Those with Fuck Buddies, Little 3s 小三, Friends with benefits fall in....

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by Siriusam

that's why you need to set the ground rules from the very beginning.. that she is just a sex toy, a sex slave and she is to be submissive and obedient to her master at all times. the dom-sub kind of relationship tend to work out very well because it is kinky and never vanilla to begin with.

After knowing my FBs better, this is always the direction I take them with me and it has worked very well. We are adventurous and explore many different kinks, from mild BDSM to threesome to voyuer to whatever you can think of. Like I own her and control every aspect of her life. No CIM? Then you better be slapping the bitch out of her to make her know where she stands.

just my 2cent

let me know in 8 years whether she is still as submissive or taking your slap

anyway I don't demean women. I was born from one.

[Siriusam]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

let me know in 8 years whether she is still as submissive or taking your slap

anyway I don't demean women. I was born from one.

my wife is still after 10 years. I don't demean women either. This is only done behind closed doors and mutual enjoyment. The kink keeps the r/s lasting.

[YELLOW]

been w my fb for 3 yrs . last week jus had her again . always a great fuck. put her on the edge of the bed and made her hold her legs apart for me to pump her pussy hard. all the time we are tongue fighting and my fingers are twisting her nipples reali hard.... she loves pain and pleasure mixes..... 3yrs and we still enjoying sex and most impt each other company.... whereas passion w wife died within 1yr of marriage. .... wtf

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

just in case anyone is thinking of falling for a WL or ex WL or finding anyone out there to replace what you have. remember, everything fresh becomes stale after a while.

This was my gripe some time back. Didn't get anywhere with my fetishes, but well that's the way the cookie crumbles

I have a fetish, nothing over the top but still not able to do them

1. CIM and swallow with my current FB
2. Have sex in the open, like at east coast, in the night, on a mat, yet needing to keep the volume down
3. Have her wear a revealing dress to see her cleavage and be so turned on, to pull aside her g string and fuck her there and then. Perhaps the backdrop is some outdoor setting with a bench.

Few reasons why it's failed. FB relationship over the years has become boring and stale, it's become like a gf and emotional. Sex is stale, chemistry is low, passion is non existent, if we do have sex once in a blue moon, she's lazy.

Proposed 1,2,3 she is not agreeable to 1,2. 3 she said yes, but still not outdoors, but she's hasn't even made the effort to come in costume

so one word. I have a fetish, but no one to fulfil.

[Shadow_warrior]

need to rant so pardon my lamenting

met my ex FB, after years she has become my GF. And as usual she is complaining about her life, work, family etc... as usual. didn't expect her to be in the mood, again as usual.

Sitting in my car, played some videos on WeChat and she was remotely aroused, said wouldn't mind if we get it on. mai tu liao right?

Damn it, was the worst decision I made, and made me swear off sex with her indefinitely
Wanted to rub my dick against her pussy- DONT, Pain.
Wanted her to lick my nipples- 5 secs of a tongue flick
Started the deed and wanted to go a bit faster and cum on her stomach- She said, don't do that, she will have to clean up, so don't cum. I was like WTF?
She said lets go hotel than go all the way, but I know from experience she will be even lazier in the hotel, she will watch TV instead of focusing on us.
So I pulled out for a breather and wanted to go back in, she said she's lost her mood.

Man I was pissed. She's given me shitty sex for the longest time now, so I text her, from now on, let's keep it to movies and meals. Sex is non negotiable because I don't want it anymore from her. She is someone who always promises, NEVER delivers. Promises to suck(rare and far, if there is sucking its a 5 sec commercial), promises to focus and be in the moment, she's always thinking about herself.
She still have the cheek to say I seem to complain a lot.

Fuck!!! If I wanted shitty sex like this, I'd ask my wife for sex, which hasn't happened for 3-6 years now. I forget the exact time frame because it's been that long.

NABEI. Just realized I had written about the situation in this thread, self fulfilling prophesy
https://sammyboy.today/showpost....&postcount=152

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by YELLOW

been w my fb for 3 yrs . last week jus had her again . always a great fuck. put her on the edge of the bed and made her hold her legs apart for me to pump her pussy hard. all the time we are tongue fighting and my fingers are twisting her nipples reali hard.... she loves pain and pleasure mixes..... 3yrs and we still enjoying sex and most impt each other company.... whereas passion w wife died within 1yr of marriage. .... wtf

my FB and I used to have so much passion

we would fuck in the hotel in the morning, waking up just to go to the hotel do transit, go eat lunch, and later check in again to do the deed, surprising the counter staff that we are back.

we would fuck in the hotel and on the way home, want it again and find a carpark to fuck again

What the hell happened to all that passion? After 8 years, She got lazy and takes me for granted. That's when I gave up trying again and again, so I started to outsource my urges.

When life gives you lemons you make lemonades.

Talking about her and my sex life makes me pissed. I have given up on her in the sex realm, and not looking for complications. The easiest way to get your fix, but keep it simple and not be KC or complicated, is to pay for it.

[YELLOW]

bro .... as u say she is a fb .... imagine this is the wife ... stuck w this bitch for life .... worst ! u veri lucky aldy .... JUS CHANGE UR FB

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

my FB and I used to have so much passion

we would fuck in the hotel in the morning, waking up just to go to the hotel do transit, go eat lunch, and later check in again to do the deed, surprising the counter staff that we are back.

we would fuck in the hotel and on the way home, want it again and find a carpark to fuck again

What the hell happened to all that passion? After 8 years, She got lazy and takes me for granted. That's when I gave up trying again and again, so I started to outsource my urges.

When life gives you lemons you make lemonades.

Talking about her and my sex life makes me pissed. I have given up on her in the sex realm, and not looking for complications. The easiest way to get your fix, but keep it simple and not be KC or complicated, is to pay for it.

[VOGS]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

The easiest way to get your fix, but keep it simple and not be KC or complicated, is to pay for it.

I love that statement, pay for it but sometimes paying for the service wouldn't give us the so called gfe that we wanted. My small 3 alrd gotten a bf as mentioned in my previous post in this thread. Having said so, I am still bedding her at least thrice per mth, but of cos money is involved. Really wondered if she is a slut man.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by VOGS

I love that statement, pay for it but sometimes paying for the service wouldn't give us the so called gfe that we wanted. My small 3 alrd gotten a bf as mentioned in my previous post in this thread. Having said so, I am still bedding her at least thrice per mth, but of cos money is involved. Really wondered if she is a slut man.

she is.

aren't you happy you are not the BF and the guy bonking her for money is her current bf?

My little 3 has a fucking shitty past, and at one time she was fucking a jap guy for money, when he was in town, because she was a escort, yet she had a bf. One day the bf found out, and she told him, actually she might have been treating the jap guy as a bf while the current bf is the third party.
Confused right how these WL think?
anyway, made me realize she has no qualms to cheat, 2 time, 3 time, and through the 8 years, she show me she is the same woman I have always suspected her to be

so whenever she says commitment or future or whatever, I remind her, she has given me no reason to trust or have any faith in her and our future.

she shuts up whenever I remind her who she is. Today the glass is broken because she broke it, mend it as much as I try, the cracks are there and we can never pretend it's not.

[Shadow_warrior]

Don't want to start a new Thread so continue my thoughts here

FETISHES UNFULFILLED

Do you have things you wish your little 3, fb, gf, wife did for you but doesn't? what about what you think the ultimate WL should do.

Share them here.

1. I want a longer blowjob, like blow till cim. My current gf doesn't even last 5 secs.
2. I want cim and swallow
3. I want a passionate sex life where the girl is so horny she seems like she wants to eat you up, swallow your cock in her mouth and pussy
4. I want to fuck a girl who is wearing a super thin dress, and g strings and be so aroused from touching her over her dress, that I lift the dress pull aside her g string and fuck her, and cum inside.
5. Love my nipples licked, can't explain it, but my current partner can't do it more than 5 licks
6. Love rubbing my dick head against the pussy outside and against the clit and make it all wet and have her so horny she wants me to push it in
7. Love licking her clit and pussy and she gets so horny she pushes my head to tongue fuck her pushing my tongue in and out.
8. Love to cum inside without that damn rubber, but having a few mishaps, just not worth the grief.

[otamay]

Nice story here, please continue writing.here.

[fmylife]

Been with my 小三 for 4 months plus. Mostly meeting up with her if possible during lunch time and evenings after work if she is not busy. Lucky my work place not too far from here.
Sometimes even helping her with her work and stuff. Even asking me for advise. She doesn't ask me for money only to busy food for her when we eat.
When I am off once a week. She would make sure she does not work on that day and only have clients in the evenings to keep me company, even gets pissed when her 姐妹 disturbs her time with me. and of course we do bonk during my off dayening and everytime we bonk its always long and passionats. With the suckling and bonking getting more intense.(Ok will keep the rest of the details to myself Lol.)
Well she has been telling me stuff that is more personal and even introducing her family to me through WeChat video when she calls them. Openly telling them I am her BF.
Hmmm.... Wonder if any bros here has advise when it comes to this stage?

[lurpsexx]

Originally Posted by fmylife

Been with my 小三 for 4 months plus. Mostly meeting up with her if possible during lunch time and evenings after work if she is not busy. Lucky my work place not too far from here.
Sometimes even helping her with her work and stuff. Even asking me for advise. She doesn't ask me for money only to busy food for her when we eat.
When I am off once a week. She would make sure she does not work on that day and only have clients in the evenings to keep me company, even gets pissed when her 姐妹 disturbs her time with me. and of course we do bonk during my off dayening and everytime we bonk its always long and passionats. With the suckling and bonking getting more intense.(Ok will keep the rest of the details to myself Lol.)
Well she has been telling me stuff that is more personal and even introducing her family to me through WeChat video when she calls them. Openly telling them I am her BF.
Hmmm.... Wonder if any bros here has advise when it comes to this stage?

Shld be a PRC ML?

My advice is to play while still undemanding, but let go once the demands come on.. also, since she's in the service line, dun get too hung up if she's servicing her clients or go out with them.. It's par for the course, n you can't do anything as you're not her legal husband.. Just another bf... Change to another one and dun let her be the one calling the shots..

[fmylife]

Thanks for the advice. Will note if that happens.

Originally Posted by lurpsexx

Shld be a PRC ML?

My advice is to play while still undemanding, but let go once the demands come on.. also, since she's in the service line, dun get too hung up if she's servicing her clients or go out with them.. It's par for the course, n you can't do anything as you're not her legal husband.. Just another bf... Change to another one and dun let her be the one calling the shots..

[fmylife]

So basically this PRC ML I has told me her personal life and a few things that she has to let out to me because she said it is not right for her to keep me in the dark about it.
So am cool that I have found out more on why she is in SG. Wonder if it is leading to something else?

[fmylife]

So just want to check if the 小三 introduce you to her parents and the parents actually asks you to one day go down to her home country to bring you around. Is this getting into her circle more as in trust or there is more than meets the eye?
Just asking for some advise.