Gf, not giving... buay tahan liao! - Page 3

Jizzer · #31 13-11-2013, 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by smallLJboy

girl are very emotional creature and they feel the "feeling" more then sex.. of cos if during honey moon period.. everything is ok, sex is good.. but after time when she start to think that when ever you meet her and only want sex.. she will start to back off..

so treat her like a real gf and not a sex release machine.. you have to sweet talk to her and make her feel "lovely"..once they feel love and they naturally feel sexing and more open to sex..

go shopping with her.. I mean really go shopping as walk into the shop with her.. help her choose cloths (of cos u can choose those sexy mini type) and ask her to try on and then praise her how nice it look on her.. boost her confident level up..

do something romantic together..gal like to do things together with someone they love. so dont always said no time, boaring, want to play sccocer, play xbox etc etc.. go out and join some classes with her.. they will love it and eventaully when they feel love again, they will give it to you,

then when you have sex with her.. not just thinking of making yourself shiok only.. service her first.kiss her (not always her nibble) but kiss other place, touch her like touching a tofu, gently.. make her feel precious.. then she will reward you back once she get what she want.. eventually she will start to enjoy sex with you and not thinking that you are only here to make love with her..

in summary, gal want feeling more then action (sex).. so give her the feeling and make her feel that you really love her, enjoy doing thing with her.. and once her feeling is "full"..she will need to release it back to you (in another way)

wow! Bro, basically I've really done all this during our initial time together!
Guess I need to balance up my work and life man... probably I'm just to engross i to work life and left her there for too long...

Also thank you every brother here for all the advices!

ViperX7 · #32 14-11-2013, 12:42 AM

Sharing my story here too. My gf is a strictly no sex before marriage girl too. But we don't even do much petting. We've French but that's about the most we've done. Still trying to go onto the next level. But still no luck.

szczesny · #33 14-11-2013, 02:10 AM

Lucky only gf, what if becum wife like so many bros here then hard to turn back lor!

marclove · #34 14-11-2013, 02:19 AM

Hmm like u said u didnt give her attention for awhile so she maybe giving you the cold shoulders on ur needs. Slowly compensate the relationship by spending more quality time. She loves u she eventually will give you what u want.

I was on e too busy withh work and wife and myself sort of lost the passion in bed. Took awhile and lots of effort (like what the bros here said, go out accompany her, give her romantic and stuff) to get thinks back to normal.

Mountain · #35 14-11-2013, 07:53 AM

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Originally Posted by ViperX7

Sharing my story here too. My gf is a strictly no sex before marriage girl too. But we don't even do much petting. We've French but that's about the most we've done. Still trying to go onto the next level. But still no luck.

I feel you bro. Sometimes when you are horny and have the urge to release and you feel the righteous way is to service by your gf. But because of her principle you can only take it or leave it. No choice, not even hj, bj, and like you said much petting.

Augustus · #36 15-11-2013, 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by ViperX7

Sharing my story here too. My gf is a strictly no sex before marriage girl too. But we don't even do much petting. We've French but that's about the most we've done. Still trying to go onto the next level. But still no luck.

same situation bro. no sex before marriage. but the thing is, bros who once had other gf and had sex before will wish that the current gf is willing to give too. but.......why are we in such a situation....viperx7...

ViperX7 · #37 17-11-2013, 12:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Mountain

I feel you bro. Sometimes when you are horny and have the urge to release and you feel the righteous way is to service by your gf. But because of her principle you can only take it or leave it. No choice, not even hj, bj, and like you said much petting.

Yeah so true. When you are in the mood but she doesn't let you do anything. So frustrated.

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Originally Posted by Augustus

same situation bro. no sex before marriage. but the thing is, bros who once had other gf and had sex before will wish that the current gf is willing to give too. but.......why are we in such a situation....viperx7...

That sucks man. Change gf? Unless you're really into her.

MrStyleKing · #38 17-11-2013, 02:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Jizzer

Hi all,

I guess here is the only place for me to vent my frustration!

We have not been having sex for about 1 month plus already!
Sometimes this really made me no choice but to DIY, felt so pathetic and it's really not pleasing enough!

Talk to her about it but end up telling me, no feeling, too tired... worst still sometimes even got push away when I becoming touchy to get the ball rolling...

Super siann...! what to do?!

Go Geylang TS

handsomeboy888 · #39 17-11-2013, 09:33 AM

Bro, Please find out the true reason why she is not giving you sex. There surely be a reason why she is behaving like that.

Augustus · #40 17-11-2013, 11:43 AM

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Originally Posted by ViperX7

Yeah so true. When you are in the mood but she doesn't let you do anything. So frustrated.

That sucks man. Change gf? Unless you're really into her.

change gf for sex is quite.... hais

well.. many reasons, if she is christian?

virginmama · #41 17-11-2013, 11:54 AM

why dont you talk heart to hearth with her...see what reasons she give you

PPGirl · #42 17-11-2013, 12:19 PM

keep hearing guys saying gfs not giving.. this & that.

did u know actual reason of y she is not giving? It might be your fault??
If u are a understanding bf..i believe this thread wont be started at all or ts..are u trying to find new ways to relieve urself?? Thus seeking for more advices here whether other bros have any lobangs to intro? lol

cpcpcp91 · #43 17-11-2013, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Augustus

qn to those bros, if you gf don't give you, and you are sick of DIY, will you turn to FL?

my friend got gf, very accomodating one. all the time is boom boom. but when she go out of tow for holiday or visit family, he will jio me to go and play

think its more a matter of appetite, my friend is just straight-up about it, told me he needs variety. maybe TS really wants a change? though he should try to work things out first if he treasure this r/s.