Ever fall in love with a massage girl

[Penguin23]

Originally Posted by Jabba

We are attracted first by their physical beauty.That is how these ML does it.Some of the ML really do their eyebrows, dye their hair so that they can attract rich guys to support them.Behind this beauty lies all the shit that u need to clear.

To be fair most women outside nightlife also have lots of shit to clear. Mental issues, baggage from previous relationships, an unhappy childhood. Local girls especially have this entitled mentality, that just because they have a pussy so all the good things in life become their birthright.

The main difference, is that ladies of the night understand that as a woman they MUST be attractive. No matter how unattractive they may be at birth, they will do everything they can to afford surgery and learn the best make-up skills there is.

I admire the MLs more.

[Heartlandlover]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

To be fair most women outside nightlife also have lots of shit to clear. Mental issues, baggage from previous relationships, an unhappy childhood. Local girls especially have this entitled mentality, that just because they have a pussy so all the good things in life become their birthright.

The main difference, is that ladies of the night understand that as a woman they MUST be attractive. No matter how unattractive they may be at birth, they will do everything they can to afford surgery and learn the best make-up skills there is.

I admire the MLs more.

I believe its all tie to the service trade. Woman who wana earn money by servicing man must look good. Man who wana earn money by servicing woman must also look good. We humans are visual animal. Roar. Hahahaha.

Very horny today. I need a release.

[Jabba]

Their KC is very strong.Now still yielding to go look for her to release.But not going to be easy as she will want money in return.

[JonathanTk]

Definitely correct!

Originally Posted by Jabba

Their KC is very strong.Now still yielding to go look for her to release.But not going to be easy as she will want money in return.

[JonathanTk]

This is 放长线钓大鱼. “Don’t be a silly guy” this is only thing I can say to you

Originally Posted by nch08

Hi bros.. i just came across this thread recently and started reading backwards slowly as too many posts. Will appreciate if experienced bros can provide further advice on my case here.

ML and me started text chatting for about 1+ month on daily basis. Think about 3 weeks ago, we started video call for about 1-3 hours every night talking about anything (thinkings, past working experiences, future plans etc). She also shared her personal things like passport, home address, family photos/screenshots, home cctv monitoring etc). On her 2 rest days, we had went out together to some attractions, beach and cycling which 3/4 expenses paid by me and ML treated me to seafood dinner once. She also paid her major shopping items herself. I do not have pay anything more than the 3/4 outing expenses.

Despite the above and after reading the posts in this thread, I'm not sure if ML is faking and start to be cautious on this and I will not be providing any names here or dm.

Thanks much for advising

[JonathanTk]

This is what I have experienced already. Finally you’ll find that you kenna Kong Tao, you waste your time and money. I hope you don’t fall in this kc game.

If you fall in this game, I can foresee that you will post your bad story someday in this thread.

Originally Posted by nch08

Hi bros.. i just came across this thread recently and started reading backwards slowly as too many posts. Will appreciate if experienced bros can provide further advice on my case here.

ML and me started text chatting for about 1+ month on daily basis. Think about 3 weeks ago, we started video call for about 1-3 hours every night talking about anything (thinkings, past working experiences, future plans etc). She also shared her personal things like passport, home address, family photos/screenshots, home cctv monitoring etc). On her 2 rest days, we had went out together to some attractions, beach and cycling which 3/4 expenses paid by me and ML treated me to seafood dinner once. She also paid her major shopping items herself. I do not have pay anything more than the 3/4 outing expenses.

Despite the above and after reading the posts in this thread, I'm not sure if ML is faking and start to be cautious on this and I will not be providing any names here or dm.

Thanks much for advising

[JonathanTk]

I feel the ml you mentioned is very familiar. But it may be the common 套路 to those mls.

Originally Posted by nch08

Hi bros.. i just came across this thread recently and started reading backwards slowly as too many posts. Will appreciate if experienced bros can provide further advice on my case here.

ML and me started text chatting for about 1+ month on daily basis. Think about 3 weeks ago, we started video call for about 1-3 hours every night talking about anything (thinkings, past working experiences, future plans etc). She also shared her personal things like passport, home address, family photos/screenshots, home cctv monitoring etc). On her 2 rest days, we had went out together to some attractions, beach and cycling which 3/4 expenses paid by me and ML treated me to seafood dinner once. She also paid her major shopping items herself. I do not have pay anything more than the 3/4 outing expenses.

Despite the above and after reading the posts in this thread, I'm not sure if ML is faking and start to be cautious on this and I will not be providing any names here or dm.

Thanks much for advising

[occultbro]

Originally Posted by zai1

The MLs always call me "shuai ge".. u say leh? I know she is lying hahahaha... but still feel shiok.. this type of tactics is to earn more $$$ from us.. but still some guys will actually think they are handsome hahahaha and then fall into the KC trap.

i bet deep down she laughing at u lei... shuai "cannot stand" ge.
this kind KC the best, dont even need to work. because cannot even stand
LMAO

[occultbro]

Originally Posted by zai1

My version of falling in love with a massage girl is when her service is damn good and she is also pretty, I will tip her much more than norm for HJ (most of the time i give $50 for hj, but so a "special" her , I give $100 or even more) and visit her very often. That's it.. No more than that...

Is like a transaction, she loves me for $$$, I love her for her service.

After massage I get back to my own life.. BUT in the room, we are lovers each catering to each other's needs.

So must see TS definition of "love". If TS's love means he willing to give up all his $$$, give up his family, give up his friends, give up his job then is a BIG NO NO!!!.. Is ok for TS to give up some $$$ by tipping her more but please do not give up all ur $$$ just for her

u erectile dysfunction, how to give u service?

[skids]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

Just came across this thread today, I won't reveal too much details since it has been many years so details are a little fuzzy in my head. If you search the posts made through my nick you can more or less guess. I did this more than once, and I consider myself quite lucky to still be around without too much lasting "damage" lol. I will restrict my answer to MLs only, since this is what you asked.

I had an ex-ML as my 小 三 for about 2 years - we maintained a long distance relationship as she went back to China and I flew out regularly every month anyway on business so I made sure she met me in some country that doesn't have too difficult a visa requirement for china passport holders. We broke up in the end because she got pregnant with my child but she chose to abort without telling me. There are some similarities to your story, this ML tuned out to be a habitual and compulsive liar and also a gambler at heart (I took her to Macau and watched her blow through $10K playing 6 tables of baccarat simultaneously) at HKD 1000 per round per table. After that episode, I had the sinking feeling that even though I had the resources to maintain her, whatever I have will not be enough to feed her addiction. She also flew out a couple of times to Singapore to gamble at MBS and to fuck, but she stupidly left the luggage stickers on her luggage not realizing that it the flight number and date effectively reveals her whereabouts. Last I heard she is still in this line, despite being well past her prime.

After that I maintained another ML locally, a very kind-hearted lady who nicely told me after 6 months that she really enjoyed being with me but she cannot enter into an exclusive relationship, because she simply doesn't see a future for the two of us. She openly said, that if we continued she will surely develop feelings for me and that is something she is afraid to do....simply because we will not have a good ending.

I still think about this girl from time to time, and during Covid I queued up 3 hours to send her a care package of face masks to her home in China. She was truly a gem, not the most beautiful but the one who will go all out to prove to me that she is true to her word. I never caught her lying, and in fact it was probably me who should have been more truthful about my circumstances at the start of the relationship.

Hope that's something useful for reference. Not all MLs are liars - but most of the customers are. Lol.

Very well written, the ladies who come or came here to work all come of different backgrounds and darkest histories you ever not know, mostly come here to gamble since there are 2 casinos here, so much so they lose and start to enter different entertainment lines, their gambling addiction never ends, luckily so far I have not met with any gamblers and would not hook them up also, these ladies who left their home to another country usually will look for a companion so to rely on or the bad ones will make use of u.
Once I read an article, will an entertaining lady will fall for a chiongster?? Answer is very simple, no. The reason is there will have no future, or the future is also there isn’t mutual trust, mostly will end up breaking up, secondly they do not want to do it for free.
So far my lengthy relationships were quite good and they don’t disturb me, neither I will disturb them due to I am a loner and I do not paster them also, they liked that, but after they left or even I had a few before was deported, there is no more contact.
The conclusion is they see only as companionships once they are out of their home town, they are human also, customers treat them like dirt, once in a while a good one appear but they will appreciate, but they do not want a relationship. Even once there’s a viet ktv girl told me not to come back into this entertainment anymore, if I encounter a tricky one, that it, I can have lots of rules just because I have not met my match, but matters of the heart is very difficult to say

[Jabba]

There will be good and bad ML. Most are money minded and they really hang themselve up

[Dandankoh]

Firstly, ML can sound very convincing but 99% they are Professional Story Tellers aka liars. It just abt the money. U tell them u no money due to retrenchment or business bad. See if they will support u like real gf or wife does. They are nvr serious gf or wife material. Maybe 1 or 2 out of the 1000 ml in sg.

[Jabba]

My Ex tried to cheat me of 100k as she owes the banks back home.Never had such money but considering as getting the 20percent CPF.Luckily did not as true colour came out plus no confidence in her.Glad did not part with hard earned money.Lost a few thousand dollars just take it as a lesson school fees.

[Jabba]

Another sign to consider if these ML really likes u is when they go home, if they will try to contact u or talk to u often.Mine was non existence when she went back to china.Doesnt want to talk to u.

[Laofuzi8888]

I have trained myself to be KC proof.