When girlfriend have little sexual interests

Justanormal · #1 16-02-2015, 10:08 AM

I am just an ordinary guy who loved his gf a lot! But at some point, she just couldn't fulfill my kinky needs. We have been together for 2 years, and we are still loveydovey. We had sex once or twice a week. However I don't know when, it started to feel unsatisfactory. I want more than just plain sex, yes, I am a fetishist. But she is not, obviously. What can I do? Should I even do anything?? I know even if I told her, she can't do it anyway, I have thoughts of finding a playmate? Just to balance out. But is it right to do it anyway. Sammy bros, give me a piece of advice please!

MIFAcafe · #2 16-02-2015, 10:14 AM

Why stop at one?

sammyboyfor · #3 16-02-2015, 10:37 AM

Have one girlfriend for your lovey dovey stuff and another to satisfy your kinky urges. The latter can be a fuck buddy or someone you pay per shot.

You're never going to find everything that you want in one package. If life was that simple the world's oldest profession would not have lasted as long as it has.

porscheclub · #4 16-02-2015, 11:24 AM

Well, TS. If you want to remain faithful then you must work on your GF. Everyone has hidden desires & fantasy you just need to find the key to unlock it & that's not your penis! It's your mind.

Women unlike male are quite different. Fulfill their emotional needs & you'll find happiness.

MoJoe313 · #5 16-02-2015, 02:15 PM

Tough call.

Work on your communications and romance with her if you want to bring your relationship further. Moderate your sexual expectations. Its really on a road to nowhere. When she gives in to your fetishes, another desire will grow. Kinky sex, then outdoor sex, then group sex, then cuckoo sex, then what?

Else just go sow your wild oats till you are prepared for a normal relationship. Let her go. Its a question of what you want more. Satisfy your inner cravings or being with a woman you love.

Its a decision most men make. Who doesn't want a porn star partner in bed.

sammyboyfor · #6 16-02-2015, 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by MoJoe313

Its a decision most men make. Who doesn't want a porn star partner in bed.

Why settle for one or the other when you can have it all?

Intltuk · #7 16-02-2015, 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by MoJoe313

Tough call.

Work on your communications and romance with her if you want to bring your relationship further. Moderate your sexual expectations. Its really on a road to nowhere. When she gives in to your fetishes, another desire will grow. Kinky sex, then outdoor sex, then group sex, then cuckoo sex, then what?

Else just go sow your wild oats till you are prepared for a normal relationship. Let her go. Its a question of what you want more. Satisfy your inner cravings or being with a woman you love.

Its a decision most men make. Who doesn't want a porn star partner in bed.

U nail it bro

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TS, if u're looking for blessing to have more partners...some bros will give it...but the question u've to ask urself it this.....if u're caught, can u accept that u might lose her? If the ans is yes, go ahead!

wecloud · #8 17-02-2015, 08:49 PM

you need to understand the risk of losing your loved one if you decide to engage others to fulfil your kinky dreams.

are you nearing marriage?

sammyboyfor · #9 18-02-2015, 02:48 AM

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Originally Posted by wecloud

you need to understand the risk of losing your loved one if you decide to engage others to fulfil your kinky dreams.

are you nearing marriage?

Losing a loved one is not a big deal in this day and age because it then gives him an opportunity to find a better loved one.

Ladyrain · #10 22-02-2015, 07:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Justanormal

I am just an ordinary guy who loved his gf a lot! But at some point, she just couldn't fulfill my kinky needs. We have been together for 2 years, and we are still loveydovey. We had sex once or twice a week. However I don't know when, it started to feel unsatisfactory. I want more than just plain sex, yes, I am a fetishist. But she is not, obviously. What can I do? Should I even do anything?? I know even if I told her, she can't do it anyway, I have thoughts of finding a playmate? Just to balance out. But is it right to do it anyway. Sammy bros, give me a piece of advice please!

Just grab her and kiss la. Omg. What do you want her to do for you?
Grab you and push you to the bed? Take the intiative then since you are the man.
What's gonna be worse? U only risk her pushing you away but what are e odds dude?
Most likely shes gonna return the favor.