Does a man really love someone who has worked in a spa?

[tracy96]

I may be working in a spa. I do not have a boyfriend yet.
If somehow, after working in a spa, and a man confessed that he is in love with me, and assuming he is really nice and kind to me,
but deep inside, i knew, the future will not be bright, shall i turn him away? But, what if he keeps on booking me at my place of work?
can i reject his booking?

[sammyboyfor]

Yes you should reject his booking.

[squiggle]

If you don't like him, then you can just reject him, if not you can just be normal friends with him to see how things goes.

Na, it is just depends on individual view with life. Regardless of one profession, as long you never go cheat, rob or steal money from anyone. Just making a lawful honest living, nobody should/be looking down on you, same goes to prostitution.

As long the spa you are working in doesn't provide "extra service", I don't see any issue with it.

http://buddhism.about.com/od/theeigh...livelihood.htm

[korean]

It is possible, I'm one of them

[tracy96]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Yes you should reject his booking.

But, will my management allow me to reject a customer's booking.
He can use another name to book me. I will not know it is him until he showed up. Surely, my management will not allow me to reject him or they may penalise me for the booking fee.

[squiggle]

Originally Posted by tracy96

But, will my management allow me to reject a customer's booking.
He can use another name to book me. I will not know it is him until he showed up. Surely, my management will not allow me to reject him or they may penalise me for the booking fee.

Unless you are saying he is those old tiko pek kind that will be harassing you with bad intentions, if not I don't see a reason why to avoid him. Besides, this kind of job which one on one meeting with the opposite gender make spark out some relationship or something. I would say it is part of the job, but you have to learn to control yourself. Hopefully the customers will know how to draw lines with you and respect you.

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by tracy96

I may be working in a spa. I do not have a boyfriend yet.
If somehow, after working in a spa, and a man confessed that he is in love with me, and assuming he is really nice and kind to me,
but deep inside, i knew, the future will not be bright, shall i turn him away? But, what if he keeps on booking me at my place of work?
can i reject his booking?

Sis, I have visited a PRC masseuse lady 7 times for massage + HJ last year. Deep in my heart I knew we cannot be together in real life for marriage due to her profession. We even discussed about us being bf and gf together in real life. But it did not go through due to my own problem.

She also told me before she never had any customer falling for her with me being the first one. Even her ex-bf don't even know she worked at this line. Then I decided not to visit her for the 8th time and change a new hp number. It takes me 6 months to forget her and now back to normal life again.

Now as this is affecting u as a spa girl, you can try to give excuse like you no more work there, you quit this line, or change your hp number. If he continue to book you again you can get a new hp number and change to a new working place or find a new job at other field.

[tracy96]

Hi Mr. JNUDES,
Thank you for your reply.
I have not started working in a spa or health centre yet.
I asked for some advice in the Health Centre section too.
I am doing some groundwork before making a decision.
Once, I had a sugar daddy too.
You can read more about me in the "Orgies/Sugar Daddies" section.
I am only writing Chap 1 now.

Once again, thank you for replying.

[power69]

work spa management, not a masseuse,
veri tired . after a session.

[ahpiao]

Tracy96 if you work in spa can pm me which spa? I would like to make a booking.

[demonhunter]

Originally Posted by tracy96

But, will my management allow me to reject a customer's booking.
He can use another name to book me. I will not know it is him until he showed up. Surely, my management will not allow me to reject him or they may penalise me for the booking fee.

The next time u see him .... ask him for a loan of 20 k .

father and mother very sick .. recently rain a lot , vege cannot grow etc .

[conquer]

Originally Posted by demonhunter

The next time u see him .... ask him for a loan of 20 k .

father and mother very sick .. recently rain a lot , vege cannot grow etc .

Haha... you must have visited too many prc or vietnamese hoes.

[ringo6668]

Originally Posted by squiggle

If you don't like him, then you can just reject him, if not you can just be normal friends with him to see how things goes.

Na, it is just depends on individual view with life. Regardless of one profession, as long you never go cheat, rob or steal money from anyone. Just making a lawful honest living, nobody should/be looking down on you, same goes to prostitution.

As long the spa you are working in doesn't provide "extra service", I don't see any issue with it.

http://buddhism.about.com/od/theeigh...livelihood.htm

Fully agree with you as long you are honest with your feelings with him.WHY NOT.

[a2014]

Originally Posted by tracy96

Hi Mr. JNUDES,
Thank you for your reply.
I have not started working in a spa or health centre yet.
I asked for some advice in the Health Centre section too.
I am doing some groundwork before making a decision.
Once, I had a sugar daddy too.
You can read more about me in the "Orgies/Sugar Daddies" section.
I am only writing Chap 1 now.

Once again, thank you for replying.

TS, it is you who decide what you want to do. Good customer hard to come by. Many people who visit you and say love you, miss you are mostly emotional and many time come with string attached.

Certainly you cannot stop people from booking you even you don't wish to as it you decided to take up the job and I guess it is not professional that you keep rejecting the customer. No SPA owner will like to see their business get rejected by you.

What make you think that you want to go into this trade, it there any other job that will keep you survive or you have consider some fast money in this trade. Do you require formal training to do a decent job.

Be it what you do, take care.

[eroticbomb]

Originally Posted by tracy96

I may be working in a spa. I do not have a boyfriend yet.
If somehow, after working in a spa, and a man confessed that he is in love with me, and assuming he is really nice and kind to me,
but deep inside, i knew, the future will not be bright, shall i turn him away? But, what if he keeps on booking me at my place of work?
can i reject his booking?

I think you should reject