woes of a tirak

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by free

All those names u mentioned above happened months before I started my Internet Chatting in Thai. When I met these gals, I can't do that yet.
My Internet "romps" are much more recent. Why no mention of names? For what? For you? Why no stories? Cos there are of ordinary/normal TGs leading normal lives, except for 1 SYT. Stories about one only my closer friends will know. Too private and fun lah. Why no stories, ask? Cos inspite of all this wonderful women I know, one woman still stands out in my heart - my tirak. So there's no news and no news is good news for us.

*sign* didn't realise that some samsters will not post stories for us lah... For what post for us? Who are we that samsters would want to share with us? So will only share stories with close friends as too private and fun lah...

*sign* didn't know all the previous posts, threads with regards to the weather (Rain) theatres (Dancer) and movies (Film) were not considered private and fun so can post for all to see.

*sign* so didn't realised that relationship with WLs can exposed to the world and relationships with non WLs are considered private as such cannot post.

*sign* don't know why most people believe that relationshipswith non-WLs are not posted because there were non.

*sign* *sign* *sign*

[free]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

*sign* some people will think that only TG tells them the truth and will never tell lies for the hope of a relationship lah.. so only their info is 100% accurate while others' info must be flawed. Wonder why I was given her thai handphone number and instructions on where to find her if she comes back to BKK at that time.

*sign* *sign* *sign*

My friend, u have no undestanding of chronological order. All I really care about is from the time I started with her, months after she goes back. What to do, Mr Know-all really thinks he is Omnipotent and Omnipresent. Good for u. I too small to deal with one like that.

Anyway, as I said, I will let Time be the judge, not u.

[free]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

*sign* didn't realise that some samsters will not post stories for us lah... For what post for us? Who are we that samsters would want to share with us? So will only share stories with close friends as too private and fun lah...

*sign* didn't know all the previous posts, threads with regards to the weather (Rain) theatres (Dancer) and movies (Film) were not considered private and fun so can post for all to see.

*sign* so didn't realised that relationship with WLs can exposed to the world and relationships with non WLs are considered private as such cannot post.

*sign* don't know why most people believe that relationshipswith non-WLs are not posted because there were non.

As u see fit, O Omnipotent and Omnipresent one. U never accepted the fact that my LDTR threads and related postings were for those on the journey, and never meant for successful seasoned guys like u. Read all u want, if u must, but understand that they are REALLY NOT meant for u, Of course they sound like rubbish to you.

Sigh, I was thinking if I should show u a sample of photos/video clips and smses of my Internet friends, nah... even with facts u won't believe it anyway. Does that ring a bell? U use to ask questions to clarify - now u shoot allegations and believe hearsay? What happened to you? Are u not well?

Why dun I post? Cos there is no point anymore. My search is over, My thinking aloud has been completed, I believe I have found my True Love. My lastest SYT test, I passed and now I am sure. Going for the last stretch. No one else matters anymore.

Anyway it seems u already made up your mind that things that dun happen to you MUST be impossible and therefore lies. So what is there to discuss further? Just the tot of those (inclding a respected LC who is open-mined, so I share some of my new info with him) who know the real truth and had seen the evidence for themselves, snickering away tickles me pink

Sigh, let's not pollute this thread anymore. My thousand apologies, MR Suteerak

[free]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

. He gave me the number as she is also working in an MP while she is in BKK.

No, this not a rebuttal. Actually I want to thank you. I had been a little sad (cos she still dun have much chance to prove herself then) when u gave me the impression that u seem to know something about my tirak when we met at my 1st TCSS months ago. KNN, now I know I only kit maak maak, tam hai eng sia jai. I am not saying anything about what she did or did not do to survive back in BKK after her return (that's for me to know), but I am at least glad even the last bits of missing jigsaw puzzle (though unimportant by now) has fallen into place. Kum sia, kum sia.

Now that I finally know what u think u know (MPs and all - and KNN, it is all hearsay from a 3rd party - but tell me like u knew her personally), I have damn bloody good reasons to believe that there are just 2 possibilites. Too bad u said u deleted the hp number when I asked for it to see if it was her new or old number. Dun quite make sense at all, now that I think about it. If u delete it cos u think I am a friend of yours and she is my tirak, u wouldn't even want to tell me u got her number. Else what is the point? Certainly that was not the way to help me to know if she was sincere with me that she never gave her new number (got it after we started) out? Your 2 actions do not match. Hmm... smell a rat somewhere!

The 2 possibilities I can conclude:

1. Someone gave u the wrong info and boy, what a case of wrong identities, and you had to jump on it!
2. There is an ulterior motive somewhere, for all these months of consistent "mis-readings" of my post and putting words (I did not say) into my mouth, seemed a bit co-incidental dun u think?

Sincerely hope it is the 1st case,. else I would be so sad.... that TV could .....

Also I realised that my LDTR walk is ongoing and "live" I posted as things took place. U look at things from an already "past" persrpective and lump everything together irregardless of the time of each post. But today cannot come before yesterday, u should know that. Ppl reminisce about their past is always easy, hindsight is after all 20/20 but taht is for yr own experience. I tell u why there are such great disgreements, up to u to accept it. Because we see things from different perspectives, start with different scenarios and heck probably have different targets as well.

Forgot this one. Very impt. My ten thousand apologies, MR Suteerak

[suteerak1099]

pond or no pond, same or different, fish or no fish... its same yet different in some sense. many kinds of fishes thrive in the pond, just as the many variable types/breeds of luohan(my gal's fav)/arowana/ranchu swimming in the tanks. sparks fly n chemistry burn without warning or signs...if u click u just click. from empathy to understanding, to compassion, to infatuation, to liking, to "luv"/true love. kc trap or none, its all subject to the individuals.

relationship like wine, requires time & conditioning to mature & become that prized/priced wine. those impatient n goes stiring it gets no wine but in stead: VINEGAR!!!, if fortunate its nevertheless still fragrant balsamic - gd for the digestive system, if unfortunate...its acidic enough to unchoke the sanitary piping systems in our homes/strip paint with ease as if peeling a banana. we tend to seek assurance time n again... so much so that it pisses the other party off. gets on the other's nerves n hence things backfire. lifespan of a slow cooker when voltage is upped to become a deep fryer... cant expect the poor thing to last as long as it was built to be.

a slow walk through the rose garden gives u the hollistic pleasures of sight smell & emotional experiences. bt if 1 choose to bash... then too bad..can only end up looking like a prison escapee. 1 wrong move erases all the right moves prior to it, 1 wrong move strips a man of all hardearned credibility & merits, 1 wrong move incurs great losses of invested time & effort, 1 wrong move can condemn 1 to the deepest abyss - combust like a kerosene drenched charcoal - hotter than the furnace temperature of the incinerator.

nudge is good to have, push is occassionally needed... bt when puch becomes shove...too bad so sad "jia kin long pua wa"(in hokkien: eat too fast end up break the bowl)

at the end of the day, its nt the WL who's to be blamed. its the fool who makes poor judgements, makes poor evaluations, lack the much needed patience, test the bridge b4 the construction is remotely near complete.

my most sincere regards to those who're in the TRCR/LDTR: rush u must not, and the results u'll see. doesnt matter if she's WL/FL, 2yrs of their lives just as we've burnt in NS, nothing more than just a passing phase. the past matters not, the present to ignite.. the future to strive for. put the objective in mind, regardless who it may be...pave the path u wanna walk, n walk u shall towards that common goal in mind. enjoy the journey while u're at it, slow down, stop to smell the roses if u must...n dont forget to carry on.

in my own words: "if she's become the reason for u to be the better man, its only fair for u to be the reason for her to be a better woman too. be the prospect, be the reason, be the gd man that she'd be a fool to reject"

let this be known: the woman's heart is not a medal/badge/trophy for 1 to boast & celebrate with, n then stored away for dust to settle, for moss to thrive & maggots to feast. it deserves all the TLC that wat we men (regardless sad fucks or not) crave & desire.

give the respect that is due.. after all is said & done.. u'll receive many folds in return.

[critic]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

my most sincere regards to those who're in the TRCR/LDTR: rush u must not, and the results u'll see. doesnt matter if she's WL/FL, 2yrs of their lives just as we've burnt in NS, nothing more than just a passing phase. the past matters not, the present to ignite.. the future to strive for. put the objective in mind, regardless who it may be...pave the path u wanna walk, n walk u shall towards that common goal in mind. enjoy the journey while u're at it, slow down, stop to smell the roses if u must...n dont forget to carry on.
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You are equating 2 yrs of NS with 2 yrs of WL/FL in Singapore?

Think it's time MINDEF and the relevant authorities be notified about this post and to see for themselves what the aspirations of our new generation are.

critic

BTW, it's 2.5 yrs for Officers... keke

[critic]

Originally Posted by free

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Sigh, let's not pollute this thread anymore. My thousand apologies, MR Suteerak

Pls don't stop your posting. It's a good resource for studying character behavior and what not to do.

critic

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by critic

You are equating 2 yrs of NS with 2 yrs of WL/FL in Singapore?

Think it's time MINDEF and the relevant authorities be notified about this post and to see for themselves what the aspirations of our new generation are.

critic

BTW, it's 2.5 yrs for Officers... keke

critic,
something i missed out though...
2 yrs of NS = underpaid bengladesh
2 yrs of WL/FL = very well paid with lotsa cash.

will singapore ever go to war?? is there reason for others to rage war against singapore..? y the need to splurge so much on military defense when wven our CDF never had any war experience?? give another 5-10yrs, the econs around us & the prospects of neighboring countires suffice to shut us singaporeans up for gd.

for now, we've plenty of WL/FL coming from neighboring lands to come make a living, i guarantee u if things dont buck up...in another decade or so.. our SGs will be the ones in the flesh trade in neighboring lands.

loyalty to country, leadership, discipline, professionalism, fighting spirit, ethics & care for soldier... think about it..7 core value for wat?? heighten soldier morale?? sorry man.. its all but just a hoax to earn ISO 9000/9001. all that big hooha about total defense.. haha big fat joke. we're all born of migrant blood n bleed migrant blood. there's constant replenishing of new breed migrants every yr. so wat truly is SG's identity??

its always been, it still is & will forever be... as the the founder (Sir Stamford Raffles 1st predicted: this will make a gd transit point... and it has since been, no more no less than just a transit pt in the malay archipelaego

[free]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

in my own words:
"if she's become the reason for u to be the better man, its only fair for u to be the reason for her to be a better woman too. be the prospect, be the reason, be the gd man that she'd be a fool to reject"
:
...it deserves all the TLC that wat we men (regardless sad fucks or not) crave & desire.
:
give the respect that is due.. after all is said & done.. u'll receive many folds in return.

I cannot agree more. If one/Love is THE REASON for the gal to change, amazing things can happen. I have seen it for myself, not just in my own case, but also in several others. I too have become a better person in many ways for her. I therefore give this r/s the respect and care it deserves.

If a TG can sacrifice herself for the one she loves (let not judge whether that choice is right or wrong here), how much more will she sacrifice and change for the one whom she knows truly loves her!

Spoke to a couple of Thai women (20-31 yrs) who have foreigner bfs themselves (and with whom I have since become good friends) about the changes my tirak has made (& her past) in her life and habits, they tell me it is cos she truly loves me and they, themselves will too go great extents for the guy they truly loves, and some have done so. Even frrom those who had initially despise others who had done this "work". I have since learnt to expect that from a TG who loves a guy who deserves her love.

• Those who have experienced it, will truly know what that means.
• Those who have not, do look for it (and expect it - but dun ask for then impossible lah).
• For those who reject the possibility that the TG (whatever her past) can indeed change, they will never know what they are missing

[free]

Originally Posted by critic

You are equating 2 yrs of NS with 2 yrs of WL/FL in Singapore?

Think it's time MINDEF and the relevant authorities be notified about this post and to see for themselves what the aspirations of our new generation are.

critic

BTW, it's 2.5 yrs for Officers... keke

He is only using it as a comparison in terms of length of time. Won't call that equating. Multiple ways to interprete that statement, my dear. Your is probably not what the author meant. Do open ur mind a bit bigger and ask a but more - "what else could he be trying to say? Other than the 1st impression I had?"

Then u can be a better Critique

That u had to sneak in that 2.5 years tells us something... is that even relevant to the author's point? Hmm .....


Dun misunderstand me, I dun hate SG (though it does not mean I must aspire to make my home here). I serve my 2.5 yrs with pride and tell every frightened parent I know that NS can good for their boys. But I do detest the many in SAF who go around pushing their weight cos they are more senior, got higher ranks, even when they actually dun have so much liao. Yet there are those who deserved all my respect and more. We got both kinds in SBF too.

[critic]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

critic,
something i missed out though...
2 yrs of NS = underpaid bengladesh
2 yrs of WL/FL = very well paid with lotsa cash.
...

Care to read my post again?

And pls summarise your thought(s) and/or argument(s). They need a bit of touch up to be coherent.

critic

[free]

Originally Posted by ruhua_

All sad fucks please take note if you want to find tirak in Geylang.

Ruhua_,
cannot miss out this very important qualifying statement hor. Provided we learn from our mistakes of course!

Haha for a moment I tot u were the original Ruhua. Yikes the copycat is back! Tsk Tsk. SF indeed. Spend (22+?) yrs on earth and on only learn how to copy? Dun lidat lah. U can do better things than this. I am sure u can. Really! Dun take this statement in a negative way, please.

[critic]

Originally Posted by free

...
That u had to sneak in that 2.5 years tells us something... is that even relevant to the author's point? Hmm .....

Sorry... what is the author's point(s)?

critic

ps.. why are you so uptight and defensive?

[critic]

Originally Posted by ruhua_

they are in the same fag (oops!) I mean tag team.
just look at their writing style, almost identical. even their thinking!

What's new?

critic

[free]

Originally Posted by ruhua_

they are in the same fag (oops!) I mean tag team.
just look at their writing style, almost identical. even their thinking!

Haha, the answer is simple. Cos u dun even know us! maybe like u, we are clones!

Well in reality we are friends, but we are rather different, kekeke. And guess what, we do argue with each other! Have fun thinking... if u can at all