Mistaken identity 'rape' - girlfriend slept with friend thinking it was him ..

[japboy]

Originally Posted by old_yet_horny

OC: Guess this report was kind of exaggerated by the media.. Anyway, he deserved to be ripped off that S$30k...

dats wad i tink as well... frenz scheming 2 ripe frenz off.... 20yrs childhood frenz but use $30k to truly know a person.. n get a bonk inbetween.. .cheap liaoz...

but for me if i'm drunk, i jz go on ,n on ,n on ,n on......................................

but den again, if have $30k ready cash, y d hell i wanna stay in my frenz place with his wife? might as well rent a room n party every night...

[TheGreatOne]

the victim claimed she dunno who is bonking her which i think is utterly lame even though all were drunk. is there anyone here who bonk with their eyes closed, nose clogged, numbed from neck below ever b4?

i think all got their own smell/odour/perfume etc.. cant tell?

unless blindfolded with bra with panties overlay on her head, she cant even see?

everyone got their own unique way of fondling style, also hairstyle be it big head or below, maybe she too high, cant tell btw 3inch and 3.1inch ok la, fair enough. but i still think that is bulls! she trying to tell us women in 30s tend to bang with all sense shut tight?

but that guy who paid 30k for a bonk also maybe too high to realised the consequences. someone talk abt models at 1k per shot etc.. but remember something, if he wanna bonk anytime also can but that particular experience is probably his fantasy so its definitely more sextisfying. but too bad tio 仙人跳

[uglyrabbit28]

I will try to find out who that girl is and post her pics... she must be a bitch... see whether they will demand $30k from me for posting her pics... As a matter of fact, that guy may not be the bf's friend. IF he is, he will be more outrage to kill him or report him to police. What more accept money. Is definitely a scam...

[japboy]

Originally Posted by TheGreatOne

the victim claimed she dunno who is bonking her which i think is utterly lame even though all were drunk. is there anyone here who bonk with their eyes closed, nose clogged, numbed from neck below ever b4?

when u into SM? u get bindfolded, fitted w a mouth piece n fed w viagra? lolx....

Haha, read this ... was wondering what a funny thing .... both donno, if still can bonk, means sure know one lah ....

The fren tio coned liao for sure ...

Dont think they will be frens still anyway ...

[Clit_LickeR]

Originally Posted by ferrari355

$30000!!!??? that's a lot of money for a single bonk!!!
and he still has to write an apology letter. what an unworthwhile bonk.
.

if i am that loaded guy, i would rather spent all the $30 000 on
bonking different girls, nationalities, play all sorts of sexual fantasies for 3days 3 nites straight.
can bonk till dick went limp or even bend!

[strategy51]

yes i agreed, women r sensitive enough to feel or smell the difference from someone which is close to u enough to sleep together with u and someone that never. Certain things happen, dun juz plame the guys.

Originally Posted by tomvoyeur

The Chinese have a saying - 30% sobreity even when drunk. She can surely feel the difference back then but she was too horny by then to say no. But I believe circumstances after that forced her hand, perhaps she was found out by her bf or the guy threaten her for more sex/cash.

[hur hur hur]

The boyfriend still can take the $30K cheque from his ex-buddy?

Haha, I think the cheque is the main thing right ...

[hur hur hur]

Originally Posted by uglyrabbit28

I will try to find out who that girl is and post her pics... she must be a bitch... see whether they will demand $30k from me for posting her pics... As a matter of fact, that guy may not be the bf's friend. IF he is, he will be more outrage to kill him or report him to police. What more accept money. Is definitely a scam...

Read the article from SIN MING last evening, the girl looks ordinary from her back.

Reported in New Paper

HE PAYS HER $30,000 TO FORGIVE HIM
Businessman rapes best mate's drunk girlfriend, then admits crime in letter and begs for mercy
THEY had been friends for nearly 20 years - since they were in national service.
By Maureen Koh

12 November 2007
THEY had been friends for nearly 20 years - since they were in national service.

But one night of drinking changed all that. Incredibly, one pal allegedly had sex in the dark with his best friend's drunk girlfriend before she realised her mistake.

And this took place while the victim's boyfriend was sleeping outside the master bedroom.

In her drunken stupor, the woman had mistaken the man as her boyfriend when he climbed into the bed. By the time the truth hit her, it was too late.

The three of them were torn asunder when it all came out into the open. A confession was allegedly written and compensation paid.

But the couple remained deeply troubled, and initially declined to talk when approached by The New Paper on Sunday.

It was a humiliation that no man could accept, the boyfriend said. He gave his name only as Mr Lee.

He finally decided to talk about it to warn others not to take chances with alcohol and intimate situations.

Mr Lee, 40, a sales executive, said: 'There was no excuse for that to happen. I was so furious that I wanted to lodge a police report against him.'

But his friend, a married businessman in his 40s, went down on his knees, cried and begged profusely for the couple's forgiveness.

In the end, it was the woman who did not want to make the matter worse.

Mr Lee said: 'He was lucky because my girlfriend, who has a soft heart, decided to forgive him.'

But one condition of the 'settlement' was that the man had to write a letter of apology detailing what he did in six points.

One mentioned the cash compensation of $30,000 to Mr Lee's girlfriend, who is in her 30s.

SIMILAR CASE

The events bear a similarity to a recent case in Malaysia where a woman had sex with a lodger she mistook for her husband.

In Mr Lee's case, he said his then-best friend had invited them, among others, to a gathering at his flat in the north-east.

'We were playing cards, drinking and reminiscing about the past,' he said.

His friend was 'a good host and there was plenty of beer and red wine to go around'.

By 2.30am, everyone had left except the host and Mr Lee and his girlfriend.

'My girlfriend had consumed too much liquor and she was quite drunk. It was then he suggested that we sleep over,' Mr Lee said.

The businessman had offered his girlfriend the use of the master bedroom, saying it was fine since his wife was not in town.

Mr Lee said they continued to drink and chatted for a while more. 'As I was also tipsy and exhausted, I fell asleep in the living room,' he recalled.

Mr Lee claimed that at about 5am, his friend roused him from sleep.

'He had a strange expression on his face - a mixed look of discomfort and guilt. He just kept muttering the word 'sorry'.'

Mr Lee was baffled.

'I didn't understand what he was trying to tell me and I kept asking him to make himself clear,' he said.

It was then the businessman pointed to the master bedroom.

Mr Lee said: 'When I pushed open the door, I was so shocked to see my girlfriend completely naked. She was crouching by the side of the bed and bawling her eyes out.'

The man had apparently entered the room at around 4.30am.

Mr Lee claimed: 'My girlfriend said he began undressing her the minute he entered the room.

'He then climbed onto the bed and started to get intimate with her.'

In her drunken state, Mr Lee's girlfriend had mistaken the businessman to be him.

PITCH DARK

He added: 'It was pitch dark in the room. They petted for a while and it was only when they had intercourse that my girlfriend realised to her horror the man was someone else.'

The girlfriend was so repulsed that her mind went blank. She froze for a moment before bursting into tears.

That was when the businessman scurried out to call Mr Lee.

Initially, the girlfriend had suspected Mr Lee of conspiring with the businessman, Mr Lee said. The couple had been dating for about six months and had discussed marriage plans.

The girlfriend said: 'They were friends for nearly 20 years. If they are really good brothers, how could the man have done this to his best friend's girlfriend?

'And to commit such an act in his own home, on his matrimonial bed?'

When the girlfriend was convinced that it was not a set-up, she softened.

Mr Lee said: 'She even asked me not to pursue the matter and not to tell the man's wife. She wanted to avoid ruining the couple's marriage. That is how thoughtful she is.'

But the incident has left the woman traumatised. She said that there were times 'when I still suffer flashbacks of that terrible instant'.

Mr Lee said he severed his friendship with the businessman immediately after the incident but continued to receive SMS messages from him.

He claimed: 'In his messages, he said it was not something he had planned. He pleaded with me not to tell his wife and elderly father. He was afraid that his father, who has a heart problem, would not be able to take the blow.'

Mr Lee declined to disclose the businessman's details, saying that he had 'promised to close the case' with the 'settlement'.

He added: 'I just want to say that even a 20-year relationship cannot withstand the temptation of lust and beauty.'

Lawyer Doris Chia from Harry Elias Partnership said that while molest is a compoundable offence, rape is not.

This means that notwithstanding the settlement between the perpetrator and his victim, the police could still intervene and charge the man.

But that is only if a report has been made.

A police spokesman said: 'Police will investigate into allegations of crime when it is reported, to establish if an offence has been committed.

'We advise victims of crime to come forward and provide information directly to us.'

The penalty for rape is a jail sentence of up to 20 years. The offender will also be liable to a fine or caning.



--------------------------------------------------------------------------------


SHE EVEN ASKED ME NOT TO PURSUE THE MATTER AND NOT TO TELL THE MAN'S WIFE. SHE WANTED TO AVOID RUINING THE COUPLE'S MARRIAGE.

- Mr Lee, on why his girlfriend did not go to the police

Maybe its a real mistake after reading above .... but whatever it is like some members say ... better becareful just in case kanna trap also and then have to skip lunch everyday ...

[TheGreatOne]

bro japboy must be very into SM but kinda extreme for your case ba.

must have stuffed the viagras into nostrils by accident.

[lacoruna69]

Originally Posted by Red_Tirak1099

Not drunk or anything like that. She came on to me & I din reject.....

I think the gal part is not important. Gals can be found any where. But,a true blood Bro hard to find. By bonking a Bro's gal, the trust and brotherhood built up painfully all these years had been violated/destroyed. This is going to be one big regret which I can never forgive myself if I really did it.

[Red_Tirak1099]

Originally Posted by taihua338

Dear Bro Red_Tirak,

Ur words very deep leh."one bonk with a friend's finacee end up lost a childhood buddy" This should be a good story for all the young cheongster bro to learn and to avoid. I suggest u start a thread and post an FR on this topic.

Kekekeke me always kena writer's block when it comes to writing stories....anyway happened 25yrs ago some details cant remember liao.....might do it to serve as warning for others

Originally Posted by lacoruna69

I think the gal part is not important. Gals can be found any where. But,a true blood Bro hard to find. By bonking a Bro's gal, the trust and brotherhood built up painfully all these years had been violated/destroyed. This is going to be one big regret which I can never forgive myself if I really did it.

Learnt my lesson the hard way.....