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Originally Posted by stiffness
I have the same problem - mixture of performance anxiety, familiarity with one's masturbatory hand, and must be in the right state of mind. Plus I'm mid 40s so got age related sex problem coming up too.
I tried FL twice, both times hot chicks, but cannot get hard or cannot cum. Very frustrating.
For HJ massage ladies or FL, some can do it some can't, a few can make me cum quickly but those are rare. Most complain hand almost want to cramp up.
But with FB no problem, can get hard easily and can cum too but I still take a while to cum, and usually must have visual stimulus like porn.
I think for me, age is one factor, obesity another, anxiety another, I am too used to wanking off myself, porn addiction another haha. No simple solution for people like us lor.
FYI I tried juagen (search for shakyywayy's ladies), they can 'restore' the hardness and stamina of the cock... I notice my cock is harder after a JG and can stand hard longer.. but still, to cum needs a particular way of stroking it.
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Think you got it spot on, it is mostly mental and long-term masturbation has caused a negative effect. Maybe can try quitting porn, everything takes time... trying to live a healthier lifestyle also helps.
It is not a matter of cum faster, when you ask those with similar problems to pcc, they can cum in less than 5 mins... is the mind and cock is too used to a certain kind of motion. The cure will be time itself, and a good quality of time spent, meaning to spend time with real woman only when it comes to sex. When managed to cum with a BJ then try FJ, until then, dun think about pcc.
25-11-2013, 08:07 PM
