Did I kena the KC Trap?

[ianrush]

Originally Posted by trichard

大哥 ： 一定要记得。。不可做个负心人。对妻。
这个臭名到你死后。。也不会消失。。。
你70岁的时候也被人瞧不起。。。。
I
不划算。

划算 or not shouldn’t be the right word to advise him bro. 不值得 should be more 恰当。I got advise bro Thelostone the same thing too in PM. The things that we do for a ML, sometimes we got to take a breather and step back, to think back whether is it worth it or not to be playing this game.

Ultimately you might think that the ML and you yourself believe that it’s fate that brought both of you together. That she will change her job in the future for your sake, and she in turn will request you to leave your family for her sake.

Sometimes I believe falling in love with your ML need not be together after all. Being together, the wild nights in a room yes, but being together with a lady in long term as a couple staying under one roof are 2 different matters.

If you believe in fate, then the actual real fate was when you married your Wife. The real fate was when God had given you lovely children. You can hurt your Wife by divorcing her, but can you bear to hurt your children by divorcing their mum? Think again. Think hard. Sex will dwindle. The drive and sex excitement will diminish with ML over time. But the love and respect that your children and Wife has for you as a Father/Hubby will never disappear. It is for eternity. This IS the real fate.

To end it off, I recommend any Bros who are in this predicament to listen to 萧亚轩 - 错的人。Some verse extract: “明知道爱情并不牢靠 但是我还是拼命往里跳 明知道再走可能是监牢...明知道你是错的人 明知道这不是缘分 但我还是奋不顾身...”
And yes this 监牢 is really a life sentence. Like what bro trichard said 到你死后...

[trichard]

Originally Posted by ianrush

划算 or not shouldn’t be the right word to advise him bro. 不值得 should be more 恰当。I got advise bro Thelostone the same thing too in PM. The things that we do for a ML, sometimes we got to take a breather and step back, to think back whether is it worth it or not to be playing this game.

Ultimately you might think that the ML and you yourself believe that it’s fate that brought both of you together. That she will change her job in the future for your sake, and she in turn will request you to leave your family for her sake.

Sometimes I believe falling in love with your ML need not be together after all. Being together, the wild nights in a room yes, but being together with a lady in long term as a couple staying under one roof are 2 different matters.

If you believe in fate, then the actual real fate was when you married your Wife. The real fate was when God had given you lovely children. You can hurt your Wife by divorcing her, but can you bear to hurt your children by divorcing their mum? Think again. Think hard. Sex will dwindle. The drive and sex excitement will diminish with ML over time. But the love and respect that your children and Wife has for you as a Father/Hubby will never disappear. It is for eternity. This IS the real fate.

To end it off, I recommend any Bros who are in this predicament to listen to 萧亚轩 - 错的人。Some verse extract: “明知道爱情并不牢靠 但是我还是拼命往里跳 明知道再走可能是监牢...明知道你是错的人 明知道这不是缘分 但我还是奋不顾身...”
And yes this 监牢 is really a life sentence. Like what bro trichard said 到你死后...

Agree... Should be 值得吗.
But still... Will have man 心干情愿..sad case also.

My friend also say to me the same thing over and over again.... If you die now... who will be by your side ??? Do you want them to feel shame of you ???

Put all these together... Still ML ?

[Thelostone188]

Originally Posted by ianrush

划算 or not shouldn’t be the right word to advise him bro. 不值得 should be more 恰当。I got advise bro Thelostone the same thing too in PM. The things that we do for a ML, sometimes we got to take a breather and step back, to think back whether is it worth it or not to be playing this game.

Ultimately you might think that the ML and you yourself believe that it’s fate that brought both of you together. That she will change her job in the future for your sake, and she in turn will request you to leave your family for her sake.

Sometimes I believe falling in love with your ML need not be together after all. Being together, the wild nights in a room yes, but being together with a lady in long term as a couple staying under one roof are 2 different matters.

If you believe in fate, then the actual real fate was when you married your Wife. The real fate was when God had given you lovely children. You can hurt your Wife by divorcing her, but can you bear to hurt your children by divorcing their mum? Think again. Think hard. Sex will dwindle. The drive and sex excitement will diminish with ML over time. But the love and respect that your children and Wife has for you as a Father/Hubby will never disappear. It is for eternity. This IS the real fate.

To end it off, I recommend any Bros who are in this predicament to listen to 萧亚轩 - 错的人。Some verse extract: “明知道爱情并不牢靠 但是我还是拼命往里跳 明知道再走可能是监牢...明知道你是错的人 明知道这不是缘分 但我还是奋不顾身...”
And yes this 监牢 is really a life sentence. Like what bro trichard said 到你死后...

You are right bro.. I need to make a plan, cut and go cold turkey.
算我对不起她了，只怪有缘无份。

[trichard]

Originally Posted by thelostone188

you are right bro.. I need to make a plan, cut and go cold turkey.
算我对不起她了，只怪有缘无份。

不容易.............

[trichard]

Originally Posted by Thelostone188

You are right bro.. I need to make a plan, cut and go cold turkey.
算我对不起她了，只怪有缘无份。

不容易。Esspexially already 肉体关系..... spiritually you are hook...

I think I am lucky that not yet fuck stage..

Anyway good luck.. and I think you have a long endurance ahead .....

[Thelostone188]

Originally Posted by ianrush

划算 or not shouldn’t be the right word to advise him bro. 不值得 should be more 恰当。I got advise bro Thelostone the same thing too in PM. The things that we do for a ML, sometimes we got to take a breather and step back, to think back whether is it worth it or not to be playing this game.

Ultimately you might think that the ML and you yourself believe that it’s fate that brought both of you together. That she will change her job in the future for your sake, and she in turn will request you to leave your family for her sake.

Sometimes I believe falling in love with your ML need not be together after all. Being together, the wild nights in a room yes, but being together with a lady in long term as a couple staying under one roof are 2 different matters.

If you believe in fate, then the actual real fate was when you married your Wife. The real fate was when God had given you lovely children. You can hurt your Wife by divorcing her, but can you bear to hurt your children by divorcing their mum? Think again. Think hard. Sex will dwindle. The drive and sex excitement will diminish with ML over time. But the love and respect that your children and Wife has for you as a Father/Hubby will never disappear. It is for eternity. This IS the real fate.

To end it off, I recommend any Bros who are in this predicament to listen to 萧亚轩 - 错的人。Some verse extract: “明知道爱情并不牢靠 但是我还是拼命往里跳 明知道再走可能是监牢...明知道你是错的人 明知道这不是缘分 但我还是奋不顾身...”
And yes this 监牢 is really a life sentence. Like what bro trichard said 到你死后...

Listen to that song. 唱到我心里。
“在爱里连真心都不能给。。”

It hurts.

[Thelostone188]

Originally Posted by trichard

不容易。Esspexially already 肉体关系..... spiritually you are hook...

I think I am lucky that not yet fuck stage..

Anyway good luck.. and I think you have a long endurance ahead .....

Thanks bro.. you better not. Messy road ahead for me. Holding a timebomb in my hand

[trichard]

Originally Posted by Thelostone188

Thanks bro.. you better not. Messy road ahead for me. Holding a timebomb in my hand

Good luck too...

I cannot imaging those time you and her shower and make love.. you cum and hug her those thinking keep repeating in mind ... Really toture...

Take care ... Also to Palvin.

[ianrush]

Originally Posted by Thelostone188

Listen to that song. 唱到我心里。
“在爱里连真心都不能给。。”

It hurts.

Ya lor it hurts I know. But we Bros should count ourselves lucky that we have the earning power. All these actually could be put to better use, like enriching our kids education or bringing our family out for lavish meals. But instead, we spent on ML.

Is it really true love? Or have we reversed the process? We paid the ML for making love. Another song 温岚 - 眼泪知道 “这个世界什么爱你买不到...”

True love is: 1) We get to know a ger 2) We date her 3) We fell in love with her 4) We make love.

Paid love is (reversed): 1) We pay $ to make love 2) Hence we fell in love with ML 3) We go dating with ML 4) We get to know her better in the process

[trichard]

Originally Posted by ianrush

Ya lor it hurts I know. But we Bros should count ourselves lucky that we have the earning power. All these actually could be put to better use, like enriching our kids education or bringing our family out for lavish meals. But instead, we spent on ML.

Is it really true love? Or have we reversed the process? We paid the ML for making love. Another song 温岚 - 眼泪知道 “这个世界什么爱你买不到...”

True love is: 1) We get to know a ger 2) We date her 3) We fell in love with her 4) We make love.

Paid love is (reversed): 1) We pay $ to make love 2) Hence we fell in love with ML 3) We go dating with ML 4) We get to know her better in the process

棒... Like your analysis.

[Thelostone188]

Originally Posted by ianrush

Ya lor it hurts I know. But we Bros should count ourselves lucky that we have the earning power. All these actually could be put to better use, like enriching our kids education or bringing our family out for lavish meals. But instead, we spent on ML.

Is it really true love? Or have we reversed the process? We paid the ML for making love. Another song 温岚 - 眼泪知道 “这个世界什么爱你买不到...”

True love is: 1) We get to know a ger 2) We date her 3) We fell in love with her 4) We make love.

Paid love is (reversed): 1) We pay $ to make love 2) Hence we fell in love with ML 3) We go dating with ML 4) We get to know her better in the process

Great analysis as always.

For me, I think it’s more of
1) We pay $ to make love 2) We get to know her better in the process 3) We go dating with ML 4) We fell in love

[trichard]

Originally Posted by Thelostone188

Great analysis as always.

For me, I think it’s more of
1) We pay $ to make love 2) We get to know her better in the process 3) We go dating with ML 4) We fell in love

Then I am in shit....

Because me doesn't have step 1.... (Not those fj MP).

And ...we go thru 2 as friend chat.... Became a daily caring to her... And she feels good too..... Like me also.. stage 4.

We might into stage 3 soon.... Will ended in stage 1 ????

Became true love...

On shit...

[trichard]

No update from any Brother liao..

[sinkwc]

Bro how not to tink that the ML is working n touch by other man?

[GR888]

Originally Posted by sinkwc

Bro how not to tink that the ML is working n touch by other man?

Why should it bother you so much? She’ll be disappointed (or even angry) if her customers decline specials & refuse to get intimate & dirty with her. No specials means wasted time & missed opportunities to earn moola. You think she cares what you are going through in your mind.

Just look at things from the kinky perspective. Picture this... imagine a fat, scruffy & balding 65-y.o. Chinese towkay ravaging her juicy tits & sucking away at her erect nipples, running his filthy hands all over her milky naked skin. Then, against the backdrop of her horny moans, she gleefully spreads her legs & directs his coarse finger into her wet pussy, whispering filthy sweet-nothings into his ear at the same time.

Or a dark-skinned sweaty, burly & hairy Indian rolly polly doing the doggie on her as she calls on him to ram her harder & make her cum. Then happily switching to cowgirl; sluttily impaling her cheebye into his dark rod; buckling & riding him like a rodeo champion as he squeezes her tits & pinches her nipples for all his money’s worth.

Porn movie stuff siol! Just thinking about it makes me wanna go bang my favourite MLs nooowwww!!! OK, all this aside. Seriously, their main (or sole) objective is to make money, as much as possible in as short a time available. How & what you think is the least of their concerns (if at all). That’s the brutal hard truth that any would be KC victim has to accept. Keep matters of the heart safely locked away.