Advise please

For your case, 1 major mistake we always make is becoming to attached to the goal that we lose sight of the purpose. They are different. The goal or the objective is what we are trying to attain and the purpose is why. So whatever is your decision, make sure you identify the real purpose before doing it.

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by singrakthai

seens like a never ending thread... do get suspicious if u see little toys (toy cars, dolls, etc) in her room... and on her alter, of little child idol.... maybe she got gu man thong.. but i'm not sure if gu man thong has that kinda power to keep u other spell...
Also........... can i ask 1 offensive question? Did u ever check her passport? Is she a "she"? Cos I do know of ladyboys wanting very much to marry s'poreans.. i even had an offer before, that "she" will pay me 1 million baht, if i marry her... this is because in s'pore, if u ever marry a ladyboy, under our law, she'll be able to change her ID from "male" to "female"... well, thats what "she" told me anyway.... but heck, if u don't mind, then who's to say its wrong?
I don't know whether all these are revelant but Jun|ch| seens very obcessed already...
sathu

yes i did checked her passport...she is a female.. no worries...in fact she allows me to hold onto her ID card and i have it with me in my wallet all this while for the past 2months.confirmed she is a female do not worry...

i think i become attached to the goal that i lose sight of the purpose...like what Thaipolice said. Sometimes i feels so lost.Maybe cos i am out of job currently and have too much time to think nonsense

[lawry]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

me unable to work in thailand as i am still green as someone had mentioned to me.

Not true.

If u have more than 5 years of working experience with a big mnc.. graudate..

You can find any job search company there and tries to apply for a job in a mnc.. if u are willing to accept a local term why not.. U speak good english. good working knowledge. U definately are able to find a job in a MNC over in thailand.. or any thai company that are expanding. You strength will be good command of english and MNC experiences.

Cheers

Lawry

[lawry]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

.Maybe cos i am out of job currently and have too much time to think nonsense

GASP!! young man..u are out of JOB!!!

Please ur first piority is to get a job first.. love comes next..

NO MONEY NO HONEY!!

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

......i think i become attached to the goal that i lose sight of the purpose...like what Thaipolice said. Sometimes i feels so lost.Maybe cos i am out of job currently and have too much time to think nonsense

Try to get yourself occupied with other things like work. It will sure take your mind off your relationship for awhile. Time pass by a bit faster also if you are not thinking about your problem.

[MachoDevilX]

Originally Posted by singrakthai

seens like a never ending thread... do get suspicious if u see little toys (toy cars, dolls, etc) in her room... and on her alter, of little child idol.... maybe she got gu man thong.. but i'm not sure if gu man thong has that kinda power to keep u other spell...

There are definitely a lot of Thai girls who kept Gu Man Thong. So, it's no big deal actually. There is no need for Gu Man Thong to cast other spell to lure guys since their main purpose is not to do that. They are being kept most often is for $$ and luck.

[2-Nights-In-Bkk]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

let me put it straight back to u then... i only paid for her BF first time i saw her. since then all these 3months i been visiting her,whenever she spent days with me,especially this current visit of 2 weeks,the time she spent with me all this while and not going to work,she paid herself all in all the BFs.I never sponsored her all this while. I never paid her even for the first LT i went with her. All this 3 months i only gave her 2 times money out of my 10visits.which was 1000baht twice.And she had spent more than 25000baht in this relationship alone.I never paid her for sex but only paid for my own accomodation and daily expenses.In fact there were twice in BKK i was short of $$ and she helped in paying for the daily expenses and accomodation..Guess she must be really an idoit to spend money on someone she knows she is unable to dig any money out. no offence but this is the truth

ok fine.if tats the case,her hard earned $ of 25k baht is spent on this relationship with u....so wat do u intend to do next?? if i were u,i'll go get a stable job,work hard,earn more money and make this relationship works.....my sincere advise to u is,get a job 1st.....stop going to bkk for the time being......and see how things go.
if u need me to spot check her on your behalf,let me know.i may be going to bkk this mth end.....pm me her working place,number n etc.

[2-Nights-In-Bkk]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

Why? You want to take over ah? and maybe she can also spend 50K on you? kekekekekeke

kekekeke......why not? if got any bkk gals willing to spend 10k baht on me,i kiok tiok gu lan liao.....kekeke........but 10 times out of 10 i go bkk,i spend on gals instead they spend on me.....maybe he andy lau lookalike.....chai mai?....kekeke...

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by lawry

GASP!! young man..u are out of JOB!!!

Please ur first piority is to get a job first.. love comes next..

NO MONEY NO HONEY!!

yah currently awaiting news from my previous co to hire me back...love indeed comes next...

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

Try to get yourself occupied with other things like work. It will sure take your mind off your relationship for awhile. Time pass by a bit faster also if you are not thinking about your problem.

thanks bro...will try to keep myself occupied since there's no way for me to fly there now...haha..think also no use...best is i get my job back

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by 2-Nights-In-Bkk

ok fine.if tats the case,her hard earned $ of 25k baht is spent on this relationship with u....so wat do u intend to do next?? if i were u,i'll go get a stable job,work hard,earn more money and make this relationship works.....my sincere advise to u is,get a job 1st.....stop going to bkk for the time being......and see how things go.
if u need me to spot check her on your behalf,let me know.i may be going to bkk this mth end.....pm me her working place,number n etc.

Are u trying to say it's almost impossible for TG to spend money on guys??she really did spent that amount of money in this relationship and initially i was quite embarrassed to state it in this forum.Due to insufficient funds to substain my stay there a few times,she paid for the accomodation and expenses incurred there. And the recent buddha pendant she made for me the last trip cost 7400baht alone...and i did not give her any gold or diamonds.since i so broke.Bangkok Master can vouch for that since he saw me wearing the pendant when he saw me back then.

yeah trying to get my job back and work hard for the future for myself or for the future of us.If i ever need help i will pm u for sure...at the moment i just think i do not need to spot check her anymore...

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by 2-Nights-In-Bkk

kekekeke......why not? if got any bkk gals willing to spend 10k baht on me,i kiok tiok gu lan liao.....kekeke........but 10 times out of 10 i go bkk,i spend on gals instead they spend on me.....maybe he andy lau lookalike.....chai mai?....kekeke...

is it impossible for a lady to spend money on a man from spore??i am aware of that and sometimes puzzles me. I am not andy lau lookalike..just a average looking guy...

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

is it impossible for a lady to spend money on a man from spore??i am aware of that and sometimes puzzles me. I am not andy lau lookalike..just a average looking guy...

IF the girl spend money on me, I will not post here also. So if u want to post that the girl spend money on you, you must expect all sorts of criticism to come your way. "Wah you very eh sai!" or "Wah you no backbone."

Both comments also is chak you.

I ever kenna where the girl spend money to go out with me. How much I will not say. She love me or not, I don't know, But I know myself I don't love her. The feeling feels a bit fucked up. So if you don't love the girl and the feel fucked up, avoid the girl lor. (Which is what I did) If I love the girl and I have financial difficulties, and she willing to spend money on needs rather than wants, I will accept. But then you also must automatic and go find money. You need to find money, not money come and find you

I am sure the girl when she loves you also hope that you can have enough money to spend on her. Which girl don't?

SC

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

IF the girl spend money on me, I will not post here also. So if u want to post that the girl spend money on you, you must expect all sorts of criticism to come your way. "Wah you very eh sai!" or "Wah you no backbone."

Both comments also is chak you.

I ever kenna where the girl spend money to go out with me. How much I will not say. She love me or not, I don't know, But I know myself I don't love her. The feeling feels a bit fucked up. So if you don't love the girl and the feel fucked up, avoid the girl lor. (Which is what I did) If I love the girl and I have financial difficulties, and she willing to spend money on needs rather than wants, I will accept. But then you also must automatic and go find money. You need to find money, not money come and find you

I am sure the girl when she loves you also hope that you can have enough money to spend on her. Which girl don't?

SC

i do not mind being "chak" anyway...i just to let the brothers know the situation is not what they tot to be ( me sponsoring or giving her money in one way or another ) .that why i reveal the part on her helping out. Yah right now i waiting for news to get my previous job back and hopefully i will be able to make things go right.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

i do not mind being "chak" anyway...i just to let the brothers know the situation is not what they tot to be ( me sponsoring or giving her money in one way or another ) .that why i reveal the part on her helping out. Yah right now i waiting for news to get my previous job back and hopefully i will be able to make things go right.

Don't wait for your previous job. Go get other jobs too meanwhile. You might get a better job instead rather than waiting for the previous one.

Though I don't know the job situation can be applied on girls too.

SC