Picking up girls in Marquee

[Richard0204]

Originally Posted by fetrojapse

Anyone has experience

please share advice

[rix6669]

Going to Club serve different purposes. Not about getting laid, more finding out u still can attract women. All are dressed up including guys so competition is high.

If u want have great fun, see crazy stuff, see girls go crazy, enjoy flirting and grinding, potentially(low chance) close a hook up then go club. Even more fight than siamtius hahaha.

[xavierwong888]

i have tried and failed! lol chances higher with siam bu!

[StealthBomber]

Originally Posted by TheSpyingPerv

speaking from abit of experience, if you're in your 40s, people will notice you because everyone else is in their 20s, and they will expect you to have a higher spending power than most of the younger guys. There are a good handful of young girls with dad kinks, and with this alone, you can cleverly outweigh the younger guys in the club.

1. Get a room in MBS if you don't have a fancy car.

2. Dress well, the younger guys will be in shirts and whatever young guys wear these days. Be different , spot a good mid to upper range lux watch. As one brother mentioned earlier, those choices are great. If you're clueless on what to wear, jeans, a black top and a blazer would suffice. Don't for the love of GOD wear a graphic print under your blazer. Go with all black if you don't know what to wear.

2. Open table with a group of friends your age, 1 table cost about $2k, be prepared to spend upwards of about $5k collectively. Girls, especially international school students will self-invite. Be ready to keep or filter out some. If you can't handle all the girls, get the bouncer to bounce some of them out, there will be some that will come to your table, not give a damn about you and drink all your drinks.

3. Be interesting. While most of the younger guys will be talking about pop culture rubbish or trying too hard to impress with what daddy does, be that dayy instead. Talk about intelligent stuff while staying relevant. Crypto, Tesla, and Diamond hands are good subjects to start off with, she won't know what you're saying but she wants to feel like she has a take away from the experience with you. Have proper vernacular, don't fake an accent, and don't overuse Singlish either.

Or (4) simple, just be an ang moh. Don't need (1),(2) and (3)

[TheSpyingPerv]

Originally Posted by StealthBomber

Or (4) simple, just be an ang moh. Don't need (1),(2) and (3)

haha yes, I do agree! But if we can't be ang moh, we can focus instead on the things we can improve on ourselves.

5. Take reference from the younger guys bickering amongst themselves in this thread. Everyone's trying to one up each other. Differentiate. This is the exact type of drama younger girls face with boys , and they want to avoid it at all costs.

6. Just be an enhanced version of yourself. If you're old fashion, turn it into a benefit instead of a challenge. Don't chuck alcohol at her straight from the bottle. Bring her to your table, allocate a seat for her, as her which drink she'll like, give her a clean glass and fill it with ice, pour her a drink and ask her to tell you when to stop, ask if she'll like mixers, and most importantly, pick the glass up and hand it to her. It's little things like that which will outshine the rest of your younger competition, and while chivalry may be lost on them, it will look so damn good on an older person, like yourself.

7. If you haven't got any of these, or if you are remarkably ugly, then fix yourself. It will take time and you will get there. Remember , studies have shown that women don't account for faces well, only height , physique (shoulder width) and emotions with that person.

8. The whole clubbing scene is actually one giant fish tank filled with colourful zebra fishes. In an experiment, only the most unique zebra fish will get a mate, and when all the other female zebra fish notices, they will go for that one. Women are like that too, be that outstanding zebra fish, not with the youth that you lack, but with your maturity that supercedes everything else. Going back to maturity at point 5, if your conversation encroaches into a topic which she feels strongly about but you cannot help but disagree with, don't simply agree. Women hate pushovers. Stand your ground but don't bomb her with arguments and data, or flex your intelligence like the younger guys are doing, this is a huge turn off, simply smile and say something like "While you have your views which I respect, and I have have mine, which i stand behind, this makes the world a more colorful and vibrant place to live in , so let's just agree to disagree, shall we?"

And if you never got to bed anyone at the end of all your adventures. Just remember that it's better to do and to fail , than to never have and wonder when you're old, what could've been if only you tried!

[Greenfrog]

Originally Posted by danilov

Serious? Pass by this place when I was in mbs with family in the past weekend. Next to the high class Japanese restaurant. There was a long line of girls in little black dresses in a queue. Like escorts. The kind where you choose the number tag. Where got class and image?

hate to break it to you bro, most of our local gals probably do not know how to dress.

[Greenfrog]

Originally Posted by rix6669

Used to club ALOT. Getting ons in club is number game and lot of luck, u don't score unless u found a girl who go there for hook up.
Then u calculate out of 50 girls, how many ready for hook up or ons? Unless u damn good build n good looking like celebrity standard, I say probably 10 girls or less ready to hook up, then u still have to filter and seek them out.

And then even a 6 will look like a 8 or 9 under dim lighting with sexy dress and sexy move, yet we try so hard to hook them.

oh my , bro of wisdom over here.

[Greenfrog]

Originally Posted by hengkia77

25 year age group now also got quite loaded 1 bro

papa's money, u mean ?

[TheIdesOfMarch]

Originally Posted by TheSpyingPerv

haha yes, I do agree! But if we can't be ang moh, we can focus instead on the things we can improve on ourselves.

5. Take reference from the younger guys bickering amongst themselves in this thread. Everyone's trying to one up each other. Differentiate. This is the exact type of drama younger girls face with boys , and they want to avoid it at all costs.

Forgive me for asking this if it's a stupid question, but if I want to avoid drama or not be seen as yet another potential source of drama as a single man in a nightclub, would I NOT want to be in a nightclub then?

The whole nightclub scene is just one huge drama fest of one-upmanship exactly as you describe. I personally hate that kind of toxic masculinity atmosphere where in order to get girls you inevitably have to be drawn into guy-on-guy bloodsport to flash money through alcohol, acting alpha, and dressing up/bling. Even if you go into a nightclub trying to be the "elder statesman" type amongst a sea of boys, more often than not the girls who supposedly "hate/avoid young boys drama" would simply pass you over if you're the kind to sit back, be quietly confident and self-assured, and not try to pick up girls by acting/being rich and flashy in a nightclub.

Just my thoughts and question from my personal exp. If I'm going to spend 2 to 5k in a single night out drinking, I rather do it somewhere nicer with better quality alcohol and atmosphere like say Atlas.

[photocopier87]

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[Greenfrog]

Originally Posted by Regretfulman

Lol bro.

As a 24 yr old, let me tell u the brutal honest truth.

From your account age, you are probably a uncle. Now marquee is mainly for youngsters around my age. Want pick up girls just need be yandao and maybe open table (a few k a night).

If u need to ask about dress code you probably never club before? Ofc shorts berms not allowed.... people dress to impress there.

I think ur age better go ktv or siamdiu better. Maybe like lisbo, empire, lvl 9 those kind.

does Marquee filter douchebag like you ??

[Neverlookback]

The mere fact this guy has to ask tells all. And the comment about bermudas etc tells even more.

Doesnt need to be Marquee, ANY decent club, bistro, bar, show some class FFS. LOL

[timeliness]

Originally Posted by Greenfrog

does Marquee filter douchebag like you ??

No need Marquee to filter, he already cannot take the heat from bros here in SBF and left the forum.

[WILHD]

Originally Posted by Greenfrog

does Marquee filter douchebag like you ??

He's a youngster yet couldn't pick girls in Marquee nor pick points in the forum