Fetish/Role Play/BDSM in HC

[totolim]

Bro,

Tokyo is not cheap city. And if you reside there, you may find your bank account balance diminish with frequent visits to the SM clubs !

Live in Philippines, save $ with the low cost of living there. Then treat yourself with few visits to Japan a year.
You are just 4 hours flight away compared to my 7 hours

Originally Posted by laserstone

Damn looks like I'm going to have to make frequent trips to Japan or find out how I can reside there cheaply or a few months. I work online so all I need is the internet. Any ideas?

I don't know if I have a heavy masochistic fantasy, I really don't want to have a choice. I really want to be forced to just take it , minus anything permanent , even want to be forced toilet, and humiliation. I hope I can find a happy medium.

Any one hear of Mistress Jun? I can't find any videos or link but a while back she was my favorite. I always wondered if she did real sessions. I saw one video where she really nicely but strongly beat and stretchered some guy out.

[onsenmaster]

Hello everyone, I have been lurking in this forum and in particular, this thread for years. Never saw the need to actually register, as I found no need to post. However, with the recent influx of foreign reviews, I think it's time I come out and share my views on the Japanese scene.

Been travelling in and out of Japan on a very frequent basis for the past few years, and each time, blowing tonnes of cash on SM activities. Have had sessions in Tokyo, Osaka, Nagoya, as well as in San Francisco, London, Hong Kong and maybe a few more countries which I cannot recall at this time.

Just like what most brothers here have reiterated, La Siora is up there among the very best. I myself have been a member at La Siora for years, having tried several of their mistresses. I saw a few reviews on the Osaka and Nagoya scene, but certainly these seem to be lacking compared to Tokyo.

Osaka's Club Fetishi-SM is a rather good club. I have had sessions with Mistress Kira (not sure if anyone knows her, but she has appeared in several videos). The club is foreigner friendly, although as a foreigner, the number of English speaking mistresses remain limited. Kira is skilled, and sexy as hell. SM comes naturally to her. Many times, she walked me like a dog in the balcony of the love hotel we usually check in to, in full view of guests from nearby residences. Rates are pretty decent, especially during the day-time where I think they offer a discount.

Nagoya has 2 main clubs. The famous Club-Absolute (who is fast gaining popularity with its stable of mistresses who usually appear in SMQR videos), as well as Club-Wise (which I have yet to try). Club-Absolute is not an easy club to get a session, as usually their receptionists do not speak English on most days. However, do call in on Saturdays when they have an English speaking receptionist who is helpful enough to cater to your requests. I have tried Tubaki and Michiru from Absolute, and they are a blast, especially Michiru who took charge of the session so well, even though it was my first session with her. I ended up booking her 2 times during my last trip there. Tubaki looks gorgeous, but we had no chemistry so it was only an all-right session.

Kairaido in Kyoto is another good club outside of Tokyo. Several of their mistresses run between Kyoto and Sapporo, and my wanted mistress did not happen to be there when I made a visit to Kyoto during my last trip.

And La Siora, of course, that goes without saying.

[onsenmaster]

I had to separate my initial post into 2 parts as it appears that I am under moderation.

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Actually, I see so many reviews on Japanese mistresses lately. Have you guys even wondered why are they so highly regarded? My personal opinion is that, besides their high level of skill and intuition, we could possibly have been blinded by the exotic factor. Maybe I shall put it across this way: Many of us have been exposed to porn, and a significant amount of it is probably Japanese. It has been naturally ingrained in us, that Japanese ladies are both beautiful, and many a childhood wanker's dream come true. The ability to serve a Japanese mistress, thus partly fulfills this dream, especially to masochists like us.

There are several more world class establishments, like The Gates in San Francisco, which I have had sessions in. The mistresses there are well trained, but their mannerisms are probably something that not many Asians will get accustomed to. London has several world class independent mistresses as well, although for me, I usually go to Japan for my sessions as I do speak Japanese to a certain extent, and I mix it with frequent trips to the onsen to recharge. Having 3 sessions in 3-4 days is certainly not easy on my body, as anyone of their mistresses could easily have made you empty your load.

And probably 1 more thing, the Japanese system is made to be efficient. The girls there (even in the SM clubs) were told that customers come first. They will go out of their way to ensure your needs are met. I am glad that several brothers here enjoyed their session with Mistress Akiho. I have had sessions with her a few times, and always enjoyed everyone of them. I don't usually have sessions in Singapore, as my job requires me to travel often, but usually the full load gets unloaded in Japan whenever I hit a major metropolis there. Tokyo, Osaka or Nagoya, there is something for everyone, not to mention the world class baths to relax yourself after a long day.

I can see that there are several seasoned campaigners here, especially on the Japanese scene. May I know how is the actual local scene in Singapore? I saw that Mistress Luna and her friend seems quite serious about the business, based on the website that they have. Does anyone reckon whether they are worth trying? Japan is still too hot for me at the moment, and I'm talking about the temperature.

My humble first post. Kudos to everyone

[onsenmaster]

Originally Posted by dominion

anyone knows where to pruchase these movies?

I don't think there is a movie for this. It's a photoshoot by Sniper Eve, a mistress magazine from Japan. Mistress Akiho did star in 1 video. I don't think it would be appropriate to share it here, as judging from the way she pixels her face, I think she wants less publicity nowadays. If my memory serves me right, she has some other full time commitments.

Age does catch up on everyone, and I have had dommes telling me that they no longer wish to be so intimately involved in the scene, as some intend to start a family or settle down (maybe with a slave). They are humans after all, not superwomen that we envision them to be.

Actually the La Siora system is like a conveyor belt. Girls with practically zero knowledge get employed, and as long as they are relatively good learners, they will start to become baby dommes. Of course, a girl calling La Siora for an employment opportunity would already know what is SM, as they were probably exposed to it by their boyfriends or someone else. But put any decent looking girl from Singapore through this conveyor belt, I am sure the results would probably be the same. All we need is a certain Mistress Rie. The environment is about adequate in Singapore, save for the lack of hotels and equipment.

[screwballs]

A humble question on La Siora and some symbols used on Jap Dom website

1) How do I know if anyone from La Siora is visiting Singapore?

2) On the Jap website, I see some symbols against the services offered; like some Dommes put a circle or triangle for Face sitting. Some put a "X" against Scat. What does these symbols mean?

[ydgduo]

Originally Posted by onsenmaster

All we need is a certain Mistress Rie. The environment is about adequate in Singapore, save for the lack of hotels and equipment.

That will be impossible in singapore, i long given up hope.

[ydgduo]

Originally Posted by screwballs

A humble question on La Siora and some symbols used on Jap Dom website

1) How do I know if anyone from La Siora is visiting Singapore?

2) On the Jap website, I see some symbols against the services offered; like some Dommes put a circle or triangle for Face sitting. Some put a "X" against Scat. What does these symbols mean?

you check la siora facebook everyday or visit this forum regularly
which webpage have X circle or triangle. I do not see it.

[ydgduo]

Originally Posted by calbts

My membership number starts with a 2. But I have been a member since 1999 and I don't even remember if I got a card.

Most senior La Siora member.
1999? I mainly go to mistresses in Europe. Did not know tokyo is a possibility.

[laserstone]

Originally Posted by dominion

cheyenne or jennifer lemonde of clubdom, savannah eve/dolly or bijou steal then you would know there are great dommes in america...

This is true, they are brutal, but it just doesn't seem the same as Japan Femdom though.

[laserstone]

I keeping hearing how these Japan mistresses go out of their way to please, and while that's good, my fantasy is really for them to have their own way. I'm imagining meeting one that just loves the idea to get a chance to hurt and humiliate/scat a young American (I'm 33 but look 27).

Is that asking for too much?

PS. I'm so happy to have finally found a place where this can be discussed for years I'd search the internet and think I was maybe the one English speaker in to Japan Femdom. Seems like it could warrant it's own thread.

[calbts]

Bro Dominion - we agree to disagree. Though I will admit to not having a session in the USA in about 12 years so maybe I am totally out of touch with the American scene. I just do not find the "American style" of BDSM appealing at all especially compared to what I experience in Japan. Maybe it is the exotic factor since I am American but the lure of Japanese Mistresses has not waned. I can't even get excited when watching American femdom videos. The Club Dom videos seem so scripted and in some cases comedic whereas Kitagawa videos are very real and brutal. One of my favorites is when Queen Rie uses a hot branding iron on a slave's chest.

Bro onsenmaster - Thanks for your great input on your extensive experiences in Japan. Have you tried to schedule a session at club-fin in Osaka yet? A few on the board here are very curious about that club. Last year when I was in Osaka I wanted to schedule a session at Fetish-SM but came down ill for a few days so I had to cancel. Their website seems to really want foreign customers.

I did stop through Nagoya last time for a session at Absolute with Mistress Yui, like your experience with Tubaki, our chemistry was not there. Very disappointing for me as I was lusting on her videos before my session and was very let down. I think the main drawback of Absolute is that it is in Nagoya which is not such a special place to stay when compared to Tokyo, Osaka, or Kyoto. So unless you got specific business in Nagoya, it is not worth a special trip just for a session at Absolute.

By the way, funny you mention the Gates in the East Bay Area- I sessioned with an American-Phillipino mistress back in the late 90's a few times( I think her name was Kayla). She was probably the only American Mistress I ever had good chemistry with.

And Mistress Akiho appeared uncensored in Sniper Eve DVD Vol 7
The DVD came with the magazine

laserstone - As an American tourist - you get 90 days stay in Japan. There is no way to extend it and if you stay past even one day they will throw you in a cage at immigration and give you a 5 year ban. It is not like Thailand where you can pay a fine and get off so do not overstay in Japan. You can fly to Korea on day 89 and try and come back for another 90 days but Japanese immigration might get suspicious.

There are many different types of longer stay visas including a Japanese language study visa. As far as housing , there are many options other than hotels. Obviously the further away from the center, the less expensive. Yes Tokyo is expensive, but probably not as bad as London, Paris, or even New York. The good news is that the trains/subways are very reliable and take you everywhere.

[laserstone]

Originally Posted by calbts

Bro Dominion - we agree to disagree. Though I will admit to not having a session in the USA in about 12 years so maybe I am totally out of touch with the American scene. I just do not find the "American style" of BDSM appealing at all especially compared to what I experience in Japan.

Totally agree, Club Dom is way too fake these days. Japan is just so real and brutal.

laserstone - As an American tourist - you get 90 days stay in Japan. There is no way to extend it and if you stay past even one day they will throw you in a cage at immigration and give you a 5 year ban. It is not like Thailand where you can pay a fine and get off so do not overstay in Japan. You can fly to Korea on day 89 and try and come back for another 90 days but Japanese immigration might get suspicious.

There are many different types of longer stay visas including a Japanese language study visa. As far as housing , there are many options other than hotels. Obviously the further away from the center, the less expensive. Yes Tokyo is expensive, but probably not as bad as London, Paris, or even New York. The good news is that the trains/subways are very reliable and take you everywhere.

Thanks for the info. I actually just meant living there for a few months so I can try multiple sessions. 90 days would be plenty. Just need a more affordable long stay arrangement rather than a hotel.

What is the general safety? I've heard it's so safe that you could pass out drunk near the subway and no one would dare steal your wallet or phone. And that people return shit they find to the police. Sounds too good to be true?

[calbts]

Yes Japan is one of the safest places on Earth. Just like Singapore.

But just don't do anything stupid like shoplifting, fighting, etc.. One reason there is very little crime is the fear of getting arrested. The Japanese cops can hold you in jail without access to a lawyer for 21 days upon arrest.

But I have never had any problems there ever. And if you are Asian or white, you will probably be left alone by the cops. Unfortunately for blacks - it is a different story.

[onsenmaster]

Hi Bro Cal,

I haven't had the chance to try club-fin yet, as none of the mistresses on their roster currently appeal to me. Osaka is however a great place for such activities. I will still recommend Fetishi-sm for their professionalism and English support. Yes their website is extremely foreigner friendly.

Yes, M Akiho appeared in Vol 7 of sniper eve. That was probably done a few years ago. The DVD is usually sold together with the hardcopy of the magazine.

Nagoya is a pretty boring place. I will only session there because my job requires me to enter Nagoya every now and then. Had no chemistry with Tubaki but had 2 great ones with Michiru. She is one foxy lady who happens to have a pole dancing background as well. Totally blasted me off to orbit.

Chemistry is extremely important. I had a session with Murasaki but I found the chemistry lacking. Not to say she isn't good but it ended up being rather 2 dimensional. So it's really different strokes for different folks.

[onsenmaster]

Originally Posted by dominion

I think we can leave it largely at that, bro. I too am a big fan of Japanese mistresses and definitely do not disagree with you on that. I'm also aware that clubdom has become sh*tty. Actually the only grace of it was Cheyenne. She was amazing but the site became pointless once she retired. It's just my opinion that there are really good American dommes around, but you're right that their style is very different and may not appeal to you or some others.

For now, though, Japanese mistresses are on the top of my list. Akiho Joosama has blown my mind and I'm bordering on being obsessed with her

Haha, that is normal bro. Any good mistress can make one obsessed. Important not to fall into that cycle. I was left emotionally drained / lost during my early months sessioning. I just felt so lonely after the session and all I did was think about my session and yearning to see mistress everyday. It is something I have learnt to cope after these 10 plus years of sessioning. I have learnt to take these sessions with a pinch of salt. The first few sessions are always the most difficult. After that it becomes second nature. This is basically infatuation. Time will heal the wounds.