Gers Are Still Gers

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Originally Posted by OceanEleven

Like a Chinese saying;”Ice freezes three feet thick does not simply happen overnight.”

good description!

[Vryce]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

. Point is, men had succumb to the fact that this is the trend and allow the women to be in the driving seat, not because they do a better job but simply to avoid a pointless tongue of war. As time moves on, it leaves a significant disparity between the two sexes. It drains the vigor out of men and boosts the newfound belief of the women.

which is why we should not let them get away with their ploy.

however, easier said than done as they for one, have boundless stamina when it comes to arguments and most certainly a memory more powerful than we men can ever imagine. can't remember the last time i won an argument against the opposite sex.

[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by Vryce

however, easier said than done as they for one, have boundless stamina when it comes to arguments and most certainly a memory more powerful than we men can ever imagine. can't remember the last time i won an argument against the opposite sex.

They practise the art of confusion to perfection, here you are telling her off on one thing but at the end, it became her who is ticking you off on some other thing.

[MoonBlaze]

Originally Posted by Wins88

The "liberated" SIngapore women is a paradox in itself. On one hand, she is strong, so-called career minded, self sufficient, and independent women who is now the typical"cosmopolitan" lady which threathen our traditional male egos and assaults our male values. .... play up the weaker sex card whenever possible when life's odds are stacked against their favor! So there lies the double standard between the same liberated Singapore female and her so-called traditional female half who emerges as and when it is convenient!.... but I honestly feel that at the end of the day, there is still greatness and goodness amongst all our local ladies

They simply want the best of everything. Let them pursue their ideals. We carry on ours.

[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by MoonBlaze

They simply want the best of everything. Let them pursue their ideals. We carry on ours.

Easier said than done, somehow or other, you'll get drag into the turmoil. She goes shopping with friends, end of day ask to meet for dinner, little did I know I end up paying for hers and friend's dinner and sending her friends home who stay on the other end of the island................

[MoonBlaze]

Originally Posted by Five Stone

Easier said than done, somehow or other, you'll get drag into the turmoil.

Was saying that the "liberated" SG women who wants the best of everything will keep searching for the man who can fulfill their requirements. Let them continue their. I will never bother to cross their path. I look for the less complicated ones who will appreciate me more for what i am today.

Then again, what we get end of day may not be what we were looking for. Cos ppl changes.

Originally Posted by Five Stone

She goes shopping with friends, end of day ask to meet for dinner, little did I know I end up paying for hers and friend's dinner and sending her friends home who stay on the other end of the island................

Once a while think still acceptable... too often... ask her to get a driving license and take over the wheels when in this kind of senerio. Off course gotta be tactical, tell her she must show her fren that she can drive. With their mentality, they will buy it.

[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by MoonBlaze

Once a while think still acceptable... too often... ask her to get a driving license and take over the wheels when in this kind of senerio. Off course gotta be tactical, tell her she must show her fren that she can drive. With their mentality, they will buy it.

Already having a hard time playing mind games with bosses and clients, after work still have to brainstorm in order not to offend the one who suppose to care and love you.......Life man, tell me about it.

[lament]

Originally Posted by Five Stone

Already having a hard time playing mind games with bosses and clients, after work still have to brainstorm in order not to offend the one who suppose to care and love you.......Life man, tell me about it.

actually thats the only thing good about sg gals ...THEIR BIG NO BRAINER INTELLECT ..........

sometimes i like brawn but then again i am a man ..........sighhhhhhhhhh its tough to balance the 2 ........

read in allan pease book, whenever your gal complain or say anything about work or life ....just keep your mouth shut and listen ......never offer any solutions cos they are not into solutions just want to let go ........

[MoonBlaze]

Originally Posted by lament

...read in allan pease book, whenever your gal complain or say anything about work or life ....just keep your mouth shut and listen ......never offer any solutions cos they are not into solutions just want to let go ........

Man (keep quiet)
Woman : Are you listening?

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by MoonBlaze

Man (keep quiet)
Woman : Are you listening?

Fundamental elements in sustaining a relationship, never show that you are impatience, always let you her that you are listening attentively and the silence means that you are trying very hard to understand what she said and thinking for a solution for her.

[lament]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

Fundamental elements in sustaining a relationship, never show that you are impatience, always let you her that you are listening attentively and the silence means that you are trying very hard to understand what she said and thinking for a solution for her.

that's the whole darn problem, man often think of solutions to problems but woman just wanna make up their quota of daily words to be said .......

so the best choice is to say "and then what happen" .... let her use up her daily quota of words and she will leave us alone ...... any soultion will be met with resistance....they will find their soultions out and we are just that as a punching bag of words.............

this is according to the book ....... much better than the mars & venus series .....

[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by lament

so the best choice is to say "and then what happen" .... let her use up her daily quota of words and she will leave us alone ...... any soultion will be met with resistance....they will find their soultions out and we are just that as a punching bag of words.............

She is the one who wants to go out, she knows her HP low batt, she is the one who forgot to charge the night before and today's morning, she is the one who needs to call due to work. You are the "Ahmad", you have nothing to buy outside, you dont want to go out at all, you did remind her to charge HP, you got fxxk from her by reminding (nagging). Now on the way back home and you said:"I go buy 4D."

Her: Can you please be more considerate, I need to charge the HP, I am waiting for important calls. You know I am rushing and yet you must choose to waste some of my time............

In the end went home, never buy 4D. Read the evening paper..... KNNBCCB, number came out........

[MoonBlaze]

Originally Posted by Five Stone

In the end went home, never buy 4D. Read the evening paper..... KNNBCCB, number came out........

How much would you had won if you did buy?
Asking so as to plan corrective action for your heartache

[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by MoonBlaze

How much would you had won if you did buy?
Asking so as to plan corrective action for your heartache

5 Big 5 Small second Prize, you calculate for me...............

[Five Stone]

Been reading thru some postings, seems that alot of bros are suffering at the hands of gals, not because of their no brainer acts but rather the way they lead their lives. Late nights, party when attached, running into sky high credit cards debts, liberate mentality but cry foul when things went wrong etc. Are Singaporean gals really like this?