Afterall, its just to release

Haha, you are right ..

[shinn_asuka]

Originally Posted by m0n3ym1nd$$$

its not WHAT you release......its HOW you release.

Absolutely agree with bro m0n3ym1nd$$$. What you release is naturally a given...how you release is the ultimate mission!

[kenneth21]

Originally Posted by paul^bibi^baby

EtherC senior bro, i got to make a trip down there, to Playboy Mansion ~!


Bro u have to brainstorm a bit on wat u wan. I'm a bit confused. U mentioned that it's just to release, but again u are also looking for GFE, and on top of tat u have a girl whom u sex regularly ? but anyways no offense, jus offering my humble 2 cents here. I got to say ur life quite power, at least to me. I'm a single who doesn't wan to settle down yet btw.

Cheers,
Paul

Bro, although have regular sex, but still need different flavour. Everyday eat hor fun also will sian 1 wat, so muz have change to it. i kinda got used to gfe already, really seems weird to just poke and release which i always do, thats why i said its jsut a release. Probably i just want to bonk a very chio face. Even if service so so i'm ok. as long as chio

[bizoi]

Originally Posted by kenneth21

Bro, although have regular sex, but still need different flavour. Everyday eat hor fun also will sian 1 wat, so muz have change to it. i kinda got used to gfe already, really seems weird to just poke and release which i always do, thats why i said its jsut a release. Probably i just want to bonk a very chio face. Even if service so so i'm ok. as long as chio

how abt the gal dun hv look...also different what

[Xena]

Actually once you have tried out different dishes you will realised that all dishes are different ... it might be same foreplay and then penetration but the feelings is totally different .. so for me, always like small kid waiting to get my hands on the lolly pop ... whenever I going to bonk a ger first time.

[m0n3ym1nd$$$]

Originally Posted by Xena

Actually once you have tried out different dishes you will realised that all dishes are different ... it might be same foreplay and then penetration but the feelings is totally different .. so for me, always like small kid waiting to get my hands on the lolly pop ... whenever I going to bonk a ger first time.

haha! a small kid getting a lollipop... first lollipop, he is excited. second lollipop, he want a diferent colour lollipop.

when give him so many lollipops in future, he don't like anymore...

[Poker-Face]

Originally Posted by m0n3ym1nd$$$

haha! a small kid getting a lollipop... first lollipop, he is excited. second lollipop, he want a diferent colour lollipop.

when give him so many lollipops in future, he don't like anymore...

Hahaha if only sex were like getting lollipops.

[czj11]

Been following this thread with interest.

I guess I fall into the category of the "nice" type who finally snaps ...

In short, I've joined the dark side - after years of being your classic goody two shoes. I have no apologies or excuses. I don't feel guilty, I don't feel sad.

Last week, I booked a session with a FL. Don't know what was the exact trigger - any number of things, I guess. Maybe it was the easy access through the internet, maybe work and home stress.

I had thought about doing it many times in the past 10 years (I've been a member of SBF for that long, read it occasionally and had always gotten a vicarious thrill out of reading the FRs). However, I never got around to it because it was too much trouble going all the way down to GL, plus I was younger, just starting out in my career then and didn't have much $$. Also, I was quite idealistic in my younger days - looking for real love. I told myself that I would never pay for it.

Now - I've been around the block a few times now. Seen 3 market downturns (and staring down a fourth), married with a kid, seen my friends get divorced, seen nasty office politics, had knock-down drag out fights with my wife, made up ...

It finally dawned on me that I could well afford it now - so I did.

Yeah, I found it enjoyable. The FL I went with was extremely skilled with her BJ skill and above average in looks.

Yeah, I will probably do it again. However, I don't feel any sense of emptiness.

I just feel relieved that I've finally managed to scratch an itch. That together with the feeling of "Oh, so that's it? What's the big deal anyway?"

It's just like PCC except that the magazine or DVD is in real life, in front of you. And you have full tactile feedback. It's like I've been given full rein to act out all my sexual fantasies.

Only time will tell if I will proceed further down the dark path - from what I've read, the next thing will be that I'll get tired of FL because there's no emotion. Hence, I'll seek out KTV girls for the thrill of the hunt, then I might get sucked into an exploitative relationship with a money-grubbing Thai whore or PRC. Either that or I'll start having affairs.

Currently, I don't see that happening. However, I would never be so foolish or arrogant to say that I am above it all or that it'll never happen to me.

However, at the moment, I'm just a greedy, horny b*st**d who's finally been unleashed.

No moralizing, no existential angst from me. I'll do it again when I get the urge.

[Graffiti]

Originally Posted by dirtyol'man

most guy's intention is to release.....
there are some who want to find TRUE LOVE!?!?

but but..................

how many actually found it?

even if you found it, can you handle it?

[PeteTsang69]

Originally Posted by czj11

Only time will tell if I will proceed further down the dark path -.

thanks for sharing your story . . i am not alone then . .

let me rant a bit . . .i do believe in life that MASLOW'S Heirarchy of Needs is applicable to me in my "new phase" sexual life . . .

Maslow has 5 Hierarchies . . .Physiological, Safety, Love/Belonging, Esteem & Self-Actualisation . . .those inclined do a wiki . .

You . .me . .we . .all . .will find what we have a need at that point in time in our lives, BUT once satisfied we discover NEW needs. . .

first, it was an unbearable spot itch that needed to be scratched for the last 4 years . . finding that it was easy to relief the itch . .u discover that u have more itches, but less itchy than that "4 year one" . . .besides scratches, u discover "massage" . . "head massage" . . .facial . . .1 hour spa treatment . . .whole day treatment. . .etc etc etc

Life really is a Hierachy of needs . . . look at Gates, once u have it ain't enough, he's retired to do his bit to save the world (Self-Actualisation)

Our egos prevents us from being satisfied with what we have . . but here's an old truth that may save some of us . . . "to be happy, its more important to want what you have than to have what you want". . (sadly, this ofcourse does not apply to an OC who is not interested in sex) . . .

but i still strongly believe its BEST to start each day/task with "An Attitude of Gratitude" . . (think abt it, seriously, if she ain't that way, we would not have discovered new wonderful ways to relieve those damn itches!!! )

.

[Bambie]

Hmmm wa ... quite chim leh

[Braveheart Lion]

And all along I thought it was just about love! Love making that is!!!!

[Poker-Face]

Originally Posted by czj11

Been following this thread with interest.

I guess I fall into the category of the "nice" type who finally snaps ...

In short, I've joined the dark side - after years of being your classic goody two shoes. I have no apologies or excuses. I don't feel guilty, I don't feel sad.

No moralizing, no existential angst from me. I'll do it again when I get the urge.

Welcome to the darkside. It's more fun! Especially now when we got the financials to enjoy!

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by czj11

I guess I fall into the category of the "nice" type who finally snaps ...

:

No moralizing, no existential angst from me. I'll do it again when I get the urge.

Man, I really like your post
Strike many similar cords with me.

Wanted to upz u, but post older than 3 days.

[nbzz]

Haha quite true on that ... just people dont say nia or admit