woes of a tirak

[suteerak1099]

having mentioned wat i posted, m nt saying that its a sure bet that she's being true n sincere about the relationship despite doing the things i stated. all i can say is she's at least putting in some effort to justify the lies that she cooks up for u...

surely by now we're quite familiar about the ratio of $ she gets for every bonk/ON fee. for her to go to the extent of refunding us to come visit would mean she'd have to work. n quite honestly, if she gotta do that to 3 or 4 regulars.. then its better off if she dun work at all.. cos no more income. in doing so, it just proves that u're perhaps her number 1... for now.

its impossible for the WL to invest 100% trust in a cheongster.. neither can a cheongster invest 100% in a WL. its just a vicious cycle if 1 party is not willing to compromise. it'd be the WL that stands to gain at the end of the day.

just compare the hit rate. she's getting paid/tipped/pampered on avg 15-20 bonks (or more) per day. works literally 28 days a month (assuming she ang zui 3-4 days every mth), while we on the other hand r paying/tipping/pampering the WL for bonks.. how many WL can u afford to be tirak with... while the WL on the other hand is receiving more than she's giving. by this little summary.. i think its quite obvious who's heart will be smashed if things dont work out.

another pt to add, even after she ORD.. there's no telling if she's got a chain of willing sponsors/"tiraks", who'd visit her on random basis...hence becoming her streaming source of residual income.

if wanna be in the whirlpool of tiraking.. really gotta be prepared for some gut flipping roller coaster ride+mind pulvarizing mind games+balls/ego shattering resolutions+shrinking heart shredding disappointments...etc.

watever it is.. if cant handle... dun mess w fire...

[mysterious]

so let me conclude...

tiraking in Cat40 brings u nothing but woes... money woes, ego woes, emotional woes, disease woes, communication woes etc.... nothing's really mentioned about the joy/advantages/benefits of tiraking in Cat40... so why bury ourselves in it anymore?

are foreign imports really better? i say: Buy Singapore.

With local gals:

There will be no language, cultural, educational differences.

No need to learn a new language.

No need to spend $40 just to see her.

No need to wake up and drive down to geylang on weekends '7 early 8 early' to go out with her.

No need to wait until 2am to wait for her phone call.

No need to worry about other tiraks.

No need to wait outside her house for other people to finish fucking her before you can fuck her.

No need to open a phone line for her.

No need to buy gifts for her.

No need to do guard duty.

Can bring home and meet parents. You can meet her parents too easily. Not just hear their voices.

Can fuck without time limit and worry about 'tor lop'.

Can ON with them FOC and not get booted out by 10am and then see some weird maniac doing guard duty outside eyeing you suspiciously.

But if die die you want foreign import, the better way is to go thailand and visit their kampongs and find those chio ones. Then jio them to be your tiraks before the local OKT can lay their hands on them.

[ruhua]

Originally Posted by mysterious

Can ON with them FOC and not get booted out by 10am and then see some weird maniac doing guard duty outside eyeing you suspiciously.

Who could this stalker be?

Originally Posted by mysterious

But if die die you want foreign import, the better way is to go thailand and visit their kampongs and find those chio ones. Then jio them to be your tiraks before the local OKT can lay their hands on them.

Yes fresh from the farm some more. Send for some makeover and viola. You got yourself a personal private whore. Alternatively can source from Vietnam also. Even more swee and fair.

[Bangkok Master]

Originally Posted by mysterious

Can fuck without time limit and worry about 'tor lop'.

I like this one especially cos it made me think back the last time while I was trying to "CUM" and the fucking intercom sounded and killed the momentum. I believe some of the bros here had encounter before.....and the next moment, she will ask her extend 1 more? (tor lop mai) even you're left with the last $40 dollars, I'm sure you will lan lan pay and finish the job................hahaha

[suteerak1099]

having to 'torlop' mid way thru a FJ is quite a norm regardless tirak or not, cos its quite a common thing elsewhere too. bt having to 'torlop' just to talk things out n iron out issues is wat happens when tiraking i sense...as long as u feel the $ is well spent.. then by all means. let it be. if feel the $ is not justified...then dun extend lor.. not as if she hold a knife to ur throat n force u hahaha.

actually the 7early8early to fetch is also at ur own descretion, nt necessary must go gai gai w her, nt necesasry to do guard duty at the house early morning. so wat if u know she's seeing someone else, so wat she lie to u about her activities n agenda for the day...wat benefit u get..? its still LPPL... her winning tagline i believe is:"its my job to satisfy, if u want...wait for me to ORD"

and as some have already mentioned b4, even if u have the patience n balls to wait till she ORD, dont guarantee that she'd be loyal to u. she may already have a pre-arranged marriage in LOS, may already have kids waiting for her to welcome home...or even a longer term tirak than any of us...who's made the biggest sacrifice of permitting her to enter this line...n waiting for the 2yrs for her to ORD.

the WL has 1001 reasons/excuses/lies to deceive... its all up to u.. if u choose to be deceived or not.

[ruhua]

Seriously speaking. With the kind of money you gongtao brothers spent. Why not spend approximately SGD 15K and get a tirak from Vietnam? Private usage some more. Definitely cheaper than Cat40!

Only creating problems for yourself if you choose to vie for public lavatories. Kekekekeke.

[free]

Originally Posted by Bangkok Master

I like this one especially cos it made me think back the last time while I was trying to "CUM" and the fucking intercom sounded and killed the momentum. I believe some of the bros here had encounter before.....and the next moment, she will ask her extend 1 more? (tor lop mai) even you're left with the last $40 dollars, I'm sure you will lan lan pay and finish the job................hahaha

Ever remember a time when u want to extend but knn not enough money so think cannot, but she said nvr mind, she will pay for u? So had another shiok shiok add-on & then another. Then she gave u the money to go downstairs to give to boss! Seems like based on known calculations, she lost $20 during the 3 sessions, cos still cos to pay bozz $60 after deducting her share, is that right?

Sigh, those were the days...Somemore happened a few times , though mostly are 2-session affairs.

Nowadays got FOC, but FOC really does cost more

[Bangkok Master]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

having to 'torlop' mid way thru a FJ is quite a norm regardless tirak or not, cos its quite a common thing elsewhere too. bt having to 'torlop' just to talk things out n iron out issues is wat happens when tiraking i sense...as long as u feel the $ is well spent.. then by all means. let it be. if feel the $ is not justified...then dun extend lor.. not as if she hold a knife to ur throat n force u hahaha.

actually the 7early8early to fetch is also at ur own descretion, nt necessary must go gai gai w her, nt necesasry to do guard duty at the house early morning. so wat if u know she's seeing someone else, so wat she lie to u about her activities n agenda for the day...wat benefit u get..? its still LPPL... her winning tagline i believe is:"its my job to satisfy, if u want...wait for me to ORD"

and as some have already mentioned b4, even if u have the patience n balls to wait till she ORD, dont guarantee that she'd be loyal to u. she may already have a pre-arranged marriage in LOS, may already have kids waiting for her to welcome home...or even a longer term tirak than any of us...who's made the biggest sacrifice of permitting her to enter this line...n waiting for the 2yrs for her to ORD.

the WL has 1001 reasons/excuses/lies to deceive... its all up to u.. if u choose to be deceived or not.

Sounds like you're one of the "Sad Stories" who had already given up on tirakship program. But life still goes on............with another lady!

[Bangkok Master]

Originally Posted by free

Nowadays got FOC, but FOC really does cost more

FOC nowdays doesn't stand for "FREE OF CHARGE" already, it had been change to "FOLLOW ONLY CASH". That's why your foc cost really more.....

So how's your LDTR faring? When due for graduation?

[ruhua]

Originally Posted by Bangkok Master

FOC nowdays doesn't stand for "FREE OF CHARGE" already, it had been change to "FOLLOW ONLY CASH". That's why your foc cost really more.....

So how's your LDTR faring? When due for graduation?

How's your Humiliation Master Degree thesis?

[free]

Originally Posted by Bangkok Master

FOC nowdays doesn't stand for "FREE OF CHARGE" already, it had been change to "FOLLOW ONLY CASH". That's why your foc cost really more.....

So how's your LDTR faring? When due for graduation?

Thanks. Haha, no nasty surprises so far; I got what I expected & more.

The LDTR is going real well. This time definitely both parties putting in the effort. We often discussed the things that we do that may cause the other party to get upset/hurt and leave it to the other to do what is right (we call it tam dtua eng). So far so good. A couple of small quarrels that gets solved in minutes, as the approach is right for us - focus on doing it right the next time round. Had one big one recently (me the culprit), and really hurt her, but I was glad she got over it within an of hour when I called her again later as she need to cool down for a while. It was nice of one of her married sis (my fav one) to talk to her and also explain to me, and in the end, brought us closer. Nice when family members are for the r/s.

Still got some occasional language issues whereby acceptable english phrases (for most Singaporeans) translated directly into Thai has different implications, sometimes more serious/rude/hurtful in Thai or vice versa. Or sometimes she forgot I am not a native thai and goes into bullet speed and I can't catch her.

Graduation - What is that? U mean Dteng Ngan? We are seriously walking towards our desire to get hitched. Actually I was considering Ku-man 1st but she thought it would be double-spending money and sia dai ngen. In response to my idea to 1st purchase our own accomodation before getting hitched, she said she is ok with us renting until the timing is better for me, so as not to put so much pressure on me, and she is worried about me over-working. Glad am I, for it would be hard to get this response from many TGs, let alone an SG gal.

Her main worry now is that it will be hard for her to live together with me now (when I go up to live) as if we are already married when we are not, and the longer we wait, the more difficult it becomes as ppl/distant relatives will start gossiping. And I hate to be under a shroud of secrecy anyway so I too am considering a earlier rather than later date. Maybe won't have all that I want (or am used to) as yet, but that is OK as we can be at least be together and do whatever we want to do openly, w/o fear of gossip, whatever. Actually we already see the light at the end of our tunnel. Now it is a matter of preserving/enhancing the way the LDTR is progressing, and get the career/biz thing on a steady track, then port over to LOS. Once done, its all systems go.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by Bangkok Master

Sounds like you're one of the "Sad Stories" who had already given up on tirakship program. But life still goes on............with another lady!

sorry to paint the wrong image for u guys, i think me n my gal still doing quite alright. bt the worry is just that things will be messy when she ORD n return to LOS. it will soon be a pressure for me to get myself established in LOS asap. gotta gear up for the change soon...

its the final countdown...

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

sorry to paint the wrong image for u guys, i think me n my gal still doing quite alright. bt the worry is just that things will be messy when she ORD n return to LOS. it will soon be a pressure for me to get myself established in LOS asap. gotta gear up for the change soon...

its the final countdown...

SO what are you gearing up for changes at the moment?

SC

[Bangkok Master]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

SO what are you gearing up for changes at the moment?

SC

Probably he's gearing how to be a real "Thai Man" in order to fit into the thai society. It's funny that he's so pessimistic and yet want to fight the way out, it shows that once you're into "Tirakship", you lost in it!

Like in Thai: Long Puying Thai, Long Cheewit Tua Eng Pai Duay!
(Lost in Thai Girls, Lost in your life as well)

[free]

Originally Posted by Bangkok Master

Like in Thai: Long Puying Thai, Long Cheewit Tua Eng Pai Duay!
(Lost in Thai Girls, Lost in your life as well)

Throwing this in for good measure:

Puying Dtua Jing Pop Jer Laew, Gor Mee Cheewit Mai Duay
(After Meet the real McCoy, then got new life oso).

Just hope I dun have to eat my words, cos nothing is impossible
Can only say so far so good, and seems to be getting better, even though also got minor bumps here & there.