The Departure of my ex...

[DTCEPL]

Bro DYBJ is ever so helpful on KC matters.

May Buddha be with You.......

[SammyHulk]

On the flip side. you are indeed a lucky guy. Lucky in a sense that you had identified and really know whom you truly love, knowing she will forever had a special place in your heart.

Your next very special woman will be one that will have to aware of that and still loving you.....

[Rangers]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

As for this Shirleen, it could also be a gift.
Not as a lover, but as solace to you.
For now that is.
The one that can help you the most is the one that puts their heart forward for you.
Decide on this and tell her in advance that you're not ready for any relationship thus no promises. If you are, then it's an outright lie and you treasure her as a friend thus wouldnt wanna do that.
But do not deny the fact that you're very broken hearted n need a very close friend and a shoulder to cry on.
This i know she'll do very well.

Do consider this option and dun be surprised, like i said in many of my posts, everything happens for a reason. Take 2 steps back and look over everything like an eagle soaring in the skies, and you'll see the hidden answer you've been seeking.

Cheers

Bro.. i do agreed with u.. she is indeed a gd friend and collague to have.. between.. we can share alot and she really know me well... my moods.. but at this pt of time.. i dun dare to commit much... cos i am really unsure of my feelings for her.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Rangers

Bro.. i do agreed with u.. she is indeed a gd friend and collague to have.. between.. we can share alot and she really know me well... my moods.. but at this pt of time.. i dun dare to commit much... cos i am really unsure of my feelings for her.

Like i mentioned in my post to you, accept this friend and shoulder to cry on.
Just tell her upfront that you cant commit cos of your current mental and just need a real friend whom you can rely on.
With this, you dun owe her anything liao bro.

[LordVader]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Like i mentioned in my post to you, accept this friend and shoulder to cry on.
Just tell her upfront that you cant commit cos of your current mental and just need a real friend whom you can rely on.
With this, you dun owe her anything liao bro.

Yeah I agree. After all you still have your 'needs' as well.

[Rangers]

Originally Posted by LordVader

Yeah I agree. After all you still have your 'needs' as well.

Bros.. perhaps i should consider getting myself a FB.. ( at least dun need to have any emotional commitments). Bros.. what do u think of this idea?..

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Rangers

Bros.. perhaps i should consider getting myself a FB.. ( at least dun need to have any emotional commitments). Bros.. what do u think of this idea?..

Aiyoh we all have needs man.
This is the best arrangement rite????
Goes for it in my view.

[Rangers]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Aiyoh we all have needs man.
This is the best arrangement rite????
Goes for it in my view.

Thanks bro... k then... btw.. bro do u have any advice for me in how to get a FB. Forgive me as i am really a greenhorn in this area... any intro of any FB that u know?..

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Rangers

Thanks bro... k then... btw.. bro do u have any advice for me in how to get a FB. Forgive me as i am really a greenhorn in this area... any intro of any FB that u know?..

That's a very outright DUMB question and you're really asking for it! hahahahaha
You already got one willing party waiting for you liao...still wanna find???
Finding FBs is nottin short of finding a lover but no strings or commitment attachments.
Alot has to do wif needs and wants and mental maturity from both parties.
Best candidates are those that dun want to settle down.

[Rangers]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

That's a very outright DUMB question and you're really asking for it! hahahahaha
You already got one willing party waiting for you liao...still wanna find???
Finding FBs is nottin short of finding a lover but no strings or commitment attachments.
Alot has to do wif needs and wants and mental maturity from both parties.
Best candidates are those that dun want to settle down.

bro...hahaha..　me wun touch her as me nt prepared to commit myself in any relationships.　A　FB is a better choice as it dun need to have any special commitments.　Sigh..　me really need a FB to detress abit.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Rangers

bro...hahaha..　me wun touch her as me nt prepared to commit myself in any relationships.　A　FB is a better choice as it dun need to have any special commitments.　Sigh..　me really need a FB to detress abit.

Selfishly speaking, if i were you, i will not play her for her sincerity.
But i'll use her as a tool to get to know more of her friends....for all you know, what you seek may not be from her but through her...tink abt it...hehehe

[Rangers]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Selfishly speaking, if i were you, i will not play her for her sincerity.
But i'll use her as a tool to get to know more of her friends....for all you know, what you seek may not be from her but through her...tink abt it...hehehe

A brillant idea! but will it hurt her if she find out the truth.. dun seem that it is too gd.. i think i have better nt get her involed... will have to know FB from other sources... Any kind brothers have any FB contacts to share?..

[supreme81]

pricless your story touch me deep in my heart.bro,you earn my respect.

[Real07]

Wah Bro my tears almost come out after reading ur story...soooo touch

I guess Da Sao must have R.I.P now and although u have to move on which is very hard to do so sometime, that the crude of life.

As our Bros here had said life still go on u still have many years ahead of u, u must live to the most fruitfill for her to see in heaven, eg getting married and have a happy family, be a responsible and loving husband is all she wan to see in heaven.

Take Care Bro!

[xpandaboix]

Well bro...Very touching..Losing a love one is indeed painful..Especially for ppl who loved their ex before...=)
Take care!!!