Did I kena the KC Trap?

[Kairentay]

Hi bros, need your advise on this,
I have been visiting this Spa at Bukit Batok(you guys should know) for about 4 months or so and I'm attracted by this young Prc ml that works in the night shift there. My first session started very well with her and our chemistry grew after the first few visits. She would even text me whether I have eatten my lunch or dinner and ask me how's my work going at the office. She will also say that she misses me quite often. I will usually go down twice per week to find her at the Spa and I spent about $704 last month visiting her twice per week. I have overspent on my budget of about $200 per month for massage before I met her.

I will always burn a hole on my wallet, everytime I go the Spa to find her. Did I kena the KC trap by her that I kept spending just to see her or she really likes me? Need some advices from you bros, much appreciated. Tay Kai Ren.

[swap]

KC trap or not I think only you know how you feel inside.

From your post you say you spend over budget. I think that's an important thing you realise.

Need to live within your means. At least you have awareness of your means.

[Ohyaitsme]

I been in your shoes.
I would visit this ML once or twice a week.
Alot of smses exchange exmp. I miss you. Are you busy? Have you eaten? When are you coming again?

Its been almost 2 mths now I last visited her. My pocket burnt deep deep,now economy bad, it help me refrain from visiting her again. And she msg me long time never see me..
I couldnt care less. Because I know in the end these moments are just pleasure. Nothing more. Time and money are precious unless you got $$$ to spend..

[Shaboy85]

What i did was since i have her number,i just texted her to come over my place for a massage after she finished work or during her off day.tell her its better i give her the money straight to her pocket rather then give the money to the company.this way she can earn more and faster.so she agreed.so each time she comes over for a 'quickie' and i pay her $50 instead of paying the company for entrance fee and her service.i saved my money there.after sometime i reduce the amt and then its free for me because sometime shes my social escort for 'dates'...

[romidogdog]

She say " miss you"...That's how your $704 gone...every customers she tell them I " miss you" .....imagine how much she make..... this kind of places just go and have fun... no more than that...if you carried on what you have been doing now...in no time you be spending more than $704.....never give your hp number to any ml...cos everytime they call you....you start itching again.....

[orbrawr]

what is "kc trap'?

[Ohyaitsme]

感觉
"Kum cheng" in hokkien

[Gold69luck]

Bro let me share with you my story, I used to spend like you about $500-$600 a month on massage. Until last month, I almost got retrenched and that was then I realised how important is money to me and I should not overspent so much on unnecesary things. That's a wake up call for me. Economy is bad now so spend carefully.

[mikeshinodaz]

Bro.. control.. 99% of the time its not real.. better spend the money elsewhere.. or buy an iphone or something.. can ask siri to say i miss you everyday.. got angmoh voice somemore..

[HonkyTonkyMan]

Originally Posted by Kairentay

Did I kena the KC trap by her that I kept spending just to see her or she really likes me? Need some advices from you bros, much appreciated. Tay Kai Ren.

You didn't kena the KC trap, you kena the GT trap....GONG TAO...

[muthu_curry]

TS

At least you haven't buy gifts for her yet

[thomas]

She always says she misses u. Ask u if u have eaten etc. She's the one kena kc from u. So u r safe bro. Lol

[wangboy]

Originally Posted by Kairentay

Hi bros, need your advise on this,
I have been visiting this Spa at Bukit Batok(you guys should know) for about 4 months or so and I'm attracted by this young Prc ml that works in the night shift there. My first session started very well with her and our chemistry grew after the first few visits. She would even text me whether I have eatten my lunch or dinner and ask me how's my work going at the office. She will also say that she misses me quite often. I will usually go down twice per week to find her at the Spa and I spent about $704 last month visiting her twice per week. I have overspent on my budget of about $200 per month for massage before I met her.

I will always burn a hole on my wallet, everytime I go the Spa to find her. Did I kena the KC trap by her that I kept spending just to see her or she really likes me? Need some advices from you bros, much appreciated. Tay Kai Ren.

we want to have a good time, sometime it is fun and got the kind of "chu lian" gan jue when someone send you concern messages. But you must be able to tell if the gal is truly miss you or truly miss you to go there and see her and spend money to see her.
Well if you are going to spend on massage anyway then you can certainly go there after all the money will be spend anyway. But do it within means

Few month ago I know of 1 ML that I like very much and of course I start visiting her more regularly but I find that she start to ask me go even more often. Of course I have pass the time to be "KC" I am not keen to start any relationship. Just want to have a good time. The problem was her service or I should say the feel start to get lesser and lesser. So naturally I frequent less and delay in replying her message. After all it is my money.

From about 4-5 times a month I drop to 1 time or 2 time a month. I told her I am in deep shit (financially), well this is a way for you to sound her out. Tell her you are in deep shit or even in debt, possibly lose your job, owe bank owe father mother. Whatever your story is. Well from there you should be able to tell, if she miss you ask her for lunch, dinner not to frequent her in the shop. If she is not up to it and only concern if you go to the shop, well you know the rest.

You are a smart guy

[Kugan168]

Bro trust me all this is not worth it, I was like you once too when I blindly fall in love with a ml. I bumped into the ml I liked was with her husband and her baby shopping at the supermarket. From then on, I do not believe what the ml says, everytime they talk to me during the massage I will treat it as a form of entertainment with a ear in and another ear out.

[boomerangarang]

Post of the day bro!

Originally Posted by mikeshinodaz

Bro.. control.. 99% of the time its not real.. better spend the money elsewhere.. or buy an iphone or something.. can ask siri to say i miss you everyday.. got angmoh voice somemore..