woes of a tirak

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

...being prepared is never gd enough, being prepared to react/remedy/improve the situations is the key....

its no pt sitting around n asking 1self the issues n queries that 1 can never imagine/realize/understand. doing wat it takes to ensure that things never have to resort to remedy is probably 1 of the better solutions. prevention is always better than cure.

in other words, no pt begging/borrowing tonnes of $ for medical expenses when dooms day arrives, when it should've been religious desposits into the savings that makes helps buffer the suffering when that fateful day arrives.

also, should wat u've been depositing in should suffer the same fate as teh barrings bank, then i suppose its just too bad that 1 has been to complacent n contented with the down trend. there's no telling wat the future holds, its how 1 strives to carve n make that mirage a reality. to find that oasis, to dig that well n to sustain in comfort for the days to come.

i see a bet a sidebet ongoing for the results of my sucess/failure. seems to me the bookie's not too honest about the odds. so punters beware.

[machoman]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

i see a bet a sidebet ongoing for the results of my sucess/failure. seems to me the bookie's not too honest about the odds. so punters beware.

suteerak1099,I have been following your thread on and off for some time.

It takes great courage to do what you are doing. Just hoping that you are making the right decision and want to wish you all the best in the path you are walking.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by machoman

suteerak1099,I have been following your thread on and off for some time.

It takes great courage to do what you are doing. Just hoping that you are making the right decision and want to wish you all the best in the path you are walking.

machoman, thanx very much for the support. i never knew i got fans in here... very honored to have ur post in here, kudos mate~!
keeping my fingers crossed hoping that: heaven wont foresake the virtuous heart...

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

machoman, thanx very much for the support. i never knew i got fans in here... very honored to have ur post in here, kudos mate~!
keeping my fingers crossed hoping that: heaven wont foresake the virtuous heart...

I mean we are talking about practical issues. Not the "heaven won't foresake the virtuous heart". You have been talking about hard work, determination, etc, and now you are hoping heaven won't foresake the virtuous heart?

Kwarm Wung
SC

[zunbo]

Today so happy... get to go GL to walk walk and get to see my reg from outside... Kinda different feeling from what i used to have. Now more looking forward to spend real time with her when she ORD...

[Hakoshu]

Is it bro???? Settled everything??

Originally Posted by zunbo

Today so happy... get to go GL to walk walk and get to see my reg from outside... Kinda different feeling from what i used to have. Now more looking forward to spend real time with her when she ORD...

[zunbo]

Originally Posted by Hakoshu

Is it bro???? Settled everything??

Nope.... me now very chin chey.... liao.... Just looking forward to her ORD and see how things go....will be reconfirming with her when she leaving her hse... then want to bring her around.

[Hakoshu]

Glad to hear tat bro..... I was in GL also, y didn't call me??

Originally Posted by zunbo

Nope.... me now very chin chey.... liao.... .

[zunbo]

Originally Posted by Hakoshu

Glad to hear tat bro..... I was in GL also, y didn't call me??

Serious!!! I was at E8.... So u know who is there lar... hehehhehe. Next outing... Okie.

[Hakoshu]

I know..... The usual gang lo..... NEver inform me hor..... SWEE@!!!!

Originally Posted by zunbo

Serious!!! I was at E8.... So u know who is there lar... hehehhehe. Next outing... Okie.

[zunbo]

Originally Posted by Hakoshu

I know..... The usual gang lo..... NEver inform me hor..... SWEE@!!!!

Relaz lar.... i was at Esplanade watching the Beautiful Boxer ( Nong Toom) The real person.... Then they SMS for Kopi...

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

I mean we are talking about practical issues. Not the "heaven won't foresake the virtuous heart". You have been talking about hard work, determination, etc, and now you are hoping heaven won't foresake the virtuous heart?

Kwarm Wung
SC

SC, no disrespect for your comment. i understand you mean well. but i think we also gotta be rationale about things too. relationships that last for yrs can end up fruitless, marriages for ages can also dissolve in divorce, diligent employee can also be retrenched when the time comes.

so regardless the umpteen effrorts, the consistancy of faith, love & passion. there's no telling when 1 can experience a turn of event. reason y punters continue to queue up religiously wkend after wkend at the singaporepools outlets, is just as how 1 should work towards achieving the best in a tirakship, even more so in any other given relationships.

i admit that i'm a sucker for love n i dont think there's hardly anything thats' gonna change my perspective/approach towards the maintainance/upkeep for love. regardless of the outcome...at the end of the day, there's 1001 reasons for 1 to move on (despite the fond memories), 1001 reasons for 1 to be persistant (to continue touching the heart of the 1 of interest), 1001 reasons for 1 to give up completely n resign to abstainence (never to attempt another venture on relationships)... or bask in the blessings of bliss

regardless of all human efforts/diligence & persistance... there still needs a tiny spectrum of hope/dream. your concern is greatly appreciated, i cant say for certain that i can prove any1 right or wrong, bt at the end of the day... wat matters most is if i've achieved wat i set out to pursue.

kudos to all who've lent me the moral supports, showered me w the concerns, more importantly.. shared their opinions & citations of testimonials-be is success or failure. please keep the posts coming in...

korb kun mak krup~
suteerak1099

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by Hakoshu

I know..... The usual gang lo..... NEver inform me hor..... SWEE@!!!!

lol~~!! hako... still dare to say ah? wat u doing there alone? sign extra duty/do voluntary guard duty outside ur reg's hse/FL as OKT? go there alone.. sigh.. should've comms us to check strength la~

c'mon, out with it.. spit the truth.. wat was the agenda? wat's the progress status?

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by zunbo

Today so happy... get to go GL to walk walk and get to see my reg from outside... Kinda different feeling from what i used to have. Now more looking forward to spend real time with her when she ORD...

bro, am happy that u're taking things easy n slowly now.. least u letting nature take its own course.. i think giving her the space also allows her to reconsider wat u've presented.

take heart bro..heores die young.. but gd man outlast~~~~

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

SC, no disrespect for your comment. i understand you mean well. but i think we also gotta be rationale about things too. relationships that last for yrs can end up fruitless, marriages for ages can also dissolve in divorce, diligent employee can also be retrenched when the time comes.

so regardless the umpteen effrorts, the consistancy of faith, love & passion. there's no telling when 1 can experience a turn of event. reason y punters continue to queue up religiously wkend after wkend at the singaporepools outlets, is just as how 1 should work towards achieving the best in a tirakship, even more so in any other given relationships.

regardless of all human efforts/diligence & persistance... there still needs a tiny spectrum of hope/dream. your concern is greatly appreciated, i cant say for certain that i can prove any1 right or wrong, bt at the end of the day... wat matters most is if i've achieved wat i set out to pursue.

I hope(kwarm wung) that you understand the point that being practical and rationale in your decisions mean there is no room for hopes/dreams. Hopes and dreams can spur/drive a person to go on. But hopes/dreams can also break the person. Because with hope, you get expectations. The higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment when things don't go the way we want it to happen. Leave it to the hands and actions of ownself without thinking whether heaven will be with the virtuous heart or forsake it.

SC