When your wife cheats on u...

hellogirls · #1 01-07-2012, 10:13 PM

I am just curious how bros out there feel? when u find out your wife cheats on u.

Tot i will be mad, but no. When she confessed to me, instead i felt pretty excited about it. I have a hardon, but too bad she did not want to go into details...

Will try to fish out more and share here....anyone interested?

DreamOfLust · #2 01-07-2012, 10:33 PM

1st to camp here... it will be difficult to dig the info but im sure you wanna know the details

Golden Path · #3 01-07-2012, 10:37 PM

How yr wife cheat on u? Scandal

relic88 · #4 01-07-2012, 10:42 PM

well, it happened to me.... didnt want to lose her, end up got back together and she promised not to do it again.... recently she cheat on me again on the same guy. i choose to act blur as i really love her too much to leave her. bros out there might be thinking i have no backbone or the "pride" of a man. but trust me when it really happened to any individuals out there who love their wife as much as me, you might just do the same

naturegreen · #5 01-07-2012, 10:44 PM

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Originally Posted by relic88

well, it happened to me.... didnt want to lose her, end up got back together and she promised not to do it again.... recently she cheat on me again on the same guy. i choose to act blur as i really love her too much to leave her. bros out there might be thinking i have no backbone or the "pride" of a man. but trust me when it really happened to any individuals out there who love their wife as much as me, you might just do the same

Why not invite him for a threesome?

dexster · #6 01-07-2012, 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by relic88

well, it happened to me.... didnt want to lose her, end up got back together and she promised not to do it again.... recently she cheat on me again on the same guy. i choose to act blur as i really love her too much to leave her. bros out there might be thinking i have no backbone or the "pride" of a man. but trust me when it really happened to any individuals out there who love their wife as much as me, you might just do the same

bro let it go la...she will keep cheating on u...u can tahan arh...

blk437 · #7 02-07-2012, 12:01 AM

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Originally Posted by relic88

well, it happened to me.... didnt want to lose her, end up got back together and she promised not to do it again.... recently she cheat on me again on the same guy. i choose to act blur as i really love her too much to leave her. bros out there might be thinking i have no backbone or the "pride" of a man. but trust me when it really happened to any individuals out there who love their wife as much as me, you might just do the same

But i really agree with what u say. When it never happen, we can say we can let go... but when it really happen, it will be another story...

G.T.O · #8 02-07-2012, 12:05 AM

Generally.. I say generally...
Men will fall prey to an undeniably beautiful & sexy ONS chance or affair from seduction, coz Men has 2 heads.
It will probably take a 10-100 romps before he has feelings for this babe, feelings that can even trump that for the wife.

Attached women do not fall prey to temptation no matter how sexy, suave, eloquent, smooth talker temptation is at 1st attempt.
Of coz there're women out there with high drive who can ONS anytime. If not, it'll really take some effort for Mr Temptation to
work on her before he gets her on bed. By the time she lets him into her (1st insertion hor), u can be sure he has at least a
corner space of her heart le (unlike man...can fuck & forget name some more).

So they say... When women cheat, it's different.
Love is all binding and blinding. It conquers anything. If it's true love you have for a cheating wife, then it's true love
you have INDEED, even after reading this. To leave her or not, there's no right or wrong answer. It's your life with hers.
If she TRULY still love you, anything is possible, even taking Mr T. off her heart (after some time).

As for me, I really cannot imagine if my woman cheat on me. Really. Totally. Coz women see sex so differently from us men.
They enjoy sex in ways we cannot even imagine coz we're just not biologically wired like them.

My RMB wujiao worth...

dianxin · #9 02-07-2012, 12:23 AM

a leopard will never change its spot

n30n · #10 02-07-2012, 12:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by G.T.O

Generally.. I say generally...
Men will fall prey to an undeniably beautiful & sexy ONS chance or affair from seduction, coz Men has 2 heads.
It will probably take a 10-100 romps before he has feelings for this babe, feelings that can even trump that for the wife.

Attached women do not fall prey to temptation no matter how sexy, suave, eloquent, smooth talker temptation is at 1st attempt.
Of coz there're women out there with high drive who can ONS anytime. If not, it'll really take some effort for Mr Temptation to
work on her before he gets her on bed. By the time she lets him into her (1st insertion hor), u can be sure he has at least a
corner space of her heart le (unlike man...can fuck & forget name some more).

So they say... When women cheat, it's different.
Love is all binding and blinding. It conquers anything. If it's true love you have for a cheating wife, then it's true love
you have INDEED, even after reading this. To leave her or not, there's no right or wrong answer. It's your life with hers.
If she TRULY still love you, anything is possible, even taking Mr T. off her heart (after some time).

As for me, I really cannot imagine if my woman cheat on me. Really. Totally. Coz women see sex so differently from us men.
They enjoy sex in ways we cannot even imagine coz we're just not biologically wired like them.

My RMB wujiao worth...

IMO:

Just like what the other thread is about cheating women, i guess there's has to be some push factors in the r/s with the husband that led her to be vulnerable to form bonds with other men. That guy would be in charge of fulfilling the missing dept in the husband-wife r/s. So even if the husband and wife patch back, in her lifestyle, that guy is still reinforced to be in charge of that "department".

The husband has to realise what is the missing part he is not fulfilling in her, and he has to work extra hard to recondition her lifestyle, so that she can fully trust the husband can provide that need. On her part, she need to work on giving chances to hubby, and receiving his aid to recondition her.

So even if that guy got a corner in her heart, it's not all too late!

zunbo · #11 02-07-2012, 01:04 AM

...leave her

buhl · #12 02-07-2012, 02:10 AM

didn't wanna believe it years ago when she left that it was cos of her affair with a much richer older man...not long after she packed up n left.
7yrs later (last year)...I stumbled upon the truth, felt numb, we've since gone our separate ways...didn't find it a turn on in anyway bro
Her cheating tore our family apart n I lost my son

hilltower · #13 02-07-2012, 03:53 AM

Easy to leave when you have no kids but if you have kids then you have to think of them and find some way to compromise....

adzeman · #14 02-07-2012, 09:23 AM

Please share. Thanks.

hellogirls · #15 02-07-2012, 02:34 PM

My wife was a little surprise when i was not angry. Instead i just smile at her, hiding my excitement, and told her if that is the case what she is going to do about it.

Guess she was not prepare for it, maybe she expected a fight or a scolding. She looked puzzled, kept silent, then she moved up and snuggled into my arms. My excitement grew...

She buried her face in my tummy, so near my crotch think she can feel my hardon. We didnt talk, just kept silent. Enjoying the closeness that has been lost a long time ago.

I could sensed she is crying, and i let her be, let her emos out, to be relieved. Its like time stood still for that moment.