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Matters of the Heart. Has a Commercial Fuck turned into a torrid Love Affair which has turned your life upside down? Fear not. We have experts here who can help you through your roller coaster ride. Tell us your story and we'll do our best to help.

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Old 19-06-2012, 11:52 PM
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Re: Need help in moving on

Take a flight go Macau Twr Buggy jump .... ....

Did that before and you LIVE again 1 new LIFE
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Old 21-06-2012, 04:23 PM
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Old 21-06-2012, 05:55 PM
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Re: Need help in moving on

Gent! Mandarin songs help to push further leftover feelings out for me too!
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Old 21-06-2012, 09:17 PM
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Re: Need help in moving on

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Gent! Mandarin songs help to push further leftover feelings out for me too!
This song help me too...

She had chosen him so I wish her well and happy... hope he can give her a better life...

We r all humans, we will still feel sad and tear for the one u love. Think positive and be strong cos life is not only about love...

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Old 22-06-2012, 02:32 PM
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Re: Need help in moving on

totally agree with bro tiny cork, must move on liao.
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Old 24-06-2012, 11:04 PM
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Re: Need help in moving on

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Some ppl may say it is a bit sadistic but it works for me.

I think most of the times, it is the memories and habits that will kill you.

1st, for example, u guys will msg each other and u will miss this. understand... So what I did was that I type all the long msgs that I want into a Word document (in iphone) as an outlet to express my thoughts and feelings (I really really miss that person ma so be honest, no point denying how u feel). But I DON'T send. I just keep it there. You will know you recover when you look at it after sometime and you don't feel like sending. Meanwhile, the damn doc will get longer and longer. It's ok..

2nd, there are many places and things that you did when together and this kind of memories is torturing also. For me, I purposely went to these places everytime I miss that person. It is torturing but I force myself to face it and of course telling myself that that person will not come back.

3rd- Give yourself a timespan. I gave myself 3-6mths to keep on typing those msgs, visiting those places which we went before and thinking about that person. There has to be a point of stopping. Some ppl here have said correctly. U need to think abt ur family, friends and urself. In actual fact, I took about 2 years to get over that person completely.

Ok, i have said a lot. I know most of these info are everywhere but they are heartfelt words. Hope it helps. As always, I stand corrected...
Errr can I contribute something? For me I need to log into my workstation at least 10 times a day (idle too long need to re login, go toilet need to log out. Come back login... You get the drift.)

I changed the password to, "idonotloveXXXXX", where of course XXXXX is the name of the woman who broke my heart. Well the power of repeated imprinting really kinda worked for me. Imagine everyday u type in that password 10x a day. Love also really become donotlove lah....
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Re: Need help in moving on

maybe find a better woman?
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Re: Need help in moving on

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This song help me too...

She had chosen him so I wish her well and happy... hope he can give her a better life...

We r all humans, we will still feel sad and tear for the one u love. Think positive and be strong cos life is not only about love...

2cents.
i agreed.

time will heals slowly. meanwhile, keep the heart open.
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Old 25-06-2012, 07:44 AM
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maybe find a better woman?
Haha. What is the 'definition' of a better woman?

Leave it to fate ba. If u r meant to be together, no matter what comes in between, u will be together... Just my opinion.

My definition of a better woman is the one I truly love...
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Old 25-06-2012, 12:51 PM
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Haha. What is the 'definition' of a better woman?

Leave it to fate ba. If u r meant to be together, no matter what comes in between, u will be together... Just my opinion.

My definition of a better woman is the one I truly love...
Very the 废话you.. Roll eyes*
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Old 25-06-2012, 01:07 PM
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Very the 废话you.. Roll eyes*
Lol.. 确实是废话,但发自内心。
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Old 25-06-2012, 01:12 PM
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Re: Need help in moving on

Find something else to keep your mind occupied.
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Old 25-06-2012, 05:00 PM
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Re: Need help in moving on

Hmmm... Distraction? Hello? Can you hear me? Where are you?? Heeeelllllloooooooo??
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Re: Need help in moving on

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NO, When it happens a few more times on you,
altho u dun really get over it,
u will GET USED TO IT

learned from my dearest

Awwwwww~~~~~~~so sweet
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Re: Need help in moving on

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YES I DO !!
Only YOURS .. !
I read your post with the most curiosity. I sense it's a hidden message within a message. Care to enlighten?????
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