Romancing cat40 Thai WLs- Tactics and schemes.

[singrakthai]

Originally Posted by DNAT

hor yip fun (cantonese) = glutinious rice wraped with lotus leaf
I asked you something lah .. can or not ? Last time I asked my favourite cat40 WL: "what you like to eat, I buy for you?" She said: "You buy anything I also eat.." - like that means she luv me izit? .. hahaha

i tot u speaking thai... they have hor yip fun in Thai too, something like bah zhang but I prefer s'pore style...

wow lau, if a simple statement like that can prove love then things will be much simplier isn't it? hehehe Personally I feel she is just being polite or "khreng jai"... if u tell me u wanna treat me for dinner, i'll also say, "u treat me anything (except shit lah!), i also eat... " but don't mean i love u leh...

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by singrakthai

if u tell me u wanna treat me for dinner, i'll also say, "u treat me anything (except shit lah!), i also eat... " but don't mean i love u leh...

I treat you eat Som Tam (with poo & pala) ... ai mai?

[singrakthai]

Originally Posted by DNAT

I treat you eat Som Tam (with poo & pala) ... ai mai?

arai ko dai krup... but don't mean i love u ok?

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by singrakthai

arai ko dai krup... but don't mean i love u ok?

I know lah .. you love to help the WLs ... hehehe

wow, but dat time when the cat40 talk to me that time, her eyes ...
so many years liao I still can recall ... very the steam arh

[Cyberspace Nerd]

Originally Posted by singrakthai

Personally, I think there's nothing wrong in romancing a WL but its a big mistake trying to impress a WL with $ (of cos if u're millionaire then its another story)... there's nothing wrong with going cheap on dates with WL... if u can play guitar and sing, why not? Learn some Thai songs to impress her... buying gold watch will only make u carrot cake right?

No one says there is something wrong with going on cheap dates with Wl leh...
I now going out with one part time FL, if time permits, we take bus and mrt to our destinations. And we also dont eat at fancy restaurants. but she likes to buy things even when she has no money. KNN!! I dont like to spend unnecessary so when she ask me to buy her things i will say no. then she say I khee niao. who cares, ai lai mai sua.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by lestat_666

I don't really see whats wrong with using my allowance for bonking as long as I don't exceed or blow all of it for cheonging (roughly spend 160-200 a month). In fact, I told my regular girl once that I'm stlll student my allowance only 280 a month. In reponse, she made one of those excited squeals and told me dont anyhow spend haha ......

bro, suggest you better think harder about what you think.. what can you miserable 280 do? cant even secure a good month of outings on her pre-work hours, cant secure regular visits to her too... not unless she refunds or sponsors your sessions with her. not wanting you to spend anyhow is perhaps just something a friend would advise friend.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by lestat_666

......Anyway, hope you guys can get back into the mood of the thread. I would sincerely look forward to more helpful suggestions from contributors that actually want to make this thread useful for all cheongsters after cat40 Thai WLs

its really not my style to be too pesimistic about things... at least not for tirakship matters. however, since you cited that your only sustainance is based on 280 allowance... your budget raelly too tight for anything lah.

tirakship for you now per say, fine.. things going smooth, you like her, she likes you.. both lovey dovey and all for now. but what happens after she ORD? what happens when you enlist for NS??

ok fine, suppose her patience can stretch for the 2yrs of your NS fine, she waits... then after you ORD, going NUS/NTU for degree.. she gonna sit on it for another 3-4yrs?? look, it aint nice for the lady to wait. certainly would be "lose face" in her contacts to be left on the shelf or if not... stupidly waiting for a young undergrad to prep himself for a good 5-6 yrs to have a phase 2 or 3 tirakship with.

as much as you think you wanna enjoy a good stretch of tirakship, what are your odds of getting dumped eventually??

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by lestat_666

......The only thing I can gain from this thread is advice and useful suggestions that will point toward a more successful relationship with my regular girl and hopefully cheongsters out there with similar intentions will too.

1st and foremost, kindly refrain from swearing and please dont abuse the name of the messiah.

ok now, back to your concerns. its ok with us to advise on all the tactics and techniques, however... with your 280 budget. we're not even sure if you've the sustaining power to run this marathon or not. dont wait, fight the mission halfway, enemy yet to be contacted.. man down liao (maciam olando bloom free fall from the black hawk at mission start point).

dont wait cashflow limited.. whole time shout "IA"...if that happens, you really suck thumb... may even lead to chamber explosion.

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by Bangkok Master

Pls lah Jun, no need to be so offensive in certain issues, back to just now u mention Bro Singrakthai on the buying of drinks, I was there on that day as well and I also paid for the first round of drinks in Rainbow 2. Nobody will be so calculative like u say, we know your situation and we also never expect u to pay us back, we just treat it as a friendly gesture. Why u wanna tear your own face and say this kinda of thing?

I'm very sure that Bro Singrakthai is not that kinda of person that u mentioned but the fact is YOU, yourself cannot pass the stage whereby thinking others who will look down on u as a piichai. Frankly speaking, I'm not sure what is YOUR truth as all your words are subjective whereby it changes momentarily, only u know it.

I guess there's no point arguing over this issue and hopefully u can overcome all the barrier and back to Sg safely. Remember once I mentioned to u before even u dun think for yourself but think for your parents as well!

Huh??I offensive meh??everything i type here,I am not feeling offended in any way.It was singrakthai who mentioned about the drinks which I told he would do so anyway.Hehe u do not really know my situation currently.It's pretty much difference since the last time we met.Yah indeed its a friendly gesture and i respected that as i ever met samsters too and go for drinks and not pay for their drinks too.By the way i think u paid for Rainbow 4.U were not there yet when we went Rainbow 2..

I have never regard myself or thinking others will look down on me as a piichai.If not i will already refrain from posting here already.Truth or not,can verify one since i am all ready to reaffirm all the happenings if anyone has the doubt.Since i very free lately.hehe...I aint like previous samsters who come here to brag and post "stories" that are not true.I not sure since i never read their posts b4.All that i post are true accounts and anyone in doubt can come bkk to verify.Of course i think noone will do so but i would gladly clarify it.

I do think about my parents and they are the ones and my friends who kept emailing and asking me to come back to spore.I can come back spore safely definitely as I can pay for my flight back anytime if "she" could permit me to do so.

[Jun|ch|]

hey bro Singrakthai,no offence hor,since u are so uptight and keep mentioning abt the 2drinks which costs ard S$10,kindly pm me ur spore bank acc no so that i can offer my repayment back.I could "barely" afford to pay back the $10plus since i not holding a decent job now.I certainly do not wish someone to keep harpering on the issue over and over again since its of little money.

I am Saggitarius.

As u said I know many decent Thai doing FLs,and MAKE IT SOUND like majority average are doing it.U say already i know many but i did not say majority all doing it.U are the one who felt that i was referring to it.I never say hor that majority decent ladies are FLs hor...that is a huge difference between what u said and what i meant.Doea many FLs that i met up with contribute really to the whole population in thailand??I stay bkk 6months,given i hardworking one day i met up with 10 decent thai girls who does FLs,that would be 1800only.I was just saying that there are many other decent girls who do FLs at times which u and me duno.Hope u get what i trying to put across here.

JC boy case,well naturally u can suggest spending $20 on a WL.But dun u think u are trying to mock him??WL will ask him go and fly kite lah.Of course given my advise to him,i told him to rather spend the money on his school girls instead.Regarding the $20 spending on gfs,well to each his own.As u said u go dutch with ur gf mah,so expenditure wise will be doubled if i am not wrong.

yeap i assumed u are earning big bucks but u are the one who posted say I CAN AFFORD EAT SEAFOOD.No need me to quote that post hor,i not good at cut and paste.Indeed seafood is cheap in bkk,if not i would not be having seafood dinner EVERY NIGHT when i came bkk every weekends for 4months.Even when i think i lost my job,and i met up with BKKmaster,the other time i still having seafood dinner with my gf at hway kwang.

I guessed i am wrong to confess that i loved her very much,since staying here is obstructing me from earning more money back in spore.Here i am only spending money and wasting time.I trying to put across that It's not my 100% part that i am staying here so long.Being the fact she "somehow" reluctant to let me go back.I never wanted to share my stories here with strangers since many do not know me and perhaps thinks i am fabricating the story.Its cos bro TV questioning me about my FR with that girl that why i posted here to clarify it.I feel really there's no way or whatever for me to go tell say i fuck her in the apartment unless i really knows of the meechai mansion in ratchada soi3.Its pretty deep inside i must say.I am not so free go apartment hunting in the daylight.U can come picha lobang me if u can loh...show that i am a nothing but fabricator. I am game on in case u want.no offence here hor.The other girl who wanted to take care of me back then and paid for hotels and rm services i also can bring her out and meet up and see if its the truth.I still have her contact no. what's there to picha lobang when i know there are many samsters in bkk and i know u all.I not scared come picha lobang me meh??buey kia paisey huh??i m not that thick skin bah..its okies u never reply lah..some of my posts referring to piichais and stuff also when i brought up the existence,ppl also got nothin to say.Initially is sharing and discussin about piichais become questionin my "stories" real or not.heck care real or not lah,as long as i am enjoying myself can already.

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by singrakthai

Who dares ask him pay when he come here to "share" on how he's living off his poor gf who'd to work to let him enjoy his "long holiday" in Bangkok?

u misinterpreted my postings already.As i said my girl only offers lodging,food and transport.Though she gives me allowances for me to pay anything i like,or go internet and stuff like that.I never once used her money for my self entertainment. Bro moonlight knows what i am talking about.Everytime i go drink or anything,i used my OWN money when i met up with samsters.Cos i not want to be a "true" piichai,i am onli half. True piichai will spend his girl's money on things he enjoyed.

P.S. Maybe if many more other bros all doing the same "having long holidays" like that and becoming a trend,then perhaps there wont be so much hostility against doing that.just because i am alone and i face all this.But its okies.Initially i cannot take suaning in life when i am in spore.But suaning trains me up.

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by DNAT

Yoz Jun,
I have nothing against on you having a r/s with a Thai WL. I had my equivalent share of such too.

1. I must say I hate to see people 'describe' too much of his gf (esp. if she is WL or ex-WL) in an open forum. Why, this is because you never know when other people would obtain information from open forum and find chances to go and 'try' her esp. when she is still in the trade. So to avoid all the hassels, its best not to post at all.

2. Its about time (> 6 months) you ask yourself whether you are serious about this r/s, for all r/s so to speak. This is even more important if the gal involved is a WL (or ex-WL) cos if you drag on as in your case, both you and her financial resources will be depleted and you be lablelled as 'eat soft rice'. One can ignore that label but no one can escape from own guilt.
There is currently one legendary samster who claims that he currently tends to befrens and have romance with Thai gals instead of paying for sex. He lets things happen ..... You won't wanna be like him ya?

Hi Uncle DNAT,nice of u to offer me some advise.I did not offer so much description of my girl did i??I merely offering my insights regarding piichais in bkk.I never induldge her particulars,and only 3 samsters know and seen my girl.By all means,i may sound arrogant,any samsters can go "try" her and prove me wrong.Please also if u manage to BF her,kindly call me so that i can wait outside the bar to "catch the Act".I want to see what she has to say.Since so much thrashings have been done for the past 6months.

hmm is there such a bro who befrens and romance thai gals as well??perhaps u can pm me his nick??i never see leh.Yah reason why i am returning home this month cos I want to go back make things rite.But as i said,that day she talk to me and told me to extend my visa again.I did not reply her anything.

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

its really not my style to be too pesimistic about things... at least not for tirakship matters. however, since you cited that your only sustainance is based on 280 allowance... your budget raelly too tight for anything lah.

tirakship for you now per say, fine.. things going smooth, you like her, she likes you.. both lovey dovey and all for now. but what happens after she ORD? what happens when you enlist for NS??

ok fine, suppose her patience can stretch for the 2yrs of your NS fine, she waits... then after you ORD, going NUS/NTU for degree.. she gonna sit on it for another 3-4yrs?? look, it aint nice for the lady to wait. certainly would be "lose face" in her contacts to be left on the shelf or if not... stupidly waiting for a young undergrad to prep himself for a good 5-6 yrs to have a phase 2 or 3 tirakship with.

as much as you think you wanna enjoy a good stretch of tirakship, what are your odds of getting dumped eventually??

that is why he is way too young to start all that.

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

(maciam olando bloom free fall from the black hawk at mission start point).

dont wait cashflow limited.. whole time shout "IA"...if that happens, you really suck thumb... may even lead to chamber explosion.

yeah in real life it happens too.Ironic izzit it??Nice movie indeed.

[Cyberspace Nerd]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

its really not my style to be too pesimistic about things... at least not for tirakship matters. however, since you cited that your only sustainance is based on 280 allowance... your budget raelly too tight for anything lah.

tirakship for you now per say, fine.. things going smooth, you like her, she likes you.. both lovey dovey and all for now. but what happens after she ORD? what happens when you enlist for NS??

ok fine, suppose her patience can stretch for the 2yrs of your NS fine, she waits... then after you ORD, going NUS/NTU for degree.. she gonna sit on it for another 3-4yrs?? look, it aint nice for the lady to wait. certainly would be "lose face" in her contacts to be left on the shelf or if not... stupidly waiting for a young undergrad to prep himself for a good 5-6 yrs to have a phase 2 or 3 tirakship with.

as much as you think you wanna enjoy a good stretch of tirakship, what are your odds of getting dumped eventually??

you are beginning to sound like his father...
please get back in the mood of this thread.