I am finally bitten... I have STD.. please read

[vampire]

I have always known the dangers of cheonging, but I also acknowledge the fact that we men have desires sometimes. This forum is where I started my "adventure" into the sex industry in singapore. With more information at hand, I ventured into paid sex. After awhile, it can really be a addictive thing. CAT150, CAT40, chinese mei mei.. you name it, I have done it.

Now I am having some pain in my penis and my doctor is suspecting that I have gotten an STD. While it is treatable, I felt more devastating emotionally. I cant sleep well for many days, not to mention the physical disturbances. I fear most that I may have pass the virus to my other half.

My thread goes out to those who have families and girlfriends. For it is the social issues that will ultimately affect your future lifestyle. Can you face a divorce or a break up? Or worse still, if you have AIDS, how will your dependents manage if future?

I am very very certain that I will no longer pay for sex (or pay for STDs?????). I will remain faithful. If need be, my hand is always around for self relief.

All I ask is that you think about the ones around you before cheonging. I know that many brothers here say something like "dare to cheong, not afraid to die". It is really easy to say that but when it hits you, I doubt you can say it so easily. I have learnt my lesson the hard way.

Anyway, no vested interest, I think I got my STD from this gal from WH14. I thought that these gals are legal, have checkups and should be safer. But if you do a simple maths sum to see how many customers they see every 2 weeks, the virus will still hit you regardless whether they have check up or not! BTW, I wore a condom.....

Think twice, thrice......

All the best, I just hope I can bring back some brothers to the "shore" before its too late.

[asdfghjkl]

balance the risks and thou shall see which is heavier..

[Ah Dez]

Originally Posted by vampire

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All the best, I just hope I can bring back some brothers to the "shore" before its too late.

Pardon me... but it is only STD. Not AIDs..

If you pratice safe sex, you won't really get real bothered by the AIDs thingy....

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by vampire

Anyway, no vested interest, I think I got my STD from this gal from WH14. I thought that these gals are legal, have checkups and should be safer.

You say until like that ... sure kena slam 1

[chatoh]

Bro Vampire !
Maybe you did FJ with cap, but got BBBJ, so you kenna STD ?
Best for you Bro Vampire !

[asdfghjkl]

bbbj is the most dangerous since without protection ler.. nv do that with WL!

[mi.chi.eru]

Originally Posted by Ah Dez

Pardon me... but it is only STD. Not AIDs..

If you pratice safe sex, you won't really get real bothered by the AIDs thingy....

Ah Dez, Aids also one of STD leh.
where got such thing as safe sex one...

[mi.chi.eru]

Originally Posted by vampire

All the best, I just hope I can bring back some brothers to the "shore" before its too late.

Take care bro, my heart goes to you.

Its definately something that people that don't have STD won't understand, me included in the group.

Life has to go on on the other hand, I wish u all the best.

[asdfghjkl]

Originally Posted by mi.chi.eru

Ah Dez, Aids also one of STD leh.
where got such thing as safe sex one...

safe sex means no sex.. lol..

[mi.chi.eru]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

safe sex means no sex.. lol..

bro, kissing also can transmit if mouth got sores.

only way u want safe is u be 100% faithful and stick to 1 partner and cross ur fingers ur partner does the same thing.

[asdfghjkl]

but the problem is AIDS doesnt transmit only through sex ler.. got many medium.. so if your spouse is a AIDS care worker.. also no choice ma..

[mi.chi.eru]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

but the problem is AIDS doesnt transmit only through sex ler.. got many medium.. so if your spouse is a AIDS care worker.. also no choice ma..

yah. Calculated Risk is what you can do. minimize....

knn life so short but we need to fucking worry abt so many things.

[iersan]

That just sucks mate....
Look at at this way, at least
it makes ya wanna quit screwing around,
so that cant be a bad thing...get well soon!

take care, hope u get cured soon n dun think too much

[V|ernar]

hope you get well soon.

Yun , V|erNar