Why guys get cheated by girls? Preventive Guide

[GL-Roamer]

Why guys get cheated by girls? (Part 1)

GL-Roamer’s guide to surviving manipulation by girls. It is my opinion and my way of doing things. Hope it helps. I apologise if the information is abit scattered or disorganized as I write this according to how my thoughts flow.

Introduction
After so many disheartening posts about guys being cheated / divorced and such I have decided to post this as an advice to my fellow bros, samsters and cheongsters here. Therefore I put together all the information for bros who do not have the time to read on the various topics and yet who are at risk of being cheated. Please read carefully and if you have any questions pls post so we can share with other bros.

This is also especially for the younger bros or bros who would wish to advise their sons or brothers and guys who want a commercial bonk. But I would like to remind anyone who reads this that this is my opinion on how of protect yourself against greedy deceitful girls and not a manual on how to seduce girls.

I hope to post this to help fellow bros who have got cheated to understand why they have got cheated and for those who are lucky enough not to get cheated please read through to prevent yourselves from getting cheated. Men want sex, it’s a fact that everyone knows well (including the girls), but what women want that’s a question mark still in many men’s head because they think with small head not big one.

But I want to say this, there are still some good girls around, it is just that they are not stupid and men who think that they are stupid or easily bribed to give you free sex or be your permanent sex toy are the stupidest of them all, mostly these are not the girls that will go out to cheat you however. But of course one thing is people change, so your best bet is not to get married if you fear your wife may change for the worst. I have met very nice girls although I am not asking them for anything they treat me to meals and sometime buy me small gifts (which I appreciate very much) and what did I give them (in terms of material stuff - almost nothing or things that are of no cost to me) but in terms of attention I engage them a lot by talking and joking with them and making them laugh.

SG guys are tough; we have been through the military and have taken much shit without whining, crying and such. However we need to put such traits into proper perspective and know how to use them properly. (By the way toughness and determination are 2 things that girls like to make use of to make you their walking ATM). Use those traits to find out more either from this forum or from other sources of information.

To be continued

[GL-Roamer]

Why guys get cheated by girls? (Part 2)


Reasons and analysis

Anything that involves money is business. Love, relationships and sex are all like business; in fact some girls succeed because they treat it like business. There must be objectives, deadlines and calculation of investment risk. Calculate really carefully before you put out the money, sometimes stinginess gets you more girls than generosity. Be extremely stingy with your money but generous with your time and attention. There is no free lunch but the cost need not be in money.

If you analyse what girls have and what you have then you will make a more informed transaction decision. Basically the girl will want to make you think that only she is the only girl that you have the highest chance to have sex with so as to play with your mind (the game played is called ‘Probability’). In fact there may be other prettier girls that are more willing to f**k you for a lower cost.

Guys mostly have:
Time (time translates to money and is therefore an important asset as well)
Money
Physical assets (house, car etc)

Girls have:
Tits and Pussy (their body, its free)
Companionship (they will claim that their companionship is worth the money, which is bull shit)
Their mouth (never belittle a girl’s talking skills)

Basically what guys have must be earned externally through hard work and it is also something that the girls want (if they can take advantage of you and get it for free then you can expect that they will do just that), but what girls have is something they are born with so basically it is free except that they also need to eat, drink and sleep like guys. So you can say girls are born richer than guys. Basically you can see that guys are not that fortunate and have practically little or no innate assets what they have they must earn. However that doesn’t mean that guys can’t develop innate assets like skills or some guys are too LAZY or obsessed with porn to develop them. Guys have the potential to develop useful and powerful innate assets.

You have to be observant and a good listener, many times the signs of an awaiting cheating scam or intention is right at your face but many guys are just taking in the wrong information (for example looking and her boobs and visualising how they will look like) to recognise them. The girls want you to do that so that they can get you to agree to do the things they want and to put you at a disadvantage. It is like the fine print written on a contract, you seldom notice it while you are distracted by the benefits written in big bold fonts. Girls are deceitful with their smiles and their words; they play to your ego and worm their way deep into your heart (and bank account). It is absolutely alright to get the girl angry and let them go, sex is also a numbers game, the more you socialise around the more your chances increase to get sex.

However what most guys don’t know or are just too plain lazy to find out is that they can also develop skills which are innate and can’t be cheat or taken away.

It is not the biological need (for sex), it is the lack of self control, and if you are impatient you are letting the girl control your mind. Hunters have to be patient when hunting a prey; it is a true and known fact. In fact sometimes you can say that the girl did not cheat you, YOU allowed yourself to be cheated (but sometimes it is an obvious outright cheating scam) due to your impatience and your thinking that money can buy everything (Big Mistake).

Some guys get cheated due to the emotion called love. Actually all that I have written above have to do with emotions (impatience, pride, anger, jealousy and lust) and they have to do with guys going out with the intention of getting a commercial bonk with someone they fancy just to check out her body. But if a guy is really looking for love and companionship (pls subject the girl to lots of tests) as such guys are the most vulnerable of all. This article is not for the good loyal guys out there who are going for true love (though it may be useful and it doesn’t hurt to have additional information), these are for guys who are operating in the dangerous ‘hot’ zones which are places filled with girls who may be manipulative and deceitful. KTVs, FLs along Geylang and other places filled with sluts who have no qualms about using their bodies to get what they want.

To be continued

[GL-Roamer]

Why guys get cheated by girls? (Part 3)


Preventive Measures

Principles

There are a few principles which I go by and they are listed below. They are not in order of importance, all are important. You will need to recognise which one applys most to the given situation.


1) Treat all relationships as business. Money = Business.

Reason: It involves money, if there is no profit in the investment don’t do it and the profit happens now not at some other time in the future. Profits are realised immediately (eg. If you buy a property you realise profit immediately when you upgrade it or just by waiting for time to pass). Profits must be in cold hard cash or warm moist and tight pussy.


2) Patience

Reason: do not let your small head control you, go PCC or the legal houses to release b4 u meet a girl, it is one of the best defence around if used properly, too much patience however is a waste of time, u must know when to dump the girl (if she delays too long).



3) Safeguarding your money and assets like a ferocious beast

Reason: It is the only thing you can count on, your bros may help you but they are of little help sometimes. Not all bros are rich enough to help you always. It is ok to reject a girl outright if she starts to request high value items. Ever remembered a time when a girl rejects you outright when you ask for sex?



4) Build up the skills that will get you the kills (PM me if you wish to have a list of useful skills or reading materials)

Reason: Skills are innate and they will follow you to the grave, sometimes it is even better than money and they give you profits in terms of money and sex. Skills are your weapons and ammo. Best thing about them is that they are unlimited.


5) Be someone that takes in and analyse the right kind of info

Reason: This has to do with skills above, but it is really important because the girls are always doing it and you have to beat them at it.


6) It is absolutely alright to reject girls.

Reason: Be a person that knows how to reject even the most pitiful of girls because this is business as it involves money. Rejection is also one of the ways to find out the girl’s true intention. Just tell the girl if she is desperate enough sell her body. You should feel proud that you have rejected a girl’s request (if it starts to get suspicious and overboard). Just because you are a guy does not mean you must solve a girl’s problems.


7) Be totally distrustful when it comes to money,

Reason: Assume that even the most innocent-looking and cutest girls are out to cheat your money (this is what girls do this as well, they assume all guys are out to bonk them only). Money is your most important resource.


8) Fortitude

Reason: have the patience and discipline to control yourself and learn more skills, it will get you very far.


9) Never impress girls with money

Reason: It is as good as telling robbers that you have money. Buying things for girls will never work to win their hearts or bodies.


10) Learn to use your money like a carrot

Reason: It is the same concept that girls use their bodies like a carrot to get you to part with your money. Put it in little by little just like a girl shows u her body (or provides services) little by little.


11) Know your limits and the limits of the girl

Reason: Know that there are some girls that will NEVER have sex with you even if you give up your life and your entire fortune.


12) Girls are illusionists

Reason: Do not look at the make up on her face, imagine her face without the make up (she is not that pretty anymore), her height without high heels (not so tall and slim?) and her face without color (very plain?). Usually once you find her not so pretty you will not get so turned on. Looking up close may also help as it helps you spot flaws and make you less horny.


13) Make her commit something first

Reason: Make her commit something (the bigger the value the better) first and be the last to invest or in fact don’t be the first to give in anything except your time, attention and presence. Your presence and attention is worth more than a million dollars. HOLD ON to your money at all costs until she gives you something of equal value (if she wants your money she must commit something and earn it). I make this my stand every time I go out with girls but mostly through hints. Let’s face it, guys are not the only ones who are good in business, there are some girls who are just as practical if they think ‘this guy is going to take up a lot of investment’ they may just leave straight away (and that reveals their true intent and saved your bank account).


In negotiations the one who gives in first loses, most guys think they can buy a girl with money and the girl know otherwise, she will use her body as a carrot to get your money but she already knows that she will not have sex with you. That’s how girls manipulate men. (2 ways : finding ways to know your true intent n looking pretty). In fact some girls could have lost the negotiation by stating their intention very early on; this statement alone tells it all. See below example of a situation.

Example situation:
You and her go on a date and are shopping around a clothes shop (expensive one) she starts trying on clothes asking you if she looks pretty (of course you will say yes and get turned on by the sexiness of it and your mind will start imagining her on bed moaning) then she may drop you hints that she wants the dress or whatever or she may say ‘can you buy me this dress?’. This statement is the intention, it is the start of the manipulation, in fact the moment you hear such things tell her only one answer NO. If she storms out or shows a black face or start to ignore you, you have flushed out their intention and its time to move on to a new target that may be more worth your time and efforts.

Explanation for Example above
You may buy the dress for her but that does not mean she will give you sex. You can tell her ‘lets go to a hotel first and bonk before I buy you this present’.

In chasing girls, satisfy your urges first (either go GL or PCC) so that it will not blind you when you are trying to get her to bed. That’s what prostitutes are for, I find prostitutes (legal ones, I am not sure about the illegal ones) more honest than some girls out there at least they tell you honestly that if you pay them a certain amount of money they will do certain services for you.

Girls need to be engaged for sometime, lets recognise this fact and you must also learn how to identify when to give up, acknowledge the fact that there will be some girls that will not have sex with you at all costs (cos they feel that their bodies are pure and priceless which to me is bull shit because when you see what the hell eat always you will know, all the junk food and alcohol). Some of them even have a smelly vagina filled with fungi and bacteria (in fact legal prostitutes are cleaner).

Remember your first aim is to flush out their intentions. The below ‘Acid test’ is one of the ways but you can be creative and devise more. In case anyone does not know what is ‘Acid Test’, it is a ‘rigorous test or appraisal of the quality or worth of something’.

Acid test:
go out with a girl but find places where u can get her to pay herself and is cheap, tat is if you buy food, go buy individually not one person go buy and pay for all. If she is only interested in your money she knws that you are not an easy target, it will be all the better for you if she suddenly stop talking to u or contacting you or answering your call / sms.

This however needs to be tailored to different situations especially if you are the older guy with a younger girl (the intention is clear). However if you can afford more then no harm giving her a treat (remember to be moderate) to see how she reacts. Remember the sign is she is asking for more and more things (meals, clothes, bags, shoes, cosmetics) that are getting more and more expensive. Analyse the trends and set a cap on how much you are willing to give her (make sure it is low). If this happens before you screw her, DUMP immediately. IF it happens after you screw her then it is your judgement how much you think sex with her is worth. Personally to me, the girl is worth less than SGD 150.

Girls know how to manipulate men’s tenacity (while it is a good trait, it can ruin you in certain situations), they keep you thinking that they will someday give u sex if you keep buying them things. (they play on your mind by giving you a maybe situation while they themselves dun trust the word ‘maybe’, they want something cold hard solid and material)

To be continued

[GL-Roamer]

Why guys get cheated by girls? (Part 4)

Conclusion

Principle to never get cheated is: SAFEGUARD YOUR MONEY LIKE IT IS YOUR LIFE, ALWAYS DUMP THE GIRL BECAUSE MONEY CAN BUY YOU SEX BUT GIRLS GIVE YOU NOTHING (other than trouble).

Make it troublesome for girls to access your money (it is your precious asset therefore you must guard it well). In fact this is what the girls are doing with their precious asset as well (their body), they make it troublesome and unprofitable for you to get it.

Always remember the girl in front of you is never the only girl in the world and not the prettiest in the world. If you are only after her for sex dump her when it gets too expensive or if she start to demand too much. However if you do have FREQUENT sex it is ok to put in some investment little by little like a good after-sex meal or some small gifts (preferably less than a hundred, it sounds cheap I know) bit by bit.

Be careful the above information can also be used against you, don’t think that once a girl starts to give you a steady stream of sex you have already won her over, the battle is not over until the day you die having free sex with her. Don’t be surprised if the girls use sex as a negotiation tool or a carrot. Once the cost of fucking them keeps increasing, watch out and GET OUT. They will start to demand more higher value items, not just clothes and bags but sometimes they may ask you to borrow a lump sum of money by giving all kinds of reason like ‘my so and so is sick and I need money for hospital bills if you don’t give me I will not be around to have sex with you because I need to find ways to get money’. Once you hear this HOLD ON to your money and tell her to GET OUT, treat the girl as expendable and move on because the consequences if you give is that she will find an excuse to tell you that she need to go back (if PRC or foreign girl) to visit and she may just disappear with your money.

Pls also note that this info may also be used by girls to devise their scheme against you, it is here to make it harder for them to cheat you but it is not full proof, girls are also humans, if they are stupid then humans are all humans stupid because your mom gave birth to you. It is important to have smart girls around to act as a benchmark for guys to outsmart. If girls are smart, guys have to be smarter, if girls are fierce guys have to be fiercer.


Afterword
End of the day, not all girls are bad but you still have to protect yourself against those greedy manipulative deceitful bitches. I am sure there are many females that will support you in your life (your mother, sisters or even aunties and cousins), just don’t get cheated by some young bitch that thinks she is the queen of the world and all men are her slaves and toys.

End of guide

I hope the above helps and will supply information to other bros in addition to all the information in this forum.

[cablesnwires]

Very informative indeed. One note, this guide would be more useful to the ones who are not being KC-ed. This group of people read it objectively. I'm not too sure if the guide is that useful to those who are in the advance stages of being KC-ed, or had already been KC-ed.

For this group, the reason (or excuse) that they have is and you can hear them say it: "My girl is different, she is not like that!"

Well, I am interested in your innate skills. Perhaps you can share it here as well?

Once again, thanks for your time in writing this.

[simple2kee]

TS, thank u. agreed with cablesnwires tht it is v informative indeed.
im here to learn too.

[Satan 666]

You should patent your article. This is an eye-opener & a very well parallel analysis.

You've obviously experienced all kinds of experiences and learnt helluva lot along the way.

This applies to every man-woman relationship at every level.

*No Woman, No Cry

[ventu22]

Thank you bro GL-Roamer.. this is indeed very informative and useful. For all the bro who are in advanced stage of kc-ed and having the mentality that "my girl is not like that"... people change... put a simple gal in this environment and it only take a month or 2 before you see a complete "make-over". The outcome is extremely shocking and unbelievable.. trust me, I have been through the pain. In general SG men are just too soft and nice.. that the reason why so bro have suffered. Open your eyes, open your ears.. but keep the heart shut. My conclusion is.. if you want to play this game, be a bastard..

[jon2000sg]

Bro GL-Roamer must be a senior cheongster joined SBF recently
or may have another alternate nick for posting purpose.

Well done! This is to protection newbies !

Originally Posted by cablesnwires

One note, this guide would be more useful to the ones who are not being KC-ed. This group of people read it objectively. I'm not too sure if the guide is that useful to those who are in the advance stages of being KC-ed, or had already been KC-ed.

For this group, the reason (or excuse) that they have is and you can hear them say it: "My girl is different, she is not like that!"

I was a KC victim and currently still cheonging !!!
I had went all the way to see a few MMs in mainland,
most MMs have the intention to marry a Singaporean
for the international passport. Currently one whom I
knew for 6 years still toying the idea of marrying me.
Another whom I knew in Macau also wants me to be
with her.

All bros must be aware of the perils of PRC MMs !!!

Well, I am interested in your innate skills. Perhaps you can share it here as well?

Hope TS can share with us the innate skills.

[Solar79]

Golden Words of wisdoms

[markkeef]

think TS has really made a good case.

maybe you can flesh out (pun intended) your points with some personal experiences.

cos I noticed it is written in an objective and detached voice, which is good in itself.

but personal stories can move an audience more easily, whether succcess or failure ones, and it stays with them, cos people remember not just with their minds but also their hearts.

[NewandLost]

well done braddah. should be posted at KTV entrance. braddahs come here to post vents. its a sign of recovery. the best protection is abstinence not from sex but from these girls. prc girl like to test. i recall first purchase on my account was feminine napkins. small thing and really how could one say no or pay me back. then the escalation into consumer electronics, rent, etc. some of it was necessary but still when it starts getting into a car and an apartment and you dont know where she is sometimes or she not answer the mobile that you buy and pay service on, enough is enough.

[NewandLost]

Also i think when we braddahs still hanging out on this board in a way its a sign she still got to you. have to post on sammyboy to recover or vent. sort of like f this shid, get off this board too and far away from the trip into hell.

[Panamera]

Bro TS, Thank you for an informative guide

[HCKing]

9) Never impress girls with money

well i have seen tons of guys doing that, and the end result is......u guessed it.