Advise please

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

Jun, you must be feeling very confused right now and hope that this nightmare ends soon. I think its better you try not to think about this matter too much cos it will make u crazy and you will not be able to concentrate on your work.

I believe u have the time to take things slowly. who knows, things might change later on.

Take it easy. Dont think too much is the best course of action. I know its difficult (especially when u are doing freelance work).

He is confused, but I can tell you, after he read 10 pages of comments, he feel lagi more confused.

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[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

she calls me and hangs up and i call her back using Starhub IDD call...we talk about 100mins per day...ranging from 5mins to 30mins...

Your salary I think not able to cover.
Shiong.....

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[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Your salary I think not able to cover.
Shiong.....

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Starhub offers quite cheap calls to Thailand so is quite affordable...its the flying every weekend which is siong...

Originally Posted by siamcutey

He is confused, but I can tell you, after he read 10 pages of comments, he feel lagi more confused.

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10 pages for one day sure is alot. I am sure it will sink in after awhile, need time to digest all these. I think by posting , he just want to share is sorrows or whatever. That is why I think we should provide more of a support, a listening ear for him rather than confuse him more, ask him to think this and that.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

Starhub offers quite cheap calls to Thailand so is quite affordable...its the flying every weekend which is siong...

100 mins is $15.75
x 30 days =>$450SGD

Its cheap if you call little, but not to this extent.

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[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

10 pages for one day sure is alot. I am sure it will sink in after awhile, need time to digest all these. I think by posting , he just want to share is sorrows or whatever. That is why I think we should provide more of a support, a listening ear for him rather than confuse him more, ask him to think this and that.

My only advise to him is to tell him to go stay with the girl. Be pii chai.

Because he cannot leave the girl. And he not much money also. So unless he can be practical in his thinking, or else better live in fantasy land for a while and wait for reality to knock in to his head.

Talk so much on the girl lie or dun lie, trust here and there, no use. Because talk so much, his money is going to be spent. And I can tell you is that when he spend the money, he will be very happy. Most important thing in life is to be happy.

Sometimes i seriously think when people start a thread asking for advise, how many of them actually follow the advises in it? None I can tell you. Why they start a thread? Because they want to see "good advises" which look good to them make them feel shiok, song. So that at least they know in this planet, they are not walking alone.

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[ryanlim]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

Why? KNN, Don't tell me you know this fellow personally?

Errr........read up on his past postings........he has been to TCSS outings before, met up with Uncle D, ML.......same age as me.......apparently he has consulted Bros here before on this problem of his via PM.........

anyway since he's a kaki of Uncle D, just give him some advice lor.......if possible, jio him out for coffee and talk to him face to face if he's willing lor

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Sometimes i seriously think when people start a thread asking for advise, how many of them actually follow the advises in it? None I can tell you. Why they start a thread? Because they want to see "good advises" which look good to them make them feel shiok, song. So that at least they know in this planet, they are not walking alone.

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you like that say good meh??? that time i start a thread asking for advise, i did follow some of them hor, especially your advise.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by ryanlim

Errr........read up on his past postings........he has been to TCSS outings before, met up with Uncle D, ML.......same age as me.......apparently he has consulted Bros here before on this problem of his via PM.........

anyway since he's a kaki of Uncle D, just give him some advice lor.......if possible, jio him out for coffee and talk to him face to face if he's willing lor

Actually, I can forsee the girl will not harm him. His money problems will harm him

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Originally Posted by siamcutey

Actually, I can forsee the girl will not harm him. His money problems will harm him

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this world is very cruel one. got money cannot find true love. got true love but no money.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

you like that say good meh??? that time i start a thread asking for advise, i did follow some of them hor, especially your advise.

You got listen meh? If you listened, you will not continue the How to date Cat40 girls: Strategy and Tactics thread, when I tell you not to start this kind of thread.

Just like you know taking drugs is bad. And if you have a son, you will tell him that taking drugs is bad, because you walked the path and know that it comes to no good end. But more often than not, when you tell others not to do it, the more they will do it.

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[ryanlim]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Sometimes i seriously think when people start a thread asking for advise, how many of them actually follow the advises in it? None I can tell you. Why they start a thread? Because they want to see "good advises" which look good to them make them feel shiok, song. So that at least they know in this planet, they are not walking alone.

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well said.......remind me of an "Expelled" Samster, who like to ask for advises/comments on "this and that"........but if the advises/comments given to him doesn't suit his ears........*sigh* *shake head* nuff said

somemore can come in and give advise to Jun|ch|.......

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by ryanlim

well said.......remind me of an "Expelled" Samster, who like to ask for advises/comments on "this and that"........but if the advises/comments given to him doesn't suit his ears........*sigh* *shake head* nuff said

somemore can come in and give advise to Jun|ch| somemore.......

Not fair to say like that.

We know vices are bad, we indulge in it. However, we do not advise people to follow the same path we walk in. Same concept. Why we do not advise people to follow the same path? Because deep in our hearts we know its no good.

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[ryanlim]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

However, we do not advise people to follow the same path we walk in. Same concept. Why we do not advise people to follow the same path? Because deep in our hearts we know its no good.

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actually it's cos some of us here have walk the road before, so know of some of the dangers and pitfalls ahead. won't really advise the guys who are starting their journey not to start going the same path but just that would like to guide them along the way instead of them going in blindly

won't say that it's no good cos as in life, the path will be full of ups and downs, joy and laughter, tears and sorrows

Originally Posted by ryanlim

well said.......remind me of an "Expelled" Samster, who like to ask for advises/comments on "this and that"........but if the advises/comments given to him doesn't suit his ears........*sigh* *shake head* nuff said

somemore can come in and give advise to Jun|ch| somemore.......

Sometime u dont understand why someone wants to ask something. Sometimes ppl just want some support. there is no advise/comments that doesnt suit ppl's ears, its how u put it across which matters alot. I am sure when someone criticises you, if that person puts it nicely, you wont feel offended.

Knowing what Jun is going thru now is important. Provide a listening ear and guide him thru rather than confusing him with more thinking about this and that, which is not important.