Gers Are Still Gers

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by Rof|maoxz

Need you guys' perspective on the below Qs.

(qns truncated)

Rdgs

With regards to ur qns,

1) Girl already found a more suitable guy. ie, rich, handsome, got career or any combination of the 3 mentioned. There was no need for her to bug the .... loser. sigh....

2) Its a rat race out there. For the girls of humble background to escape this rat, they can only marry up, but not marry down or marry laterally. Marrying down or laterally will mean that they have to continue to participate in the senseless rat race.

No. They are not even 1% virgin enough to demand for 5Cs. I rather buy a wife from Vietnam, if I have to settle down....

3) Huge egos? I'm not sure. But, a lot them aspire to have huge frontal melons.

4) The life of a woman must be one filled with romantic excitements and dramas. While, the life of a man is only complete, after he had lived out his life as a playful child.

Girls can only be egoistic because, somewhere along the line, some rich kid or ang mo spoil market by accepting such feminine egoism.

5) When girl labels guy as "jerk", it means that she realised that the guy is a serious a$$hole, after umpteen warnings by her pals.

6) Its not shameful for girls to hook up with guys earning 1-1.6k. But, it means that the girls have to work harder to sustain their artificially elevated standard of living and spendthrift ways.

A girl whom I heard of used to lament about not having enough money and need to do moonlighting. But, when she complained about not having sufficient cash for a new pair of shoes ...... I can only conclude that materialism hits females everywhere.

7) Girl having career and degree? Don't care. So long as she can respect you as a man and a head of the house.

8) Equal rights? Ask the girls to carry rifle one month every year. Bosses will complain too.

[Rof|maoxz]

Tks you guys for your valuable viewpoint. This shows that the girls, although are becoming more educated but still need they are still very heavily depended on their partners. From outside the wives/gerfrds will say they give their partners the liberty to make choices. But in actual fact it's not. Any wrong decision will be condemn upon. Life for men is very tough.

[t123]

The other nite, I finally exploded like a volcano. She kept saying that she doesn't believe. I told me straight upfront that if I didn't have any feelings for her, I wouldn't buy that i-pod she briefly mentioned. I just didn't went in as blunt as like telling her if I want a fuck, I wouldn't spend the time and money to download the mp3 songs she wanted into that i-pod and wrap it till she returned from Australia. I may not be a rich fucker but I did everything out of my heart. That nite I kanna dig abt past relationship and given that I really love her and told her everything, she still not convinced. sianz. Kanna dif plus occasional prick by doubtful needles, I snap. till now she has not spoken to me.

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by Rof|maoxz

Tks you guys for your valuable viewpoint. This shows that the girls, although are becoming more educated but still need they are still very heavily depended on their partners. From outside the wives/gerfrds will say they give their partners the liberty to make choices. But in actual fact it's not. Any wrong decision will be condemn upon. Life for men is very tough.

Tough? Very the tough.....

Like Bro T123, I also met a screwed up girl. Sigh.... Everything like "ai mai". Everytime, give me the impression she likes me. But, some of the things she does will always make me wonder whether she knows what she wants

Take for example clubbing, although she doesn't do it often. She told me that certain clubs which she likes to patronise have a lot of sleaze and, because of an unpleasant encounter, she stopped going.

Then, few days later, she still can say that she wants to go clubbing, cos' can dance and got music. Women are plain fickle minded. One day ok, but next day like just got out of woodbridge.

"Nu ren ru huo shui" ie, women are like trouble.

[sibaysianz]

wah lao eh... u all write until singapore women yi wen bu zhi leh... maybe your expectations too high liao... there are nice girls out there who willing to be the xiao nu ren and have babies and all...but then leh the men dun even wanna give them a second look cos maybe they are too plain and dun know how to present themselves nicely...

[red-perrier]

my responses are colored dark red

Originally Posted by Rof|maoxz

Need you guys' perspective on the below Qs.

An open questionnaire:

1) For example, if a guy gets to know a girl and it turns out smoothly, having good times, exchanging massages , calls and all and suddenly the girl ignore the guy's massages and calls... why the girl choose to ignore the guy?

p.s: typo error bro."messages" not massages(massages can get at spa/HC)
the ger enjoy to hang up to sell, thinking she's worth the chase & if she's so easy to relent, it cheapens her value. at least this is what more SGs think.

2) Why are girls so demanding and materialistic? Why do they look for 5Cs? Are they virgin enough to demand all that?

they feel that their education/social standings is worth that much, all the time expecting all the 5Cs or more, bt they failed to pee n reflect upon themselves as to how much they offer in a relationship, other than comliance to the bonking, in which the man does most of the work/sweating.

3) Why some girls have huge egos? And what are their reasons for them being egoistic?

its their upbringing since the late 70s-80s, cos the folks drill the mentality into them that if they dont study hard, dont get degree etc...she cant marry to a good man (FYI: good man = rish man in this context)

4) Why do girls like to date bad guys? When the girls got "muay" by the them, they complained that it's hard to trust guys la, guys assholes la, wat la...

either the guy did a good job tearing her hymen so bad, that she its now unforgetable...or the guy was a complete disgrace to manhood, n she didnt enjoy it at all.

5) When a girl labels a guy a jerk, what does she mean by that?

basically in their vocab, jerk = man who has a mind of his own & refuse to give in to her shopping requests despite all the whining & pyning. or a man who's too practical and unromantic(financially), bcos he never buys anything to woo or pamper her or make her feel she's on the top of the world

6) Is it so shameful for girls to hook up with guys who earn between $1000- $1600/mth?

not shameful, but utterly disappointing bcos they go out have to go dutch, have to eat at kopitiam/hawkers/food court, cant go partying (gers go FOC, guys pay and pay), cant afford to take cab home have to take NR bus, vday-others get big bouquet-while she gets just 1 miserable dying stalk form the street stalls, let alone splurging on extravagant gifts

7) Is it necessary for girls to get a degree and above?

during the post war days & industrial revolution, yes it was crucial to the economy. now... they're irrelevant, especially for those who aspire to be married & lead the comfrotable lives of tai tai. doesnt require a degree to know how to go shopping/visit the manicure/play mahjong.

these days, despite the hype for gender equality etc, they still pale in comparison to guys when it comes to having the killer instincts to be entreprenuers etc, they lack the leadership & lateral vs linear thinking process that a man possess. at the end of the day, they're overpaid deskbound data-entry assistance who'd be bitching about their lives w other female colleagues if they've nothing on hand to do.

8.) Is it necessary for girls to have equal rights as guys?

what equal rights? they've already self-assumed the higher rights. basically bcos the man's didi erect & look up to their 2 neh neh when both r naked b4 each other lol

Rdgs

[singexpat]

Originally Posted by t123

The other nite, I finally exploded like a volcano.

Bro, u got a gf oreadi?? sorry but i'm rather outdated..

all e best man!! ti gong po pi u!!

[ChinaAlleWay]

Originally Posted by red-perrier

my responses are colored dark red what equal rights? they've already self-assumed the higher rights. basically bcos the man's didi erect & look up to their 2 neh neh when both r naked b4 each other lol

i like this one !!
hahahaha..... damn.... how true sometimes !
ok im not dishing out on the local gals...
some are angels whereas some totally forking e spoon outta their bloody mouths !~!!!!

Have u guys encounter when buying gifts for e gals and she doesn't even appreciated it..
Not even a word of thanks….
Come to think of that, its kinda silly too….

And now im learning e ways of “1000000 ways to laid a women” ! haha

[Rof|maoxz]

Originally Posted by sibaysianz

wah lao eh... u all write until singapore women yi wen bu zhi leh... maybe your expectations too high liao... there are nice girls out there who willing to be the xiao nu ren and have babies and all...but then leh the men dun even wanna give them a second look cos maybe they are too plain and dun know how to present themselves nicely...

Sorry sista, it's the other way round. If not, SGP men will have problem finding partners liao. At least they tried to attempte to find alternatives like overseas wives etc. What about SGP women? Complain publicly that why SGP men find women who is not of their origin, and doubt their lifelong overseas marriage will last. SGP men are not confident enough blar blar....They should reflect it upon themselves. I not asking SGP women to lower their expectations, but at least be practical.

I can tell you it's factual that SGP dun dress well. Other den spaghetti tops, they are seen almost everywhere. Just look at the neighbouring countries. How they dress will make them shame.

[t123]

Originally Posted by sibaysianz

there are nice girls out there who willing to be the xiao nu ren and have babies and all...but then leh the men dun even wanna give them a second look cos maybe they are too plain and dun know how to present themselves nicely...

I tell you what, when I find one, I stopped GL and other TN activities, kum boh. Wah lan eh, sometimes, when we devote all our time to the char bo they treated us like its a god given grant. I told her, if I dun like her, I will neber be so fucking upfront and tell her I really like her. I even told her that I download her pic so that even though I dun see her everyday, I can still at least look at her or when I am doing my work her pic becomes a screensaver and watchover me.

Still not satisfied, I dun even mind her not wearing skirt when we date. Come on, there's always a limit to giving in. Come to think of it, I wouldn't spend $400+ to buy the mimi-ipod and in her favourite color. I stop short of telling her that $400 I can stay in Lor 18 houses for 400 mins, imagine I can fuck until I pass out. Put money aside, if I just want a good shag from her, I might as well get it from a nymp than her because its easy.

But, the bottom line is, I love her too much to have that sexual thoughts or intention towards her. Dun tell me have to make it like HK drama or Jap drama like uncle me kanna cancer or got overseas job assignment I have to die or leave, then she start to realise that the only guy who really loves her is me.

I have neber at all times tell her to wise up her dressing, I accept full package, meaning she is who she is. The reason why we date or know each other in the 1st place must have some sort of mystery in the making. I told her that there maybe other suitors but some how no matter how fucking ugly or out of this world my looks are, I have to try and fight what I believe. She is my last attempt at singaporean gals, if this door closes on me, I will be single for the rest of my life. I dun want 10 years down the road, when I am 40, while I am going to GL for the Cat 40 Thais, I begin to ask myself the question why I never try.

Bottom line:
I want her, I want to try, because she is who she is, its worth my time and money. Because she gets me excited when we date and she makes me feel relax when we are together.

[t123]

Originally Posted by sibaysianz

women yi wen bu zhi leh... maybe your expectations too high liao... there are nice girls out there who willing to be the xiao nu ren and have babies and all...but then leh the men dun even wanna give them a second look cos maybe they are too plain and dun know how to present themselves nicely...

不是一文不值，是她们故意贬值。handle their value like rmb pegging with the USD. That goes for all the SPGs in Singapore. 不是每只洋枪都大只。

[red-perrier]

i mean no disrespect for local SGs, there r some out there who r truly going into extinction liao. sad to say, the peer pressure around them, the things their gerfrens can/would say n tell them about things they do to their bfs/hubby etc. inevitably may influence/cause the nice angel to morph & join them in the dark side.

not say alota SGs aspire to live the life of a 太太/黄脸婆, but its the things they expect their man to do for them that really makes things discouraging. gers these days r fast becoming critical about what their man do for them, without realizing that they've been receiving and havent met up to the standards(prefer to term it "dble standards") they set for their man.

sometimes, there's also alota sublimal/hidden pre-requisites for the guy to meet, prior to even going out on dates. nevertheless, also subject to how many material Cs (ie: cash, career, car, credit card(S) etc) & personality Cs (ie: charm, charisma, compatibility, caring, considerate, compationate etc) that determines if she's gonna go out again w the guy.

some of whom that possess those qualities r men of slightly senior age(so they complain of generation gap), except for the lucky few that strike it big at a tender age(which is a rare case). or if not then its probably the spoilt brats born with a golden pacifier in their mouth(natural born virgin-killers), that go about on their casanova thrills. in turn the gers start to generalise that all men are bastards - only know how to toy w gers feelings.

in short.. its just sad...

[sibaysianz]

Originally Posted by Rof|maoxz

Sorry sista, it's the other way round. If not, SGP men will have problem finding partners liao. At least they tried to attempte to find alternatives like overseas wives etc. What about SGP women? Complain publicly that why SGP men find women who is not of their origin, and doubt their lifelong overseas marriage will last. SGP men are not confident enough blar blar....They should reflect it upon themselves. I not asking SGP women to lower their expectations, but at least be practical.

I know what you are trying to say but in Singapore the women are more educated and hence have more "say" these days... so bo pian mah...it's the culture wat...but then dun you find it lucky that men can go overseas looking for wives when they cannot find any here? What about those highly-educated women who will someday realise that they are very lonely? They cannot go and buy overseas husband wat... so take it that life is fair wan lah...

Originally Posted by Rof|maoxz

I can tell you it's factual that SGP dun dress well. Other den spaghetti tops, they are seen almost everywhere. Just look at the neighbouring countries. How they dress will make them shame

I know it's a fact... especially when u go korea and japan. when I go there I oso tio stunned I usually quite hiau liao but cannot be bothered with hair and accessories but when I see those girls on the street I oso kenna motivated to really dress myself up it lasted for 2 weeks when I got back SG but buay tahan leh... every time before go out u know how much time u need to spend or not..

Anyway do you also admit that singaporean men in general are about the least romantic in the world (they are also not caring, insensitive, egoistic blah blah blah haha let me have a chance to release lah) ...maybe when they are chasing the gers they have a lot of ideas but once hook up liao...no more liao...marriage die off also cos of that wat the feeling before marriage and after marriage totally different but I am not saying it's all because of the men lah women also at fault ok.. I very fair wan...

[sibaysianz]

Originally Posted by t123

Bottom line:
I want her, I want to try, because she is who she is, its worth my time and money. Because she gets me excited when we date and she makes me feel relax when we are together.

bro, wat I gather frm yr case leh is yr ger either playing hard to get or she seriously considering you....BUT amongst other men that chasing her oso lah... why not u reverse psychology a bit mai so gan cheong her mah, show signs of giving her up...if you play the game rite you might win the day but hor if she really very the chio type leh unless she really really like you most probably u end up losing her lor... den dun come look for me hor give advise nah no guarantee wan hahaha

[sibaysianz]

Originally Posted by t123

不是每只洋枪都大只。

but da duo shu dou shi leh hehehe