GFs wanna get married

[kim-seng-heng]

I wonder it is common for girls to crave for marriage. Currently my gf gave me some marriage plans which I kind of turn off...

[queeniegal]

If u are dating for certain amt of yr of course she want to get married at her marriage age. If not she got a bf for what?

If you dun hv intention to marry her mean u nt ready at all or she nt the one who will make U eat home cook food or outside food

Then better dun get tiger le if that the case if drag on u please her by surprise her with surprise propose n spent loads of money to wedding and divore also so better set people tee

[vinnieboy]

TS - marriage is a long term plan. It is a turning point for all of us. Another turning point is when you both have a baby or two.

If YOU have identified her as the one you wish to be together for your rest of your life, then go ahead.

If you simply agree to her just because when she ask you this question during a time when you both are 'going' to make up, the divorce percentage will be higher. You know why? Because when a human being make a decision when he or she is sexually excited, this decision will be the worst mistake in their entire life.

Be fair to your gf or your future partners if any.

I repeat, if you have identified her and love her dearly, go ahead to start your marriage plan now. Spent more time on marriage plan, MORE TIME OK.

And lesser time on wedding plan. A lot of couples spent a lot of time and effort and money on wedding plan (honey mood trips inclusive) and not their long term marriage plan - also this is another worst mistake.

[vinnieboy]

Gentlemen, for those who agreed to your gf, now your legally spouse, in that manner, the percentage of you having thoughts of divorcing your wife is always appearing in your mind especially when both of you have an heated argument.

A lot of hidden anger deep inside you. Also doesn't have that intense sex anymore, getting lesser and lesser (once a month?) and you will or most of the time prefer DIY to sexual intercourse.

Am I correct?

[queeniegal]

Well said (=

Marriage is a life time commitment and promise.

[maxsee]

You get married only if u are sure u dun mind woman charter breathing down ur neck the day u regret the marriage...otherwise maintaining a bf/gf relationship is more realistic..but being honest with her of wat are ur future plans is important...coz youth and beauty is very important for woman....

[Austere]

Originally Posted by kim-seng-heng

I wonder it is common for girls to crave for marriage. Currently my gf gave me some marriage plans which I kind of turn off...

It is also very common for people to date to fill up the loneliness gap.

If your relationship is like that, Just be honest with her and let her go if she not willing to carry on.

But if u are filling up the gap and she is ..... looking for a prospective husband, I think you should make some important decisions in this relationship.

Women cannot wait too long, later left on shelf...

[jasdude]

Marriage is a acceptance of responsibilities towards each other. If you cannot fulfill the responsibilities, don't get married and don't waste the other person's time.

A relationship is a constant upkeep till even after marriage. Marriage is just another milestone in a relationship.

[jncdn88]

All responsible men will get married to their GF. It is partnership contract with clauses. Today, more women are more free and open minded and the younger gals would not want to get married unless they are older...Guys, enjoy before you get tied down with marriage...

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by jasdude

Marriage is a acceptance of responsibilities towards each other. If you cannot fulfill the responsibilities, don't get married and don't waste the other person's time.

A relationship is a constant upkeep till even after marriage. Marriage is just another milestone in a relationship.

Super AGreed! Add on some gals prefer not to have pre marriage sex don't due to the sex u want then married also!

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by jncdn88

All responsible men will get married to their GF. It is partnership contract with clauses. Today, more women are more free and open minded and the younger gals would not want to get married unless they are older...Guys, enjoy before you get tied down with marriage...

Ha true...

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

Super AGreed! Add on some gals prefer not to have pre marriage sex don't due to the sex u want then married also!

For this, its a matter of preference and a decision that has to be agreed upon by both. However I disagree with no sex before marriage cos sexual compatibility of a couple is very important on the long run. Etc what if the gal dislike sex? or what if the guy has ED?

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by jasdude

For this, its a matter of preference and a decision that has to be agreed upon by both. However I disagree with no sex before marriage cos sexual compatibility of a couple is very important on the long run. Etc what if the gal dislike sex? or what if the guy has ED?

Ha as in some girls I know they are very holy. Can't have sex before marriage I'm sure some guys here their gf are like that.

Only after marriage then can touch so these guy will marriage for the sake of marriage.,.. No doubt they love their partner too I think.

I do agreed with you but then again some guys they like to screw ard but they prefer their wife to be a Virgin lol terrible right?

I read some guys here are so happy their wife is a virgin but they forgot how many ex gf they have are virgin. Kinda unfair.

[DegenerationX]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

Super AGreed! Add on some gals prefer not to have pre marriage sex don't due to the sex u want then married also!

This is the consequences of not having sex before marriage.

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

Ha as in some girls I know they are very holy. Can't have sex before marriage I'm sure some guys here their gf are like that.

Only after marriage then can touch so these guy will marriage for the sake of marriage.,.. No doubt they love their partner too I think.

I do agreed with you but then again some guys they like to screw ard but they prefer their wife to be a Virgin lol terrible right?

I read some guys here are so happy their wife is a virgin but they forgot how many ex gf they have are virgin. Kinda unfair.

I can only say it human nature to want something new. Etc you go shopping, you will want a new piece after trying on a dress that fits you nicely.

Irregardless of sexes here. Both gals and guys will tend to choose. whether its fair or not fair, it depends on what they are comparing. If the person is a virgin, he or she has all the right to want a virgin partner if he or she can find one. But a non virgin person should not compare or judge his partner when he or she is not a virgin