Do you prefer to marry a PRC, M'sian, Thai, Indo, Viet, others or our local girl

[lambo_tan]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Why do you have to marry either? Just stay single. It's a lot better for both your physical and emotional health and your finances.

I've never been married. (no I'm not gay.) It's just that I enjoy the freedoms that bachelorhood brings.

I've I was married, I probably never would have been able to start this site and run it effectively for the last 8 years.

i'm in the early 30s , owns a car, with an above average look , above average income but i don't foresee myself getting married in the near future. Probably bcos i'm not willing to lower my expectations and i can't seem to find an attactive sg woman with a good personality, probably it's like wat some said , all the good ones are already taken up.

Enjoying bachelorhood might be a thing if u have a grp of friends but once they abandon you to get married, the boredom kicks in.

[PRC Rammer]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Why do you have to marry either? Just stay single. It's a lot better for both your physical and emotional health and your finances.

I've never been married. (no I'm not gay.) It's just that I enjoy the freedoms that bachelorhood brings.

I've I was married, I probably never would have been able to start this site and run it effectively for the last 8 years.

You don't want to have children so don't marry ?

Originally Posted by lambo_tan

i'm in the early 30s , owns a car, with an above average look , above average income but i don't foresee myself getting married in the near future. Probably bcos i'm not willing to lower my expectations and i can't seem to find an attactive sg woman with a good personality, probably it's like wat some said , all the good ones are already taken up.

Enjoying bachelorhood might be a thing if u have a grp of friends but once they abandon you to get married, the boredom kicks in.

Go to People Republic of China, you will find better choice there

[lambo_tan]

Originally Posted by PRC Rammer

Go to People Republic of China, you will find better choice there

i do tend to find myself more attracted to PRC women but the moment i think abt the respond i'll get from my family, it's like commiting suicide

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by lambo_tan

i do tend to find myself more attracted to PRC women but the moment i think abt the respond i'll get from my family, it's like commiting suicide

Now u know why some men disappear with their foreign wives?

[aces68]

Originally Posted by ekemono

Yes. your username has told us so

Joking bro.

Good one bro..you are so observant

[sinner1105]

I currently hav a local gf she's nice swt and understanding. But overall i feel tat locals are too practical liao if u rich u get e gals. I'm not though...so sad
To me i tink msia gals are gd choice, old liao can be PR there then stay there. Things are cheaper too. Just my 2 cent touts

[AndyHandy]

me married oredy too late. but would recommend Indo if had chance now. unbeatable for wife!!!

[longwinter]

actually no matter wad race or wad country la, wad l feel impt is the chemistry and the feel la between me and the gal.

[glooper83]

Originally Posted by longwinter

actually no matter wad race or wad country la, wad l feel impt is the chemistry and the feel la between me and the gal.

Yes.. i agreed wholeheartedly

[cheongsan]

Generally, local girls are more financially independent. That is why many Singaporean men find them somewhat a turnoff because of the attitude that project as a result of gaining more financial independence.

Again, I must emphasize the word "generally". Generally, girls from third world countries are relatively more financially dependent on the Singapoream men. This explains why many are willing to sacrifice true love for financial support.

With such perspective, my pick will be our Singapore girls of course.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by cheongsan

Generally, local girls are more financially independent. That is why many Singaporean men find them somewhat a turnoff because of the attitude that project as a result of gaining more financial independence.

Again, I must emphasize the word "generally". Generally, girls from third world countries are relatively more financially dependent on the Singapoream men. This explains why many are willing to sacrifice true love for financial support.

With such perspective, my pick will be our Singapore girls of course.

Well said bro...clap clap
Its again a double edged sword...bottomline for me, is the mentality of the woman involved, what she wants outta everything....

[123boy]

I will pick singaporean as we belong to the same culture.

[lao_teeko]

purpose of marriage?

1.is it purely lust?

2.to have offsprings? to continue the family line?

3.someone to do housework for you?

4.or is it because you love someone and you truly want to care for that person for the rest of your life?

if its reason 4, then nationality doesnt matter. although a s'porean girl does makes things easier cos there are a lot of common topics to start with..schooling days, cartoons we watched..songs we listen to..

if its reason 3..then just get a maid. its cheaper

btw..my choice is also a singaporean girl..

[aces68]

Originally Posted by lao_teeko

purpose of marriage?

1.is it purely lust?

2.to have offsprings? to continue the family line?

3.someone to do housework for you?

4.or is it because you love someone and you truly want to care for that person for the rest of your life?

if its reason 4, then nationality doesnt matter. although a s'porean girl does makes things easier cos there are a lot of common topics to start with..schooling days, cartoons we watched..songs we listen to..

if its reason 3..then just get a maid. its cheaper

btw..my choice is also a singaporean girl..

My reason for marriage is a combination of 1,2 and 4. Makes sense ?

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by 123boy

I will pick singaporean as we belong to the same culture.

Hmmm. what culture is this? Can you share with it with us?
Since it can influence your decision it should be an info useful by us SG single men.