What does it mean if you find an empty morning after pill box at home?

[Neoguri]

Originally Posted by xxx_OrOcO_xxx

TS, here's my two cents worth:

- If you wish, have a heart-to-heart talk with your wife, and find out more what she meant by her comment - "afraid of being raped"

- Need to ask yourself honestly, on how you want this marriage to be? Only both of you can answer.

Hope things work out fine for both of you...

Thanks for your advise.
I won't be talking to her again about this.
I had a light-hearted joke with her when we discover this box together then, and I also don't think it helps anything to push and try to find out more details.
Some things are better left unknown, or if known just let it go.

She is a good mother to the kids and had taken care of of them and the household stuff.

[Neoguri]

Originally Posted by snooker

you can buy from China and her lover cannot buy from China and give it to her?? must be from the china trip 10 years ago? it could be last year before covid

You have a point there, there are many possibilities.
She could have bought it or got it from a friend, either locally or during the trip.
Or there could be a lover who got it for her, I will never know.

[hhlover]

jus wondering.. an empty bottle of after morning pill.. wat is there to be worry n wat is the big deal??????
If u find an used condom or few unused condom.. n u dun use it when having sex with yr wife then is big big deal..
Hahaha

[Neoguri]

Originally Posted by hhlover

jus wondering.. an empty bottle of after morning pill.. wat is there to be worry n wat is the big deal??????
If u find an used condom or few unused condom.. n u dun use it when having sex with yr wife then is big big deal..
Hahaha

Haha, you are right.
A used condom is a smoking gun.
Empty pill box is a just a gun.

[phantomboyz]

Originally Posted by Neoguri

Thanks for all your thoughts.
We had been married for 20 years.
I knew the box was from 10 years ago because it was from China with Chinese printing and we went there with the kids for a holiday then.
That was the only time she could have got it from China.

It is definitely a morning after pill because I bought morning after pills for my mistress before and I knew the scientific name of the drug.

She knew about this incident because I was cleaning the house with her as I found the box and I asked her.
At first she said she didn't know what is the content, but I read it and told her this is a morning after pill.
She then said she was afraid of being rape and I thought it was a lame excuse.
Anyway, I am not angry at all and the whole conversation was like just being curious how there is such an empty box at home?

I am also not angry at all because I really believe in men and women equality.
I had started my FB adventure since 4 years ago, and really have no moral high grounds to be angry with her.
However, if she had been unfaithful, she did it 6 years earlier than I did!
In any case, I am really relaxed about if and just brushed it off. I really forgot about it in the next few days, but then suddenly remember I could ask the bro and sis here what they think about it?

No, I am not about to create a storm with her and get divorced.
In fact, the case is already closed and I just didn't further discuss with her anymore.

My last few years of FB adventure really makes me think that it is sex only.
I need the sex and I know my FBs have their sexual needs too and some other emotional needs depending on their state of mind at that moment.
I am still a very responsible husband and father and really care for the family.
There is no way I will scarify them.

Please continue to post if you have other interpretation of the incident?
I am curious to know.

I think its ok that if your wife really seeing someone else for the past 20 years of marriage since you are also aware that karma has playing with both of you both round and round. Its called open marriage concept if im not wrong.Its nothing new. Will - Jada Smith had already done that. While the affair person was someone they knew well. Similarly, your wife's FB (provided she has) could be some Samster as well. Nothing wrong mah,since the rule of the game is just purely sex,no emotional attached. Even your mistress could also have some other FB/FWB as well. What most important thing is never ever neglect your both responsibilities as parent/guardian to your children.

[superstiffy]

bro... dun think so much la... this kind of thing if want to hide is forever wont discover one... still got chance let u find the box meh? u mean ur wife let you wear green hat, eat pill liao then keep the box for souvenir ah? cannot be right...

more possible is after ur last child... u still like to do raw... but she dun dare to tell u to wear condom so just buy the pill for insurance lo... in case u misfire then can eat....

my guess la...

[Neoguri]

Originally Posted by superstiffy

bro... dun think so much la... this kind of thing if want to hide is forever wont discover one... still got chance let u find the box meh? u mean ur wife let you wear green hat, eat pill liao then keep the box for souvenir ah? cannot be right...

more possible is after ur last child... u still like to do raw... but she dun dare to tell u to wear condom so just buy the pill for insurance lo... in case u misfire then can eat....

my guess la...

Thanks for your advice.
I tend to think like you said so as well.

[Neoguri]

Originally Posted by phantomboyz

I think its ok that if your wife really seeing someone else for the past 20 years of marriage since you are also aware that karma has playing with both of you both round and round. Its called open marriage concept if im not wrong.Its nothing new. Will - Jada Smith had already done that. While the affair person was someone they knew well. Similarly, your wife's FB (provided she has) could be some Samster as well. Nothing wrong mah,since the rule of the game is just purely sex,no emotional attached. Even your mistress could also have some other FB/FWB as well. What most important thing is never ever neglect your both responsibilities as parent/guardian to your children.

Totally agree too.
I did the same thing with my mistress too. - bought morning after pill for her.

[LordVader]

Pills have expiry date.

10 years old pills even if taken will not work.