Stressful young man

[xiaoxiaosot]

I studying science in local uni and working like 4 days a week. Boss treat me quite good, work friday, sat and sunday plus wednesday. 5 hours a day and 8$/hr.

Reason to work is cause transport, food and bills ownself pay. Still need to take time out to train physical cause cannot afford to fail IPPT or else need face RT.

Life is so stressful, sometime i tell myself lucky the girl i chase for 10 years dont like me cause i very poor and no time at all. However seeing those richman son driving car(even a lousy one) and having girlfriend make me feel very sad. I just feel unfair as some people are rich and they dont need to work during study. All they do is study and play. Poor dude like me need to work and study. Haiz...Anyone been through this before? Can share advise?

[Tai_zi21]

If you dun have a positive mindset in life, how can you even success in your life?

Many people complaint abt this and tat, but have they done Anything to change it?

[xiaoxiaosot]

Originally Posted by Tai_zi21

If you dun have a positive mindset in life, how can you even success in your life?

Many people complaint abt this and tat, but have they done Anything to change it?

yeah trying my best to success...manage to get a 4.0 out of 5.0..but i feel it still too low .......felt like a loser........

[owl888]

What's your problem got to do with SBF, SEX forum here

[xiaoxiaosot]

Originally Posted by owl888

What's your problem got to do with SBF, SEX forum here

cause i wonder who else here got way to deal with work, study and still can have a girlfriend

[etct88]

Originally Posted by xiaoxiaosot

yeah trying my best to success...manage to get a 4.0 out of 5.0..but i feel it still too low .......felt like a loser........

felt like a loser? then you are a loser...... simple as that.

why compare, you are in Uni and working your way, that's losing? ...then you don't know what is losing.

worse, don't think winning in your vocab......

and why are you here?

[cqueen]

[QUOTE=xiaoxiaosot;9091485]I studying science in local uni and working like 4 days a week. Boss treat me quite good, work friday, sat and sunday plus wednesday. 5 hours a day and 8$/hr.


I, like everyone here, am indeed proud of you that you are studying hard and working hard for your good future ahead. Keep it up!!


Reason to work is cause transport, food and bills ownself pay. Still need to take time out to train physical cause cannot afford to fail IPPT or else need face RT.


I am again proud of you that you take ownership and responsibility for your life by working for your own living expenses. I am sure this will train you to mature faster and overcome future obstacles successfully.


Life is so stressful, sometime i tell myself lucky the girl i chase for 10 years dont like me cause i very poor and no time


Indeed, count your blessing and be grateful for it.


However seeing those richman son driving car(even a lousy one) and having girlfriend make me feel very sad. I just feel unfair as some people are rich and they dont need to work during study.


It's only natural to feel that way. At the same time, do not allow this negative feeling to get the better of you. Why not turn this negative feeling into a positive force to motivate you to work harder with your own blood and sweat.



All they do is study and play. Poor dude like me need to work and study. Haiz...Anyone been through this before?


I am sure many Samsters here, like you, had underwent such fulfilling experiences and emerged out of it to become successful and strong in many ways.


Can share advise?[/QUOTE

My advice is:

KNOW YOUR BLESSINGS, CHERISH THEM AND SOW MORE BLESSINGS.

[stillgottheblue]

You're a graduate, your grammar usage is very poor but there is absolutely no need to be poor in your spirit.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by xiaoxiaosot

.......felt like a loser........

That's because you ARE a loser. Once you're a winner you won't feel that way anymore.

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by xiaoxiaosot

I studying science in local uni and working like 4 days a week. Boss treat me quite good, work friday, sat and sunday plus wednesday. 5 hours a day and 8$/hr.

Reason to work is cause transport, food and bills ownself pay. Still need to take time out to train physical cause cannot afford to fail IPPT or else need face RT.

Life is so stressful, sometime i tell myself lucky the girl i chase for 10 years dont like me cause i very poor and no time at all. However seeing those richman son driving car(even a lousy one) and having girlfriend make me feel very sad. I just feel unfair as some people are rich and they dont need to work during study. All they do is study and play. Poor dude like me need to work and study. Haiz...Anyone been through this before? Can share advise?

I studied in uni before and I had seen what you are going thru now some 13 years ago. This thing happens everywhere, like rich man son is a playboy, dates pretty girl, just like in the movies. You don't need to compare yourself with them, just work and save hard, and remember to get a degree as your first priority. After graduate you can decide the next step. As for having gf, well I am sure you can find your soul mate some day, just that it is not the right time for you now as you are still studying and working.

[huhu123]

Originally Posted by xiaoxiaosot

I studying science in local uni and working like 4 days a week. Boss treat me quite good, work friday, sat and sunday plus wednesday. 5 hours a day and 8$/hr.

Reason to work is cause transport, food and bills ownself pay. Still need to take time out to train physical cause cannot afford to fail IPPT or else need face RT.

Life is so stressful, sometime i tell myself lucky the girl i chase for 10 years dont like me cause i very poor and no time at all. However seeing those richman son driving car(even a lousy one) and having girlfriend make me feel very sad. I just feel unfair as some people are rich and they dont need to work during study. All they do is study and play. Poor dude like me need to work and study. Haiz...Anyone been through this before? Can share advise?

AT least u are in a uni...i only N level how? Cry father cry mother!...Rich man son wont get to enjoy or experience making their own pot of gold. most of them have no sincere frd or worst they are actually insecure ppl.

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by huhu123

AT least u are in a uni...i only N level how? Cry father cry mother!...Rich man son wont get to enjoy or experience making their own pot of gold. most of them have no sincere frd or worst they are actually insecure ppl.

You must have many pots of gold stored in your personal fort knox.

Can I be your good sincere friend?

[huhu123]

Originally Posted by justl00king

You must have many pots of gold stored in your personal fort knox.

Can I be your good sincere friend?

mine from mama shop one. U kn those chocolate gold coin.hahaha

[see see only]

Originally Posted by xiaoxiaosot

....... However seeing those richman son driving car(even a lousy one) and having girlfriend make me feel very sad. I just feel unfair as some people are rich and they dont need to work during study. All they do is study and play. Poor dude like me need to work and study. Haiz...Anyone been through this before? Can share advise?

More than 80% of us went through this type of life .... remember to work smart and hard when you totally step out to the society ...

Achieve the things you want in life, yourself .... smart & good ladies prefer man with the ablity to achieve rather than those rich man son who cant work or expand on their parent wealth ....

[Meow^^]

I guess Singapore education system should start teaching people to appreciate rather then whinning.....you had been asking yourself this question that you had posted long ago and just recently you decided to ask it online...

You know yourself the answer well enough by having so much of education...even people with lower education know what to do and you, a Uni student, doesnt know?

I suggest you to be more self motivate rather then self proclaimed....