Gers Are Still Gers

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by jd_ratdiver

........"No, honey, I don't feel like it".

Her facejust went completely blank, as her jaw dropped with a baffled
"WHAT??"

I then said, "Really honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a
while............You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man
enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman".

And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me, I added, "Why
can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"



Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either......

well done!!! let her taste some of her own medicine. if she really want to, she can still pay for it herself.. just as what they say simply... if you really need to release.. you go pcc yourself!!

LOL

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

dont know how many were tuning into class95 some nights ago, the topic discussion for the evening was about singaporean gals suffering from the "cinderella complex". basically illustrating that the gals being pampered/spoilt rotten by the folks, expect/demand the same kind of affection/TLC from their men.

several callers responded... basically both genders agreed that sg gals these days really have such issues...

1) male callers; in general commented that the gals are becoming hard to handle, namely because of their contradiction/quirkiness (as said the DJ). 1 moment crave for all the TLC, next moment chanting the Destiny's Child - Independant women~

2) female callers; responded & confessed that they're guilty of the C-Complex from time to time. (some dont even realise that its a problem)

wonder if any bros here were tuning in, and would like to share a cent or 2 on the issue in mention...?

Eh, many Thai Prostitutes also have this kind of symptoms. So what do you think?

Many Thai Prostitutes are being pampered/spoilt rotten by their sponsors, expect/demand the same kind of affection/TLC from their sponsors while conning money from them so that they can buy their Pradas, LVs and Guccis.


hahaha
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[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

.......Many Thai Prostitutes are being pampered/spoilt rotten by their sponsors, expect/demand the same kind of affection/TLC from their sponsors while conning money from them so that they can buy their Pradas, LVs and Guccis

yes, both scenarios is being spoilt. but for the double standards, of wanting TLC, yet wanting to be independant woman... dont seem to tally for the cases for cross reference. hence remotely relate to context of discussion on the term given; "cinderella complex"

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

yes, both scenarios is being spoilt. but for the double standards, of wanting TLC, yet wanting to be independant woman... dont seem to tally for the cases for cross reference. hence remotely relate to context of discussion on the term given; "cinderella complex"

Si mi si "cinderella" complex?

Thai prostitutes also want TLC and yet want be independant. The only times they are submissive is when they want to get money from sponsors.


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[MoonBlaze]

Originally Posted by jd_ratdiver

I then said, "Really honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for awhile............You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a manenough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman".

And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me, I added, "Why
can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"

Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either......

Clap! Clap! I salute your action!

Originally Posted by jd_ratdiver

I then said, "Really honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a
while............You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man
enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman".

And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me, I added, "Why
can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"



Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either......

Truly appreciate . You're my master .

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Si mi si "cinderella" complex?

Thai prostitutes also want TLC and yet want be independant. The only times they are submissive is when they want to get money from sponsors.


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well, since you see it that way, then transpose that into context of a non-WL... the behaviour/attitude/mentality for which they choose to adopt, during & when she wants/demands gifts & attentions... no major difference to that of a whore.

bottom line... gers r still gers

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by t123

I support what you said, my mum just nagged at me said that I am not having GF. I told her and my dad, that gals at GL are abundance, if KTV also can. I am having phobia to commit, recently, a gal from movie was lamenting why I neber go full throttle after her and I was thinking and worrying too much. My 2 biggest worries, not gotten over my phobia after severely hurt by BGRs before, and this gal is a the DHL jumbo.

Wah, ur mum nagged at u? My mum never nagged at all. Its like she feels that I'm still a kid (though i'm coming to 30 soon).

Its no surprise that you have phobia towards bgr. I kenna one really bad one before. It was my first and last I ever had. Back then I had nothing, the girl basically latched onto me like a leach. Mum was totally against the relationship.

Right after I broke up, I had no faith in any relationships, especially after encountering some other materialistic girls. When I started work about 3 years back, I worked day and night and even during the weekends, just hoping to forget about her and the silly women I met before.

During the process of working hard, I also discovered my other strength. That was to teach and also understood the meaning of hardship. Since then, syt only seemed like good companions, but no good wives.

The only thing I want to do now is to buy for my mum that very last car she had. The most touching thing was that she sold the car at a heavy loss, just so that the family has enough money for the housing loan.

I still remembered that moment back in 99, she asked, "Should I sell the car? Cos' if sell at a loss, still can get back some money." I didn't know why and told her, "just sell it." She was in deep silence. It took me a while to realise how much that car also meant to her.

Even my ex had never been this emotional and selfless in giving.

If its a rx-8 which will make my mum a happy retired lady, I hope I can buy that for her, cos' it was my mum that led me out of the desolate state of distress I was suffering from, after I broke up.

[t123]

Actually, I recently got attached and she is a great gal, maybe it's still honeymoon period. But we seemed to be ok when got into fights because we hugged each other 5 mins after every fight. SHe did not mind me having paid sex before, now we are just very open to each other. Hope that whatever confess won't turn into evidence when we fight. I got a fear now, and that is this relationship which seemingly perfect to me will fade.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by t123

Actually, I recently got attached and she is a great gal, maybe it's still honeymoon period. But we seemed to be ok when got into fights because we hugged each other 5 mins after every fight. SHe did not mind me having paid sex before, now we are just very open to each other. Hope that whatever confess won't turn into evidence when we fight. I got a fear now, and that is this relationship which seemingly perfect to me will fade.

U must be prepared to leave this girl when one day she quarrel with u and tell you that "u f#@Ker, u visit prostitutes last time"

Its the same as when a man marries a prostitute and then during quarrels bring out the part that she has worked as a prostitute before.

SO u must talk to her nicely, draw the lines where it is. One day if she brings out all your dirt during all your quarrels, is the day when you should move on to the next girl.

Do not fear of such scenarios because it is such scenarios that enable you to see a person's true feelings.

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[t123]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

U must be prepared to leave this girl when one day she quarrel with u and tell you that "u f#@Ker, u visit prostitutes last time"

Its the same as when a man marries a prostitute and then during quarrels bring out the part that she has worked as a prostitute before.

SO u must talk to her nicely, draw the lines where it is. One day if she brings out all your dirt during all your quarrels, is the day when you should move on to the next girl.

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Yah lor, my fren told me the same and tell me PA si pun mai gong. but I cannot hide becos you cant expect her to believe that for 8 years without sex and totally hj is impossible. If I am a virgin to make her cum and cum lagi unbelievable. So no choice, kanna kempeitai questioning methods I confess.

[iloveoversea]

Originally Posted by t123

Actually, I recently got attached and she is a great gal, maybe it's still honeymoon period. But we seemed to be ok when got into fights because we hugged each other 5 mins after every fight. SHe did not mind me having paid sex before, now we are just very open to each other. Hope that whatever confess won't turn into evidence when we fight. I got a fear now, and that is this relationship which seemingly perfect to me will fade.

Have faith T123, my gf also knows about my past and she hardly brings it out during fights. However be prepared that she might use your past to make u do things that u normally too lazy to do or provoke u to buy things for her

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by t123

Actually, I recently got attached and she is a great gal, maybe it's still honeymoon period.

Great news bro, finally venturing into uncharted maps. Glad to know that you found someone. Have some faith and confidence, what is there to lose, right?

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by iloveoversea

Have faith T123, my gf also knows about my past and she hardly brings it out during fights. However be prepared that she might use your past to make u do things that u normally too lazy to do or provoke u to buy things for her

Yes, they always know where to poke where it hurt most.

[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by iloveoversea

Have faith T123, my gf also knows about my past and she hardly brings it out during fights. However be prepared that she might use your past to make u do things that u normally too lazy to do or provoke u to buy things for her

Haha, I agree.One misdeed from us equals to forever making up.....