saggy boobs and a haggard face keeps groping you in the bus. Don't tell me you will be not be freaked out too??

[Lorres]

Originally Posted by I Love Boobs

It's a factor of how intelligent you are.
Most locals and Malaysians are not fast enough to even follow intellectual conversation.
In hokkien, catch no balls.
If cannot even follow, don't expect to be able to manipulate conversation.

Lol! Astute observation!
Furthermore, if the girl is not humorous or tune towards sex or find you sexy, it is difficult (or even dangerous) to steer the conversation towards sexual grounds.

[I Love Boobs]

Originally Posted by Lorres

Lol! Astute observation!
Furthermore, if the girl is not humorous or tune towards sex or find you sexy, it is difficult (or even dangerous) to steer the conversation towards sexual grounds.

Agreed.
Easier to direct a conversation towards sexual innuendoes.
Hard to extricate yourself should things go south.
If you cannot even control the conversation, you won't be able to pick up the nuances that the girl is getting uncomfortable.
Then comes the sexual harassment charges...

[si_glow]

Talking is a waste of time . Just go straight into action .

[HARPERS]

cannot talk about sex dont force la ... play along lor .. make the conversation interesting instead ... make her wanna talk to you more ... this time cannot at least the conversation was interesting and she may go out with you again ... slowly la ..... women all same one pretend pretend ... after she gets comfortable she will talk all the sex u want .... but then next question is .. after all the sex talk .. how to get into her pants ah .... she may be cock teaser nia .. talk to you until gian gian then leave u high and dry go find her FB ...

[unfit]

Originally Posted by si_glow

Talking is a waste of time . Just go straight into action .

Return 17 apples

[Booker]

Ask... asked open ended question. This is how u draw her responses and carry the conversation forward. It also helps to guage if she is keen to carry on talking anot.

Listen... listen to her respond... if she is giving all the one worded reply, yes / no reply... then u know she sian half already.

Talk... don’t boast... it may seem impressive, but sometimes it will bored the lady... becos the conversation ends up being all about u... worse case.. boast too much, end up kenna entrapped like the HDB guy... the gone case.

Wide view... basically, be abreast about things happening around. Don’t have to be a know it all.. u are not google.

Humour... its good if u can add humour... but dun crack lame or cold jokes.

Just chipping in from what I learnt in some workshop.

[adonis]

There are videos about pick up artistes, PUAs, on YouTube. Or books about the techniques of PUAs for you to improve your game. Namely: "The Rules of the Game".

[conquer]

Some rules of thumb are here...