Would you marry a divorcee?

[NewandLost]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

Man! For the sake of discussion, think we need not be too quick & even too harsh to judge them as used cars or garbage collectors.

I believe every divorced couple when they were tying their knots and exchanging vows, saying "I DO" not "I TOOT", they did expect that they would be happy in their marriage, somehow, somewhere, things just didn't work out along the road...

Although personally I won't tread on this path (as per my previous post in this thread) but If any of my friends really fall in love and marrying one, I wish them well and happily everafter.

braddah icio, i see your point but still they wed and cause a wreck. now this braddah invest his time in a used car. body maybe look good but the car have frame damage. i still think like its picking gold in garbage dump. if you have the time for it and can handle the mental and financial baggage of someone elses mistakes then more power to you. i say take the easy way and buy new car and not sift through rubbish. to each his own.

[jimboy_203]

new and lost . 100% agree with you. my eye paste stamp when i was much younger in my late 20's. dated a very capable career single mon; dont want to repeat myself- guess you know how stupid I am investing time on her. I have since moved on and married a kampong girl . I am happily married now. nothing to complaint.

[Oralcraz]

Originally Posted by Flinger2

Hi,
Would appreciate your comments?
I feel that they would be stuck in their past relationships and get emotional.
Also scars from previous marriage that can impact you.
Also if she divorce because she cannot seem to work out things with the guy, wouldn't see divorce again at the slightest problem?

Divorcee, widow or single, LOVE has got no barrier, somewhat intangible. If you truly love her and she is sincere to you, then go for it. However, marriage is tangible. There is real commitment, responsiblities and duties. Along it comes with stress, pressure and sacrifices. In yr case, you have to be mentally prepared for the scenario ahead, good or not. Good luck.

[Oralcraz]

Originally Posted by hugs

my former man has left us for 3.5 yrs now . kids have long forgotten he existed . he wasnt much of a father since they were toddlers . actually they are the one rushing me to get the divorce n move on . teens in this generation are more exposed than my generation . i am the one not sure where to go from here . kids think i wasted enough n i shd start living for msyelf . i dont know how to do that at this age n not exactly single .

There are many different cases involving divorce and yr case is one of the more straight forward one. You also have the moral support of yr children. So, honestly, I don't see you having a problem if you find another partner. Best wishes.

[NoviceMonster]

I don't c why we should treat a divorcee differently, they are still a human, they still deserve to be love.
If you do love her, there is no reason why you can't marry her.
please be fair.

[jimboy_203]

Love between teens is called puppy love, -- In fact you cannot called it love, it should be 'like' or infactuation. When you are in the 20s, you enjoy the company of opposite sex with no commitment. As you grew older, you dont fuck for free anymore, the opposite sex demand you some form of comitment. Thats when you have to make choices-- selective f**king/ controlled f**king or mass f**king. Divorcee have nothing to lose since he or she has already failed once in their marriage. He or she will not mind trying out with you to see if it works.

I have to say you either have be BRAVE soul or real STUPID to be in a such a relationship. In any case the divorcee still wins no matter what relationship he/she is in. You on the other hand 'loo gee'

[Green Smoke]

why not,if it is true love.
but the best is still if both have no children from either previous marriage.
just my 2 cents opinion.