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Re: woes of a tirak
lol dunno how come so many here affected by the 3 stipulated scenarios. its so simple, old man with lotsa CPF $ sure to be cash rich to feed the gal, whiles working young men like us all may have limitations as to how much to sponsor/feed the girl+family. NSF...i think abit hard lah, the income is not even salary but just allowance from the SAF.
simple but some choose to take things so personal? why? definately there will have variant mah. unless of cos there's an exceptional few who're cash rich, sincere & young, then maybe its time to prove some people here wrong that he's capable of redeeming his tirak & taking care her livelihood, so she'd never have to spread those lovely legs again lor?
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Every other guy kinda believes that he is the only one that has a Thai WL that is true to him.... Everyone else only has a Thai girl that wants to cheat him... Blah blah blah...
Yes it's true that many are out to make some money from us, but let's not forget that they are human too, they do fall in love, not after just 1 session, but after sometime. You also have to understand that they don't believe they will meet the man of their dreams in this line do you?! We are after all horny man paying for sex!!! How great can we possibly be?! Don't go looking for a relationship with them, but should you find one that has given you reason to trust her, cherish her... I am your so called sincere man in the middle... But it's just stupid to label what kind of guys we are... We are just guys looking for some one to truly love us, whether we are rich or poor, old or young, we are human and all have the same needs. We all don't want to die alone. |
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Want to help your friend also do it with substance. SC
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I am sorry this will be long. But it is necessary cos it spans so many of the posts before. I am beginning to understand more of why things are the way they are for us today... I am more convinced than ever that our love for each other is real...& has a good, if not high chance of success. Otherwise there is no other reason for us to last until today and still want be together for the rest of our lives, Him Who Is Above willing.
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Before anyone go shooting from the hips, hear me out. I have been trying hard not to post, but I now feel that I should, cos I had seen something that I had felt all along (though I did waiver at times) , but can't quite pin it down until now. I dun know about how other tirakship couples (or "couples") talk to each other but the most common words that my beloved and I used in our conversations are "we/us/ours" and "they/them/theirs". It's Our future, Our Problem, Our Dreams..., and its Their concerns, Their this and Their that.. and how do We solve this headache, what can We do together, how do We encourage each other to perservere... Yes, the mountain of problems we faced are still tall and steep, (for Mr. Murphy is still playing games with us) and issues pressing, but I am not facing them alone and neither is she...many times we wake up in the middle of night, and call each other to talk as we can't sleep well, to encourage each other.....to cling on to the hopes & dreams we have. Quote:
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So the money problem is real... and we are struggling.. but her returning to her past is not an option for both of us... unless we are no longer together. For her, without me in her life, she has no more reasons to suffer like this. Going back does indeed give her an "easier life" or marry her real father's choice of that rich young man, even if he is a flirt cos she can at least lead a luxrious lifestyle. For me, without her, all these struggling would be meaningless and I won't be so masochastic as to put myself thru it. KNN, abstaining from cheonging is also suffering, but I do not resent nor regret doing it. Social and cultural issues are not the biggest things really. As long as both truly love each other, both will compromise and there is always a way out. Financially, it is less of a problem or OK if both are experienced, and this is where with a younger and less experienced woman, it is tougher. Actually the biggest thing that one needs to look out for are the unexpected events that will cost money (and urgently too) and they hit hard cos they are unplanned for. The TG (or at least mine) is not exactly good at planning or forseeing such things and I am learning to help her forsee them. In the mean time, both suffer together. Her family knows our situation cos she is sure enough about me not to have to hide from them. Surprisingly, they are extremely understanding and have not made demands for anything, pershaps having met them in person mde the difference. They could accept that the foreigner is not always a rich man and loving their precious gal sincerely is more important Quote:
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>> Today, I have known this woman as a friend for 1.5 years, and as my tirak for yet another. Along the way we had a break in between when I opened myself to several choices. I was hurt cos I felt she did not treasure me and her sister is more impt. She was hurt too that I left but she knew it was her mistake and did whatever she could to try to bring me back. When I was down, I got encouragement from her more than anyone else. No money and she did not dump me, as I had expected (even wanted) her to; no, she stayed by me, and encourage me to pick myself up, cos she had seen me in better times as a friend and she knows what I can be if I put my mind to it. It's been since months since we got back together, and I (nor she) ever regreted our decision. Maybe my tirakship is really different, depending on how people want to see it. But I realised that so many of the things that was discussed above, we either have done it, doing it or going to do it. And we are doing much more. So I really think that our r/s is as normal as any other Boy-ger r/s - as 2 humans in love and wanting to be together for the rest of their lives. I can't see it any other way...
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In some cases (at least I know of ONE) the guy might not be able to travel up to her/their (future) home for a period of time for very valid reasons that are out of his control (and thru no fault of his). Despite the fact he has been invited by his tirak and her mum. I certainly hope she can come back soon as a genuine tourist to visit him without any problems. It has been torture for him and her, to say the least as they work out their future together. Perhaps for the benefit of this chap (and a good guy too), does any one know if there are any problems for her to come back on a normal social visit pass, if he is prepared to be her guarantor? Does this "show money" thingy still applies? And what is the minimum period she must be away from these shores before it can happened? Bros, please do not just shoot at this; if you dun believe it exists just bypass this post and ignore it, ok? There is a genuine case out here and I hope we can rally around this bro and provide the needed info for him instead. Do not add salt to his wounds. That is the minimum we who are luckier to travel when we want to, can do for a brother in need.
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When a person step into a tirak relationship with a Cat40 with the wrong footing(in this case wrong mindset), then he is in deep deep trouble. The person might think his thinking is right and persist in his thinking but we can see as bystanders can see the picture clearer than the person many a times. Why do I say so? From day 1 the thread started till today with the categorisation of 1) Cash Rich Dirty Old Man 2) Sincere Young Chap 3) NSF Young Fuck One can see where the threadstarter is standing. I don't need to say too much. You guys have eyes to read and decipher what kind of mindset the threadstarter is in. I know many people loved to be rallied around to give them the encouragement they need at times. But that is not the right way. Let me ask everyone a question. Does anyone know the thai girl? Free, you know? Thaivisitor you know? Redperrier you know? Know as in not knowing her identity but her true self. No one knows. Not even Suteerak. So the question lies here that should we give these girls the benefit of the doubt? Why no one said to give our ownselves the benefit of the doubt instead? Rather than placing the situation advantageous to them, why not put the ball in our court instead. Every benefit of doubt should be given to ownself and not the girl. We are already at a very disadvantage situation with a serious handicap. And if we still give them the benefit of the doubt, how to win? SC
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Point number 2. If we know, understand and accept that life is difficult, it becomes easier for us. It is the hardships and troubles that one goes through together with the one you love that makes the love sweeter. I do not see any hardship on the part of the guy who claims that he is not able to let his tirak out from spreading her legs due to whatever reasons. i can only see the tirak going through the hardship by herself. And by the time she ORD, he conveniently comes to be her white knight professing his undying love. Do you call a guy a "man" when he allows her to go thru the suffering and settles all of her problems on her own by spreading her legs? and than give the ridiculous excuse that during this period where she is a WL that he is not financially able to help her? How often does a guy "visit" his tirak per week or per month? whether it is for a single session, double session or overnight? Assuming that he saves this amount of money and convert it into thai baht. easily it will be 10,000 baht per month. multiply it by the number of months, say 12 months will already be 120,000 baht. maybe not much, can you imagine this money given to her when she ORD? even if you have set aside 100,000 baht for her eventually ORD, wouldn't another 120,000 baht be useful? I agree with bro thaivisitor with regards to the "hardship" the guys so claimed that they go through. |
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So while she is a WL, the guy will comes out with his sad story of how he is not able to help her, "convinced" her of his dying and true love, stand by her her while she spreads her legs and be ready for her when she ORD. isn't it very convenient for the guy? so because he is financially not strong, he can actually "ride" on the girl's money, just like what a piichi will do. And if in the future, money is again short, the guy will have no problems if his tirak goes back to the trade. won't be surprise if he even encourage her. Isn't he just like what have been described in this thread and a few others... a "sad fuck"? |
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Just for discussion sake, how many WLs you know or anybody else in this forum knows, that was "bought" out by someone who is "rich"? because from my experiences, all of the people i know of who are married to ex-WL are all normal working class people. granted, that i do not know a lot of people who are married to ex-WL, but i know of 6 friends who are, maybe not as much as bro thaivisitor. |
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As for your friend's case, i'm sorry i'm not able to provide any help. maybe the more senior bros here have some solutions or advices. |
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