well said, well said...sometimes people do tell white lie for the good of each other.....
Junichi, the main question you must ask yourself, "can you handle the truth if you found out???"
TV has oredi punch you at the face (literary speaking) to wake you up. If you truly love her, what's the point of you testing her out? where do you think she got her money from to go out with you, pay for expenses, reject your barfine and etc?
remember, love is built on TRUST...........and that TURST must be MUTUAL...
let the truth speak for itself...i do not wish to clarify anything...as i said i am unsure of everything too...that's why i seeking to find outt the truth behind it...and yes i can handle the truth...i just want to know...
let the truth speak for itself...i do not wish to clarify anything...as i said i am unsure of everything too...that's why i seeking to find outt the truth behind it...and yes i can handle the truth...i just want to know...
look mate..
in life.. it is not the truth that u needs to handle.. so what u know the truth.. ur heart inside.. might think otherwise.. it seems that u are a man that rules by the heart not the brain..
IT IS NOT THE TRUTH THAT IS IMPORTANT!!
IT IS HOW U WAN TO PROCEED WITH YOUR FUTURE THAT IS MORE IMPORTANT...
Can the truth change the path? TV has told u and his words has slap u on the face.. what truth u wan?
so what if she really doesnt take any other customer.. will u marry a GO GO BAR GAL? U the only son.. ur parents can take it? is ur parents the tradditional type? U willing to give up ur parents.. if they strongly rejects? and ur kid.. u wan ur kid to grow up in thailand or singapore?
in life.. it is not the truth that u needs to handle.. so what u know the truth.. ur heart inside.. might think otherwise.. it seems that u are a man that rules by the heart not the brain..
IT IS NOT THE TRUTH THAT IS IMPORTANT!!
IT IS HOW U WAN TO PROCEED WITH YOUR FUTURE THAT IS MORE IMPORTANT...
Can the truth change the path? TV has told u and his words has slap u on the face.. what truth u wan?
so what if she really doesnt take any other customer.. will u marry a GO GO BAR GAL? U the only son.. ur parents can take it? is ur parents the tradditional type? U willing to give up ur parents.. if they strongly rejects? and ur kid.. u wan ur kid to grow up in thailand or singapore?
yup i am a guy who often gets ruled by my heart...tats why...i just want to know if she goes with customer or not...yes i will marry her even if she is a BG...yah i am only son i have thought about it alot already....that's why i need to decide now
i do not want to reveal her working place online if u get wat i mean...no offence to the bros...just to those who going to help me sound her out...
i said already she does sit with customers from time to time...there are ladies who work in agogo bars and not go with customers. they get lesser paid for the monthly wages.yes she goes into the changin room every hour to call me. Reason being why would the customer put up with so much having to "act" with her go all the way to papladaeng and accompanied her standing outside with dogs barking and mosquitoes biting at 4am in the morning??sometimes i have arguments with her till very late in the morning??would u pay 3000baht for that??and when she wakes up...she calls me every hour till she goes to work...does she have time for going out? i am not siding her but i do want to prove she is telling the truth...are u stayin in bangkok now and could help me sound her out these few days??i pay for the drinks at rainbow..i would like to know the truth soon.thanks..
ok, say you found out the truth via the bro here, so, how are you going to handle it?? ask yourself this scenario -> even if she does go out with customers and do ST/LT booking (i concur with TV here, i just can't imagine a bar gal doesn't do booking and still working in a gogobar)...she could be truly love you, that's why she is willing to spend all her hard-earned money on gift, call charges, pay your expenses and etc, just because she truly love you.....
that could be the case.....how will you react after you found out the truth??
you are now on suspicious mindset about her....what if she is truly turn out to be a good gal and prove all of us here wrong, that she indeed doesn;t do booking and go out with customers....so how? what's your next move?? continue the relationship with her?? can you afford it since you mention you are financially depleted and saving is empty....or you still wanna ditch her??
so, is that mean whatever the truth is, you will still ditch her?? is that being fair to her??
bro, you are confused.......clear your mind and think rationally, dun alway think from the angle of "suspicious"....
yup i am a guy who often gets ruled by my heart...tats why...i just want to know if she goes with customer or not...yes i will marry her even if she is a BG...yah i am only son i have thought about it alot already....that's why i need to decide now
pengs... ur career.. how are u going to support her?? u are the only son.. u plan to leave ur parents behind?
pai sei.......just curious......you mean that if she has gone out/sleep around with customer(s), you wouldn't marry her?????
i told her to be truthful to me and i know about thais not being truthful...i told her i am aware of their culture and their white lies to protect us and themselves...she told me herself she DO NOT go with customers...which i said if she goes with can tell me...i just do not like to be lied upon...i told her b4 if she ever lied to me...i will hardened my heart and let go...
ok, say you found out the truth via the bro here, so, how are you going to handle it?? ask yourself this scenario -> even if she does go out with customers and do ST/LT booking (i concur with TV here, i just can't imagine a bar gal doesn't do booking and still working in a gogobar)...she could be truly love you, that's why she is willing to spend all her hard-earned money on gift, call charges, pay your expenses and etc, just because she truly love you.....
that could be the case.....how will you react after you found out the truth??
you are now on suspicious mindset about her....what if she is truly turn out to be a good gal and prove all of us here wrong, that she indeed doesn;t do booking and go out with customers....so how? what's your next move?? continue the relationship with her?? can you afford it since you mention you are financially depleted and saving is empty....or you still wanna ditch her??
so, is that mean whatever the truth is, you will still ditch her?? is that being fair to her??
bro, you are confused.......clear your mind and think rationally, dun alway think from the angle of "suspicious"....
if she had proven that she has not been lying to me...which i believed she did not lie to me...my initial thread was meant how to deal with the situation and not find out whether she khort hort me or not...but since there is a chance to give her some merit points to prove she is indeed truthful to me as i value trust very much...yes if she does not go with customers, i will have a solution and be with her...I mayb depleted and emotionally tired but if she is really loves me, i can do more for her...
No i will not leave my parents behind but i will persuade my parents to accept everything...
young man!! a GO GO BAR GAL?!?!??!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!? !
knn.. its like one day.. ur kid comes and tell u.. oei.. old man.. i wan to marry a batam prositute.. u steady with that kind of question??
how are u going to bring her over? what will ur relative say? u have money to support her?
21-03-2005, 05:36 PM
