Abortion !

[Siong2]

Think all brothers here thinks the same.
Pls do consider.

[banker]

Originally Posted by camelot

I think you have done your part by making the arrangements for the abortion. Her bf whom she obviously cares for more than for you should accompany her. She is just taking advantage of your good nature and feelings for her. You should just give her up and look for someone else...Btw the cost is reasonable as it is around $500 here. But make sure it is not a quack doctor.

the basterd dun have passport. (company keep)
quack doctor ? i found one is a " fu chan ke ", which also do delivery.
around rm500, i also think it is reasonable.
next time any bro need this info.....pm me...haha

i will not bother her again, unless she call me.
if by then, she didn't call, then who cares ?
she is the one who need my help.

but, if she need me, i will help her for one last time.
i will ask her if she really really want me to accompany her.
and i will straight talk to her, tell her what i feel, pour everthings out,
take it or leave it, i don't care, i have enuf.
i will not treat her as like b4.

people don't know how to appreciate things until it is gone.

[BustLover]

Bro Banker, Singapore man got no standard one meh?

Come on man, you have already given and provided her so much, yet she still choose to stick to that China man. That being the case, let her find her own way to abort the baby.

I don't suggest you accompany her least that idiotic China-man thinks that he can dump her anytime knowing that you will be there to collect the shit.

So much for my contribution. If you think it is reasonable, help me to UP my points to realise my target. Thank you.

[BustLover]

To the (-2 pointer) coward that hid under women skirt, who zap me with this remark:-
"wat did u do to deserve pp to UPz u? dream onz....."

I thank you. At least I dare to contribute openly. Not like you, a coward!:

Why you dare not put your name down? Are you a orphan?

[poison]

since u mention that her bf knows about u, how come the bf cannot accompany her there instead?? U being a friend, is nice to do the arrangement for her, knowing that u will help, dun let them take advantage of u or u just bring the 2 of them there. This type of thing, i think is better for the couple to handle themselves. Furthermore, u did not fathered the unborn.

[XmenSEX]

Dear Bro Banker,

From your story, it is very clear cut that she only need your accompany for a year without her bf around...sex in raw (sibei song)...maybe some $$ assistance.
Once her bf is here, she no longer keen on you. She did raw with her bf oso. Think carefully, if she really love u, she will never do that.
Whether to help her or not is no longer a concern.....just dump her and search for a new one. The only medicine to cure ur feeling is TIME ! nothing to worry about.....Enjoy new bonk and new gal!!

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by banker

will you guys bring your beloved girl to do abortion, especially you knew this is not done by you ?

in your case, you are fulfilling the role of? the nanny? anyway her bf is gonna give you a medal.

[beingunknown200]

Originally Posted by ahpaul25

Bro, heal my advise, I damn pro with PRC gals......don make yrself suffer with them, just do what a man require to do, gers need the urge, we,MAN, desire their needs and shower our care to them would do. Even I myself knew too many prc gals......if she is true to u, TRUST me, u will get everything given by her,that u even can't believe it, and now, I have engage with her..... Many of her "sisters" also like me.......my "wife" even share me with them....so now u will feel how well u are been treated by PRC........

sounds like u have been "hot-husband" instead!

[V|ernar]

sigh , brother banker.

you still dont understand?

you are just somebody she need when she is lonely or need help.

the repayment? sex.

the moment her bf appear... you are nothing.

somebody that doesnt had the right to call someone , telling her you miss her and how much you love her.

somebody that got to wait to be call , i bet she hardly remember your name when she is with her bf.

abortion?

you are doing something very stupid.. she is killing a child in order to stay in singapore and you are the helper.

i believe in karma , dont do bad deeds.. not even helping someone to commit a sin , cause it might happen to you somedays.. and you wish the same as me.

god bless brother.

[dustbin11]

hi bro banker, this is my first reply on this forum man. u should be honored....
what i want to share with u is that i had in fact the same situation as urs. Man.. except for the abortion part though.. this type of ger is reali using us.. u know.. honest responsible type .. getting advises from all bros here helps.. but it depends on u personally whether to let go of her or..not... just think of the way she treated u. when her bf ard.. she doesnt even care abt u.. even if u are lonely.. when she needs u.. u are always here... issit fair?? U ARE BEING USED... MY GOD.. dun think abt that free sex thing bro.. think abt how she uses u... in the end.. u are NOTHING to her.. NOTHING.... dun be a fool to be used by her.. (i am also referring to myself..LOL)
cheers!!

[5ag1_Boar]

Depends on how you feel about abortion. I've done it once (my own flesh and blood). Regret till I die.

Arrange for her, ask her to get one of her girlfriends to go with her. After that, cut contact.

She only comes to you when she needs help or company. Once the bf is here, she pushed you aside. What does that tell you? Even if after the abortion she wants to be with you, what is her reason? Guilt? Gratutude? Is worth it? Will she change her mind again? Let her go. Tell her she owe you nothing and let go of you after all this is done. Completely cut contact.

Good luck, bro. And may you have strength to do what you have to do.

[lemeinpls]

bro banker,
forgetit and lead a better life with another girl.
well you might find another china girl.
there are so many china girls in singapore...

[ken_v2]

i agree with most brudders had adviced. think with your big head. so what you got intimate with her previously, you were only the sub. move on brudder. let she and her bf go settle their own problems.

[eastmanwai]

Bro banker,

Just help as a fren lor !

[wildbeast]

Confused Banker,

Baby not yours, rightfully not your responsibility. Why bother? The BF not going to say THANK YOU BRO FOR REMOVING MY FOETUS. Why make yourself sinful?????? Believe or not: KARMA. Somemore, u r "killing" other ppl baby!

Like other bros said, she LOVE you or substituting u as her BF. Gal has urge and needs sexually too. How abt yourself to her? Have u thot of marrying her? U know she has BF in china and u know they still in touch n yet u carry on.... I doubt the word LOVE to be used here. Nothing offensive here hor bro.

Juz hope ur big head will rule the smaller one now and think wisely b4 act. IMHO move on bro. U hv not done anything wrong to this gal. I feel she simply not the type to cry over the aborted foetus. Not worth ur headache. One yr together nevertheless got some feelings involved. Please think biggger picture.... Now pain better than next time perish right!!!

Treat me as bullshitting if u feel i am sprouting nonsense. Life is yours, you are the OWNER. Do wat u feel is RIGHT!!!