Rejected until buay tahan - Page 3

Krazzie · #31 16-08-2011, 10:02 PM

Bro relax lah.. this kind of thing the more you want the more stressed and pressured you feel the harder to get...

Like me I am a joke to some of my friends cause I get MILF FBs easily whereas not able to get a single gf.

Just take life easy bah.

Rally · #32 16-08-2011, 11:15 PM

bro don give up the whole forest of one tree. just two time reject doesnt means that u cant find one gf over the long run. Somemore u r just 25, still young and have a long way to go. just like wat some bro have say, go take up some course so that u can mingle with more pple and who knows that your mrs right may come along the way. cheer up man....

Sporty · #33 16-08-2011, 11:26 PM

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Originally Posted by sexonair

Edward,

You're only 25, just rejected twice only and feel so disheartened!
As Singaporean guys, we're one of the luckiest, because no need for us to leave Singapore, there're so many foreign women in Singapore for us to choose, I mean the non-chicken type.

Some good ways to meet girls I can think off. Join some hobby clubs, join some voluntary groups where you can meet a lot of people and working with them, while doing so, you no need to find excuse in getting close to them, if you're a Christian, from this Sunday onwards, go to church every Sunday, church is a good place for meeting decent girls, enroll in those dance class, yoga classes, cooking lessons, or when holidays, join tour groups, sure you can meet lots of girls, during tour, people are usually more receptive to each other

Don't give up, have faith in yourself!

I totally agreed here.
Church is e best place. Reali.
I'm not a Christian thou. N yet to frequent churches as well. But overall, wat suggested here are great ideas.
I lik u. Older than u. But dun understand y I can't find a gf too. Maybe my standards abit high ba. Dun dare to tink too much. Puttin it as it is for now.

Good Luck!!

saintdevil · #34 17-08-2011, 02:15 AM

I read before this few great phrase and i think its pretty true.

People don't care about what you think until you show them how much you care.

Until you do what you love, you wouldn't find someone that love you for what you are.

25 is a bit too early to cry hopeless.

orneryjoe · #35 17-08-2011, 03:39 AM

Actually you don't know how lucky you are. Marriage is over-rated. Many bros here can tell you that. After some time, the loving stops... the sex evaporates. Unless you really want to start a family, you don't really need a girlfriend or wife. Sex workers can give you a very good time. And you can enjoy a variety of them. Why bother to be hitched to one woman for life? Been there, done that... and it's really boring.

If I start my life over, I wouldn't ever marry... not even to the most beautiful gal in the world.

cavemanng · #36 17-08-2011, 07:27 AM

There is always this saying:

Girlfriend is like credit card, the first is always hard to get but once you get it, the rest just keep coming to you.

Depending on who is ur target, humorous alone may/ may not help. Being very rich definitely helps.

coleman77 · #37 17-08-2011, 07:59 AM

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Originally Posted by edwardlim

Very disappointed and sad. I'm already 25 and yet no gf til now. got rejected twice, missed out on confession once..

Did everything i could, consult so many people tat i can think of. end up just fail n fail.. I'm average looking, tall, got stable job, humorous. But gals just keep telling me that we should remain as good friend.. very emo...

i'm so pissed that i just feel like going around engaging FL service n give up on relationship already.

Bro, I guess you are not alone in terms of facing rejection but someone you like. I face many rejection as well. However, do not be discourage. Just like nature takes it course, whatever will be will be. Go for fl or use your palm when you are horny, it will help you de-stress. Sometime it's not about you or the qualties you have, the will attract girls, I guess it's also the chemistry between the 2 of plays a part as well. To tell you the truth, it's better for she loves you more than the other way round. Trust me, I speak from experience. Therefore, don't have to worry you will find someone. If there is any comfort in this, I am a late starter in relationship as well. Take your time, enjoy friendship first.

kinbaku · #38 17-08-2011, 08:08 AM

When you have the money the girls will flock to you even if you ate old and ugly.

numb3ers · #39 17-08-2011, 09:23 AM

Bro, you are still young. Have you tried other country's beside local?

There are some quite nice PRC(Not FL) out there too.

ThaiBeautiful · #40 17-08-2011, 09:27 AM

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Originally Posted by orneryjoe

Actually you don't know how lucky you are. Marriage is over-rated. Many bros here can tell you that. After some time, the loving stops... the sex evaporates. Unless you really want to start a family, you don't really need a girlfriend or wife. Sex workers can give you a very good time. And you can enjoy a variety of them. Why bother to be hitched to one woman for life? Been there, done that... and it's really boring.

If I start my life over, I wouldn't ever marry... not even to the most beautiful gal in the world.

Well said.
but Marriage keeps you bonded to someone till old age....

If you old man, u know u still got your family there.

owl888 · #41 17-08-2011, 09:39 AM

Dear TS,
Rejections are part and parcel of life.
Buay tahan, u can find pro or pcc yourself

So wat's the BIG deal?

U r a man!

Dhornyboy · #42 17-08-2011, 09:45 AM

bro, i dont know many times i have been rejected. lol its like applying for jobs.. you get it sometimes.. and other times they think they have a better choice.

it doesnt mean the girl will sex u once you stead her. it doesnt mean you will marry her and love each other forever as well.

dont try to play the nice guy when talking to girls.

nice guys type dont attract girls i am sure. you need to play with them..

wanderer23 · #43 17-08-2011, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by edwardlim

i'm so pissed that i just feel like going around engaging FL service n give up on relationship already.

TS from this sentence of yours it appears that you are looking for sex from a relationship rather than the emotional feelings.

If you're looking for sex then just engage a FL and get it over with no hassle no pain. If you are looking for emotional feelings then you shouldn't be looking for FLs.

And the worst thing that can happen is if you start to have emotional feelings for an FL who dun love you back but just want your money.

Dun fall into the KC trap

SuperFAT · #44 17-08-2011, 09:55 AM

Bro,when the time is ripe , the girl will appear. Maybe she's around u all the while, just that you never notice or she did not express. You said u had a couple of good female friends, maybe they are the one as well. From my experience, never show interest until u know is a confirm strike win! Try asking a few girls out. See what they want in life, talk to them, ask about them rather the talking about yourself. Girls like to in the center of attraction, when you ask questions about them, it showed them that you are interested to know them more than just bedding them. Just google online and remember a few questions to ask the girls. Once you are able to get the first date, you have the chance. The rest is left your charistma and goodwill.

machinehead1234 · #45 17-08-2011, 02:15 PM

Well, there is no one formula to attract girls. Even the most good looking guy sometimes have difficulties getting a girl, as to women it is very little about looks. Likewise, even if you are wealthy. Some women prefer simple guys and not the flashy, BMW-driving, Rolex-wearing hotshot. Too intimidating for some.

Point is, sell your strengths, minimise your weaknesses. Set your expectations lower and always be confident but humble not cocky. Am sure you will attract the right type of women. Good luck!