Boyfriend's frenulum injured! How?

taureanwoman08 · #1 07-03-2013, 08:18 PM

Don't know why. Recently maybe my pussy too tight. My boyfriend torn his frenulum (the skin at the underside of the of the bottom part of his cock head) and he could not continue his act. His cock shrank and subsequently he did not wash or something like that and it got infected. He kept complaining that when he showered and washed his cock, the part where the skin was torn was painful - like a cut wound feeling.

After 3 weeks, he thought he recovered and two days ago, we made love again. He had a hard time entering me and when he tried to push, he said the same area like injured again. His cock shrank and we did not continue.

When he showered later, he said he felt the same time of pain.

Why is his cock so fragile nowadays? I told him to wait until he is completely recovered before we do it again.

Have any of you guys ever encountered this problem? Did you stop having sex until you recover?

PeaceWithin · #2 08-03-2013, 11:03 AM

Actually... I understand what your bf is going thru'. I never really got seriously injured before because I learn from young to go slow on initial entry. Especially the first time with a gal or one whose pretty tight.

Let me guess... you were on top of him when it happened, right? And chances are you were galloping pretty hard. Nearly happened to me quite a number of times with most ladies in my life because it was tight... Sometimes, halfway I'll be in pain and I'll just have to stop and slow down a while. It's just the angle and the way it's done. Then again, I've never suffered this even when I'm doing anal, that's because I'm in control.

How to prevent? I don't think you can... you guys just have to 'communicate' when making love. And slow down when he tells you to.

Alternatively, wear a condom... But I think you guys probably raw...

taureanwoman08 · #3 08-03-2013, 08:04 PM

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Originally Posted by PeaceWithin

Actually... I understand what your bf is going thru'. I never really got seriously injured before because I learn from young to go slow on initial entry. Especially the first time with a gal or one whose pretty tight.

Let me guess... you were on top of him when it happened, right? And chances are you were galloping pretty hard. Nearly happened to me quite a number of times with most ladies in my life because it was tight... Sometimes, halfway I'll be in pain and I'll just have to stop and slow down a while. It's just the angle and the way it's done. Then again, I've never suffered this even when I'm doing anal, that's because I'm in control.

How to prevent? I don't think you can... you guys just have to 'communicate' when making love. And slow down when he tells you to.

Alternatively, wear a condom... But I think you guys probably raw...

Thank you very much for your reply. Yes, I was on top and rocking hard when he suddenly grabbed hold of me and told me to stop! He said pain, pain. You see, I could get quite wild once I am hot and I cannot control myself.

Yes, we always do raw. I hate the rubber and so does he.

I would like to thank two gentlemen here, Mr Surbana and Mr Topcook1, who gave me some points. Didn't understand why some people attacked me previously until I got red points. It doesn't matter actually that I got red points - just that my posting will take some time to appear lor.

At certain times of the month, I have a real physical need and I am feeling sian that my boyfriend now cannot perform and need to wait for him to recover first.

alec · #4 08-03-2013, 11:13 PM

i kenna before when i did it with mi ex... condom helps as it acts as a protection to the skin because of the additional layer. Another way is to go slow and keep it lubricated... Don't jus F like rabbits, enjoy the session and always communicate. That way instead of pain, you'll feel more pleasure.... Another reason could be because of tight foreskin. So always go slow, else just consider wearing the cap

taureanwoman08 · #5 09-03-2013, 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by alec

i kenna before when i did it with mi ex... condom helps as it acts as a protection to the skin because of the additional layer. Another way is to go slow and keep it lubricated... Don't jus F like rabbits, enjoy the session and always communicate. That way instead of pain, you'll feel more pleasure.... Another reason could be because of tight foreskin. So always go slow, else just consider wearing the cap

Thank you Mr Ho Lee.

Mr Alec, thank you for your comments. It is easy to say don't F like rabbits but when you are in the throes of intercourse, you can no longer control yourself. I can go real wild and sometimes I would scream even and my boyfriend would clamp his hand over my mouth! Last time when we did it at home, we felt his parents and brother might have heard my sounds! So embarrassing but they always appeared like nothing had happened when we went out of his room to go to the hall.

littlehorse · #6 09-03-2013, 06:17 PM

i get injured sometimes and the same goes for sex and masturbation. Ask your bf to take care of his cock by applying some ointment and vaseline to cover it and endure no sex for the time being. I am hornier but no choice have to endure before

chipmunk1974 · #7 09-03-2013, 06:24 PM

ya I know sometime when you are high, you can't control but yr bf can. Ask him to slow down that even make you more horny. And this way you can make sex last longer. So lucky yr bf can do you raw. I had never do raw with my ex before as they don't allow.

taureanwoman08 · #8 09-03-2013, 08:45 PM

Raw is more shiok, especially to the guys I believe. Also, I think I can never suck a condomed cock. :-)

PeaceWithin · #9 10-03-2013, 12:49 AM

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Originally Posted by taureanwoman08

Thank you very much for your reply. Yes, I was on top and rocking hard when he suddenly grabbed hold of me and told me to stop! He said pain, pain. You see, I could get quite wild once I am hot and I cannot control myself.

Yes, we always do raw. I hate the rubber and so does he.

I would like to thank two gentlemen here, Mr Surbana and Mr Topcook1, who gave me some points. Didn't understand why some people attacked me previously until I got red points. It doesn't matter actually that I got red points - just that my posting will take some time to appear lor.

At certain times of the month, I have a real physical need and I am feeling sian that my boyfriend now cannot perform and need to wait for him to recover first.

You'll welcome... just be a bit more mindful and he'll be ok.

taureanwoman08 · #10 10-03-2013, 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted by PeaceWithin

You'll welcome... just be a bit more mindful and he'll be ok.

My boyfriend probably quite horny. Last night, he asked me to give him a blowjob. I sucked slowly and he actually managed to cum into my mouth. I always swallow everything. He said the area felt a bit tight but the sharp cutting pain was gone. He actually wanted to try intercourse today but I told him to recover fully first lor. Although I also wanted him, I was afraid that he might get injured again.

peanodood1337 · #11 10-03-2013, 06:32 PM

Ouch I feel his pain...

You should stop riding him like an Osim while he gets better.

grouchycabi · #12 10-03-2013, 08:51 PM

[QUOTE=peanodood1337;8642781]Ouch I feel his pain...

You should stop riding him like an Osim while he gets better.[

Heheh don't like that leh. What to do when people horny?

taureanwoman08 · #13 10-03-2013, 09:42 PM

I am impressed! I have so many people asking me to be friends or wanting to meet me. Thanks for the attention but remember I do have a bf to think of.

alec · #14 10-03-2013, 10:17 PM

Heng u reminded him of his injuries ah... Small head rule big head is ok, better than small head forever too sick to think anymore... thats worse.... i kenna injured 2x before then e 3rd time i keep telling myself to go at my comfort pace liao... else even when i'm not doing it, it'll hurt like hell...

owl888 · #15 10-03-2013, 10:34 PM

Ur bf very lucky to have u as gf